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SHOULD PARTNERS SHARE PASSWORD?

SHARING PASSWORD WITH YOUR PARTNER

THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE, LITERALLY HIDE NOTHING. But is it true there is always nothing to hide? Obviously not. Kids even have secrets.
So will you share your laptop, phone, social media password, or email password with your partner or will you change your password when your partner sees it?
I was expecting a serious call for a job interview, my phone rang whilst in the shower, so I couldn’t pick it fast, so I ask my husband to get the call for me, the call ended before he got to the bathroom so I had to mention my password for him to return the call for me, the next day, he picked my phone and realized I have changed my password and he became very upset.
How do you handle the misunderstanding that comes with changing the password when your partner sees your password and you change it afterward?
What is a password anyway?
A SECRET WORD OR PHRASE THAT MUST BE USED TO GAIN ADMISSION TO SOMETHING. THE MEANING TO THE WORD PASSWORD HAS OBVIOUSLY EXPLAINED IT SECRECY TO ACCESSIBILITY.
“IF YOU DON’T KNOW THE PASSWORD YOU CAN’T COME IN”
CERTAINLY YES, WOMAN, OR LET SAY MAN! DONT COME IN.

Sharing password with your partner has its own merit and demerit, but remember the genesis of all healthy relationship is trust, most often than not, the idea of password and its shareability comes up if the trust is not the foundation.
• You are merited to be on check, who comes and go off your phone OR social media. Since you are consciously monitored by your partner, possibly to keep you in check from cheating maybe.
• Your ability to share your password also shows how transparent you are in the relationship.
• Sharing password also helps in terms of emergency when you forget your laptop or phone in the house and you in need of important message from your phone.

But the question is? Is sharing password really the newest trend for successful relationship or marriage?
I don’t mean to misuse the word of God in vain but let take a critical look here, Jesus said I and my father are one without knowing when God will order the angels to sound the trumpet other than interceding for us human, the main focus here is secrecy, password, code.
Believe me or not, “a child will die even when he’s in the pope’s pocket”, same to a man or a woman who by all reason want to cheat on a partner.

• One of the major DEMERIT with sharing a password with your partner mostly is a misunderstanding of what she or he sees provoking or misinterpreting, the pressure goes high, tantrums rip up unnecessarily,
Be a disciple of God and keep whatever you doing with your password to yourself.
Nobody intends to cheat, there is always a reason for everything. But honestly, I don’t agree with sharing a password with my partner because we all human have a deep secret.


No matter how sincere or honest you can be in your relationship, there is some secret best known to you and you alone.
Beloved password is secret and so shall it be.
Be like Jesus and stop fishing for what is not or might not be healthy for your heart.
Due to password sharing, someone’s marriage is on the divorce scale, because the man keeps accessing the wife’s phone constantly, counting the number of times his wife’s boss calls her phone, due to this same phone assessment, he wanted his wife to stop the job that even survives the family, the man has now realized how “foolish” he has been, because he can’t even pay his own kids school fees for over seven school terms of separation.
In my opinion, don’t attempt sharing a password with your partner whether you trust the person or not, that just privacy, for a safe, free, fair and healthy relationship or heartbeat.

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DIGNITY IS THE PRIDE OF A WOMAN

DIGNITY IS THE PRIDE OF EVERY WOMAN

Sex is love, is that really true? Hmm, that is what majority are saying though. On a Saturday morning, you decide to take a stroll, to exercise your body. Your face towel probably fell from your shoulder, suddenly you hear ‘ hello dear’, and turned around only to face a fine gentleman,   He hands over your face towel to you, and with a sweet voice, he said “your face towel fell from your shoulder”, you extend your hand to take it and with a smile on your face you say ‘thank you’ and leave, he also goes his way.

The next Saturday you wake up, freshen up, and decide to go for jogging again. On your way back home you meet this same gentleman you met some few days ago, you greet him and he responds. You decide to continue your jogging, and then he finally says ‘can I speak to you for 2 minutes? He introduces himself and, you should know he wants to know your name also, hence you don’t wait for him to ask, lol. You also introduce yourself to him. That’s where the two minutes extends to a longer conversation, finally you both exchange contacts. He says can we be friends, and you gladly accept.
You decide to leave, and then he adds in a very sweet voice ‘can I escort you home if you do not mind’ you refuse him, but he insists, you know some guys right? Charlie, you can’t refuse this fine gentleman, just say yes, you don’t even know where this voice is coming from, ha. You then say yes with a smile, you know what I mean right? The conversation continues, first time conversation, lol. You love to jog in his voice, you respond yes as usual with a smile. The conversation continues thereon.

Hmmm, were you crushing on him? Hihihi. He didn’t even refuse, he follows you inside. He sits in the hall as you go to the kitchen, poured fruit juice in to two glasses. You give him a glass of juice, and you take the other glass. After taking the glass of juice, you escort him to the gate and finally wave goodbye, he says we will chat later in the evening, ‘eii there norrr’.

In the evening, after the normal shower, you lie on your bed to read some few online messages you have received, you were waiting for that special message from that special fine boy, I don’t know whether you have already developed feelings for him, but I can say you were crushing on him bad, bad, bad. You feel like typing hi, but c’ mon that’s not possible though ‘hahaha’, you feel he should rather approach you first.
Around 10pm you have already given up, and you were finally dozing off when your phone beeps, you wake up immediately, if mummy had called you to help her out, I bet you would pretend you were sleeping, you take your phone and say hi, you respond back,the conversation continued till it was 1am. He says good night sweetie and you broadly smile.
This friendship continues, you go out to the cinema to watch movies, he visits you very often, as time goes on he sends you to his house, at this point, I can say you have developed a very strong relationship. Whether it is friendship or boy- girl relationship I can’t tell.
Friday evening he comes to your house and as usual you were having a conversation, the “I don’t know what happened” you were staring at each other very closely, then he draw near you, you could feel his body touching yours, perhaps you liked it because you didn’t resist him, he went on to kiss you, you respond back, and boom, you were naked. You had eaten the forbidden fruit. The bed sheet was stained with your blood, you were a virgin.
After the incidence you could not face each other, you were kind of ashamed, you look at yourself with disgust , he leaves the house and you go to the washroom to wash yourself. The friendship\ lemme say relationship continued, he told you along the line that he loves you, you were not too sure to enter a relationship, but you decide to give it a try. It was fun and interesting, you ate the forbidden fruit again and again, and probably you really enjoyed it.

Some months later, you realized you are pregnant, you tell him and he says he is not responsible. Hmmm, which prove do you have to even prove yourself, forget about DNA test, it can be done after the baby has landed into the world. You can’t face the world because, you had developed a big belly, mmmmh, that’s not the problem but you know people will mock at you. Some months later you hear your guy is getting married. He marries and leave with his ‘Abafresh’, your life has become very miserable. Single parenting, you know what I mean; your parents have disowned you now.
Yeah, you have to take care of this baby, and in order to do that, you need to get money. You meet one or a few guys who decide to help you but you know in this world nothing is free. They also have a share in the forbidden fruit, mmmmmh, and then some days later you fall sick and go to the hospital only to hear the doctor tell you are HIV positive.

I will end my story here, but the question is who is going to marry you even if you are able to survive, I have heard stories about AIDS being curable, but I’m still wondering if a doctor can cure HIV. You’ve lost a precious gift, YOUR VIRGINITY!
My advice to the youth especially to the females out there, you are a very special creature. You have to keep in mind that your virginity is your dignity. At least wait till you get married, keep that precious gift safely for Mr. Right.is there anything like that? It is good to enter into a relationship, but you must cultivate the spirit of self control. Breaking your virginity before marriage brings about disgrace and disrespect. (in most cases” Strive to uphold your dignity. The fact that he says he loves you doesn’t mean you should allow him to eat the forbidden fruit. Always remember sex is not love. The guy can move on in life ooh, it is only some few girls that are able to catch up in life.
Oh yeah, some guys may say if you do not have sex with me, it means you do not love me, and if you do not give in, they threaten to break the relationship. My dear, let them go, it means he is not worthy for you. Always keep this in mind that whenever you allow a guy who is not yet married to you break your virginity, he sees you as a cheap girl. So even if your relationship leads to marriage, anytime you are far away from him, he suspects you are in a relationship with some other guy, because you easily allowed him, he thinks you will allow any other guy.

Keeping your virginity till after marriage also proves how willing you are to obey God’s commandment. Imagine your daddy buys you a gift and wrap it in a gift box, plan to give it to you on your birthday. Because you are eager and curious to know what’s there in the box, you open it before your birthday. How will daddy feel, he will be disappointed and feel very sad since you didn’t wait.
That is how God feels when you break your virginity before the marriage. If you make it a priority to please God, you please the right people. To the fine gentlemen out there, it is very difficult to detect if a guy is a virgin or not, but always remember nothing can be hidden from God.

“YOUR VIRGINITY IS YOUR DIGNITY, AND YOUR DIGNITY IS YOUR NUMBER 1 PRIOPITY”
It is not always one’s fault when she can’t keep herself until marriage, life comes with a lot of challenges and regrets, if one can’t keep herself until marriage it could be for peculiar reasons, we cant judge people by their actions all the time because we are not perfect ourselves, just learn to correct your mistakes and make life better in whatever situation you find yourself.

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HEAL THE BREAKUP

heal the breakup

Hello kukies

It’s a new day full of GOODNESS and Gods blessing. The weather is a bit cold here this morning in Ghana and am here enjoying tasteless apple Cider vinegar for God knows why, lol.
You are most welcome to my webpage,#relationshipchatroom, On this page we get acquainted with issues and concerns with love and share ideas base on our practical life experiences to encourage and inspire. Remember! We are totally individual from different CULTURAL BACKGROUND, BELIEVES, and understanding.
“One trick to easy life I have to learn is to keep my heart safe and keep to myself what I believe in and add up what necessarily beneficial for me”
I will proudly say with conviction that I miss boys in my life growing up because we are three girls and being the elders of them all, I had to live leadership by example.
Growing up, I was attracted to matured people than young men actually and that thought me a lot about men, I mostly feel like I didn’t mature gradually because I mostly rout with men.
Over a decade of my life MEN complain why they start a beautiful relationship with ladies and in less than a week they lose interest.OSANA! I might be one of those girls who easily gilt off guys at the slightest “ish” attitude and deem it a blessing to share because sharing actually is caring, my seven-year niece learned from kindergarten, lol
So this my personal tricks for healing yourself from breakups.

CRY! SHOUT AND EAT: I positively might not know why God added tears to human life but I think it was for the better, a lot of people argue with me when I ask victims of breakup to cry.trust me, crying heals.In my few years of existing I have cried so so many times, oh no not always shedding tears for breakups but just to heal the pain and get tired of crying.so heal with tears and don’t mind those who say” it fine, it is not fine because am hurt” believe it or not, we turn to cry even more when we are told to stop crying.

SET BOUNDARIES: It’s obvious that some of us, inclusively, we break up and still want to talk ourselves to death, no! no!dont stalk them.in as much as we stalk them, we also refuse to set those boundaries mentally, God In his own infinite mercies created memories to be part of humanity for several reasons, so do how we can manage what we want to remember and what we want to put behind us.
In most cases, so of our exes try to check up on us whilst we are sobbing our agonies or troubles,m dear!if he didn’t choose you to be with you, don’t choose to accept his or her sympathy.set that boundary.

 

HAVE A SOBER REFLECTION ON YOUR LIFE: OPTIONALLY SEEk for counseling if possible but I personally think you can do this because we are smart and brave.most often than not,75%of breakup has something to do with ourselves but we chose to ignore it.
I know someone who got married to a man who raped her, yes you heard me right, was she a fool?no, she was at her life stage she felt, she needed a man in her life.but the question is, was that man the right man at the point in her life? what reflection do you have in your life right now?is it the education that you need now, or a career or self-love?
Use this breakup for our good. start doing what you love or passionate about, reflect on your part of the relationship you think you were offline, analyze your mistakes and work at it.

 

CUT, BLOCK AND DELETE: I am one person I don’t take chances with people when am not comfortable because human beings can be poisonous, they will suck the hell out of your heaven, block, cut and delete them.self-healing is vital in breakups. its permanent and not temporary.this is the time of our life you need time for yourself to live and not time to watch your exes status or Instagram stories to spy on what and who they are with.erase them if you don’t stand to lose anything.

CHOSE SELF LOVE AND LIVE LIFE: I can recount my life and say that, I have not to experience breakup before but I have loved people who inturn never loved me back and that’s the beauty of life and love.
In the year 2014, I decided to choose self-love, celibate and enjoy my life with all that I can offer myself and not what others can offer me. besides, what can a man do for you.i won’t say loving someone is not good but loving yourself, without doubt, is the key or room for allowing someone better to love you.
I have not regretted loving myself without a relationship for over five years now.
In this years, I have found my real self and passion, my confidence level is higher, my competent level is massively elevating daily and the urge and the love for myself keeps upgrading.
So after that unbearable breakup, love yourself and chose to live!!

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SELFLOVE IS THE NEW RECIPE FOR WOMAN POWER.

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Hello super lovely people,its your one and only online stalker,positive stalker tho,lol.

Welcome to the amazing blog site ever,yes I self claim it  in Jesus Name..oh yes.

Its #relationshipchatroom ladies,so i have been recieving a lot of messages on selflove and how to super love oneselve without turning back,so there you go lovelies.

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So I call it #womanpower.Ladies that is your power.however way you are treated is how you carry,see or relate with people,so how do you see yourself?

How do you make people see you.

What reaction do you get when they see you?

LADY!!! all the answers are in you loving your self.

Growing up,I was so much fat,big or plumb…decoratively.but one thing  I discovered fast at that age is loving myself to attract same love  from people.

But before then,this is what I did.

you can’t gather your struggles that makes you feel less of inner love until you identify and gather them inorder to strategies ways to overcome.

I want to be loved by all but my size was my hinderance,yours could be physical,emotional or physchological.

Gather them and stratagies how to overcome them.

Even before identifying them,seek help with dignity and gratitude.

There is always a topic for discussion as well as a case to understudy.

What could be your painful experience that you can go like “now it over,you cant get me or look down on me.”

Permit me to say “pain is painful and unforgetable,use them,channel them positively to inspire yourself  to move on and never giveup.

My field of losing myself love was my weight,yours could be looks or any other deficiency.work at it to your widest imagination to build yourself.

I practically had to fast 15 hours sometimes  in a day or week.

For good three months, I was off carbohydrates  for 3months now and counting.

I have gracefully lost 10Ibs in 3 month and i feel my confident level is super amazing.

What do you love to do?what drives you?

Ladies don’t sit for someone to take you out before you can be happy,busy yourself,find something you are  passionate about,be financially incline and build yourself with what you love doing.I am passionate about writting,crazily business minded,love blogging,I don’t really like being idle to think about my pains or losses.

Be driven by your passion and make good use of time.

Let our level change,upgrade yourself,loss that weight,do that makeup,change that wardrobe.

Branding is very important,I remember anytime I post pictures or videos in my whatsapp status or social media, I get massive likes and followers,that the power of branding.

Those who dislike you will see you in shame and bow their heads.

That guy who brokeup painfully with you because of your size or looks will see you and marvel.

NOTE:If he didnt listen to you when you were crying and wanted to talk to him, dont look back when he comes back begging.

Shoulders high,chinup,levelup and rule your POWER zone.

You deserve to be loved against all odds.Take charge,rule and never let your self love go off you.

“The only investment a woman can make or legacy,she can leave behind is investing in her own and only self ,the power of loving herself ,not forgetting her pains,stuggles and broken hearts  but naturing her experience into positive energy to rule her woman power.

KUKS.

 

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