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June 2019

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AND SO WHAT?

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Never compare yourself to anyone,
Some people may take days to reach their dreams,
Others months or even years,
Never wish to be like them because all fingers are not the same.

No matter how long time may seem,
Always remember life is an express road, and overtaking is allowed,
You are not in a competition with anyone,
With perseverance and determination, you will get there someday.

He is rich and has attention and so what?
She is beautiful and so what?
She is a fair colored lady and so you want to bleach? Hmm
You are also beautiful in your own way,
Oh yeah she was my mate, and she is now in the university, and so what?
Do you know what he or she had gone through before he got there?
Do not envy someone’s grace if you do not know the pain he had gone through.

Just be you, the road might not be too smooth, and it might be rough,
But you need to strive very hard till you also achieve your dreams.
Never commit the mistake of saying I wished I was him or I wished I was her,
Be yourself,
If you do not appreciate yourself, no one else would.
The best is still ahead of you.

And so what?

WRITTEN BY: IRENE DE POET

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HOW LONG SHOULD WOMEN TOLERATE CRAZY MEN?

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They say patience is a great virtue but silence is not golden (KAUI DANKU) neither is tolerance easy. There are people we accommodate, others we consider and some we just front strong face for.
It hurt to the born, sometimes teary, other times feels like giving up.
Am not a superwoman neither do I want to put up a strong face with people that kill silently?
There is no collapsing relationship or marriage that can vet on the fact that the red flags lalipoping now which is jeopardizing the marriage today were not seen at the beginning of the marriage.
Woman are naturally overprotected and defensive creatures but they are the most precious creature that God is keen about, so don’t take them for granted.
She might have been vulnerable or desperate for dippy reasons but they are the most dangerous beings that whatever you do to them comes back to you (karma).
It saddens my heart and soul when you meet people you care about and do all things possible to adjust to each other on the grounds of love but you are never appreciated but rather look a fool to them, just because no matter what they do, you still care about them. It’s so crazy huh?

This is some basic things I have tolerated for almost two years of our friendship and am kind of proud of myself.
DISCLAIMER: it’s not easy so don’t try to tolerate the below mention if your maturity level hasn’t grown up to my stage.

He said what sapping is for important purposes, not just texting anyhow demanding reply’s, so he drops a sentence after texting him a whole week.

He’s always busy doing one thing or the other if he makes time, he leaves early, oh which life be that one?

 

If he offends you, he asks for reasons why he should apologize, eeeiiiish sister!

He doesn’t show up in a mutual plan date and claim he had an emergency on his way out to meet you leaving his phone in car, that means no appearance and he doesn’t call back in days to say sorry unless you bring heaven and earth down on your own to reach him and his excuses…OMG and you are his…….?

You wait for him for two hours without apologies but leaves in five minutes when you are late……please can you tell me who is that?

You give him a surprise visit and gives you attitudes but complain when you don’t pass by when you in his area, oh sister stop talking, I can’t bear this again.

You are so anxious to help him, check up on him, find out how his day went or how did the exams go and he never cares to say thanks for checking up on me.himmm

When won’t call to let you know whether he can come or not when he says I will pick you at 7 pm, you better start moving for your life?

He’s the first to ask how your schedule is during the weekend or the days but never show up.

He can switch his mood for months without picking our calls or replying our text messages, sister stop worry yourself because of he careless about you!

He is always aggressive on the topic concerning women and claims all women are the same. His sexual orientation or experience is terrible. He needs psychological help.

He spends time on his birthday with people he claim they are never around when needed them except for having time but gilt those who care about him, the schedule you are the last minute on his birthday and trust me for gold, he won’t show up or call to conceal the appointment, who cares about the plans you have for him?

Oh, his victim mentality is killing, he does something he needs to apologize but turn it around like you rather the worse one, man this is typical psychological and emotional abuse.

You get an accident or fall sick to hell with you expecting a visit.

Nobody is totally worst because he’s sweet when around but trust me, love is a beautiful thing. I have always believed that love is love when someone you care about reciprocates how you really care about him or her. it’s not necessarily sexual or romantic love or just friendship love.

Love only loves when you still love even when you are hurt.
Its heart bleeding, emotional torture and draining, but in all I still advise you love unconditionally.
I have grown out of his behavior to be one great and strong woman I never dreamt of becoming just because I gave up countlessly but I still overlooked and still care.

I might not know how he thinks or feels about me, probably I don’t deserve his respect, love, care, and appreciation.
But one thing that encourages me most is that he will one day if not forever remember there was one fool he knew that tolerated me.

That won’t give me world best women tolerant but never give up loving or caring for people who care less about you, it might be your calling.

TO BE CONTINUE IN PART 2

 

IMAGE CREDIT TO NETFATO_GH ON IG.

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DON’T DIE IN YOUR STORM, IT SHALL PASS.

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#PRACTICALLIFEEXPERIENCETHATINSPIRES

Hi lovely people, it a new day full of greatness and am here again to give you tasty soul pancake that will brighten the corner where you are,aaaiiii PENSA members where you at? lol

Am overly honored to share an inspiring story of a young lady who sees the lightbox at the end of the tunnel and never allowed the immediate darkness of her struggle overpower her.

Be inspired and share your comment down below continue the train.ENJOY.

 The day I thought I had finally reached my destination, but boom I was disappointed unfortunately I couldn’t reach. I was downhearted, I cried, I lost appetite. I wished it was a dream, but unfortunately, I was facing reality. All I could say was; “life has not been fair to me, why me?” But as time went on encouragement from my loved ones healed my wounds gradually and brought me back to life. I was actually refused a visa application.

 

Though growing up has not been easy though, but the most important thing I have learned in life is to always push hard and never give up no matter how tough the journey is. I put God first in everything I do and my dad’s advice has kept me on track till date. He always says; pleasing God should be your topmost priority, if I’m willing to please God then he will make my life very beautiful. Anytime I face many challenges, I always remember my dad’s advice. Wherever I find myself I   try to please God. I know for sure that if God is on my side, it doesn’t matter who is against me. I know and believe that even though the journey has not been smooth, God will never leave me. I have been through a lot but I still hold on to my faith, I know the Lord will bring me to a successful end. My mom has also cautioned me to be careful of friends. They can influence me positively or negatively. I am going to make my parents proud, someday, I will get there. That day I will shed tears not because I am sad but because I have reached my destination. Before I take any decision in life, I don’t think about myself only, but my surname since it is the family’s name. Whatever decision I take can either honor or tarnish the image of my family.

My dad’s advice prevent me from backsliding, mom’s prayer keeps me moving, brother’s encouragement gives me hope, sister’s achievement makes me work harder, and above all God is my ultimate strength.

Never give up;

In life, one might face I lot of challenges, but always strive hard, never give up.

The road might not be smooth always, but try not to give up.

People you know may have moved to the top, never compare yourself to them, very soon your star will also shine, even brighter.

The disappointment will come your way, but stand firm.

It is good to fall, but make sure you rise again.

People will mock at you, others will betray you, but always remember, you are strong therefore giving up is not in your dictionary.

Mistakes are meant to be done but learn from your mistakes.

Life will seem unfair sometimes, but always remember not to give up.

It might take weeks, months, or even years to reach your dreams or achieve your goals, but always remember you are a strong person and therefore you are not ready to give up till you finally get there.

You will get to the top.

Nana Adwoa

 

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HOW PEOPLE GET UNNECESSARY STRESSED UP AND FRAUSTRATED AT WORK?

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Hello, lovelies,
It another lifestyle corner with yours crazily kuks, today we are tackling a sensitive issue or topic I think it’s worth briefing with you guys, get closer darling it might help you or your friends at work, wink!
Fortunately or unfortunately people go off, moody, frustrated and stress most often at work and you go like waaw, today is not really fun at work, why? Because of those, we laugh and play with are possibly in the spirit, lol obviously not but just inspiring negativity kills positive vibes.
Could it always be home or family issues?
unaccomplished or unfulfilled dreams or past?
Betrayals and disappointment?
Let me refer you to the worlds number one and first billionaire OPRAH WINFREY.
SHE WAS SACKED FROM HER JOB FOR CRYING ON AIR. STRESSED AND FRUSTRATED FROM RACISM COMMENT IN THE NEWSROOM, FIELD REPORT, SHEARED PAINFUL EMOTIONAL TEARS ON TOUCHY STORIES, BUT ALL SHE SAID” THE GREATEST OUTRAGEOUS ACT THAT WE MUST ALL DO IS TO HAVE THE COURAGE TO STEP OUT OF OUR PAST AND HISTORY SO WE CAN LIVE OUR DREAMS
OPRAY’SS JOURNEY IS PROOF THAT THE PATH TO SUCCESS IS RARELY EVER SIMPLE.

Even if it is, we still lose our balance to differentiate our feelings from home with how we feel at work. Mixtape I guess? My short period at work makes me rather pity some people especially when they worry and stress themselves to death without profit.
According to my observation, before I forget, our elders have a saying that, you can’t kill two birds with one stone, so separate work from home issues but hey it, not porridge to be stirring, you need Buckingham palace roles and order to pull through.
Now on the real business on what you actually eager to know.
Aside from family, relationship, children, etc, Some colleagues or friends get madly moody or frown when at work. Sweetie pie don’t be or better still get some hot pepper with boil egg of which I know you love it and free yourself with this bondage.

6 REASONS WHY PEOPLE UNNECESSARY GET STRESSED AND FRUSTRATED AT WORK

AM THE ONLY ONE DOING ALL: the champion Attah, Mayweather, all knower, this are the name they call such people. Darling, you are stress, moody and frustrated because you have proven so, with rejecting people’s idea or hard work. Obviously, you are a victim of proving negative relevance, your team members are tired of you that why you are stressed and frown doing all the job and dying.
What should I do then? Million dollar question, dear, human relationship is very vital in the cooperate world and the earlier you learn to improve your communication, teaching, appreciating others skills the better.

INTIMIDATION: This is my most difficult stressful factor I have seen people go through in cooperate places like mine for instance, the chances of a film student getting job and rising to higher level is impeccably massive than someone who studied agriculture, but darling on a more serious note you are at the wrong environment, the earlier you jeopardize your carrier or your hobby by learning from people, the better than feeling intimated, stress and moody.
Watch out for the continuation of the next story.

NEGATIVE LIFE OF RELEVANCE: This stress generated attitude is more energy killing than any other. In my field of expertise, some people unreasonably do everything just to be seen or to be recognized than equipping people to help them out. You are strong with high energy level today so you are directing, switching, producing and want to prompt? Darling is good to be multitasking but hey! all days are not equal you might need that help, your negative deceit of wanting to be relevant by one person could possibly blow out in a mass number of people or better still the whole world when you believe, inspire and equip people around you to work together to save the stress alone.

SELF CONFIDENCE: I have got myself kit Kat bar so before I continue with this particular point, let me breathe, take a bit and a sip some water first because it was one of my self-struggle as a plus size girl in the cooperate world where different sizes rob your faces every day. lol, let safe it for another blog yeah? God! Now self-confident, lack of it for that matter is common victimizing stress in my office. trust me some people even lose the little they have just because they are affected by this insufficient self-confident people because they inspired negatively, hindering people’s talent and capabilities due to their insufficiencies. You are a victim, right? No big deal next time help build someone’s confident, possibly you will be inspired to gather self-confident momentum.

“WORDS: can be like x-rays if you use them properly — they’ll go through anything. You read and you’re pierced.” ― Aldous Huxley, brave new world
This obviously is one of my favorite quotes. The bible says good and bad are in our tongue, how well you plant it, generate more harvest. But some people around makes as mad, stress us, moody, you name the rest….just because they are our supervisors, leader, bosses. If you had to change your words towards your subordinate, you would have helped someone to increase productivity.

LACK OF APPRECIATION: I am not actually moved when you appreciate me or not, you know why, am not perfect, I try my best in the little I do, let me know where am wrong and I will correct it myself and appreciate myself. I have come to a point in my life where people practically lack appreciation for what they do, so why will they say well done when they are practically doing more than you without being appreciated, but is that how the world should be? My dear don’t kill yourself, live life to the max if you are not appreciated.
I can go on and on this case, but I will advise you stop frustrating yourself on expecting much from people, there is all new level when you are appreciated, motivated and encouraged.so see through the pivot of where you fall short on the above discussed and heal yourself. I hope this little piece can go a long way to distress and free your frustration in any way possible? Please don’t hesitate to share your experience with us in the comment section because I love to hear from you.
Have a bless Friday!!!
Kuks

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7 MADE IN GHANA YOU MUST BUY

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AFRICAN IS NOT JUST A PLACE IT A FEELING, AFRICAN IS THE HEART OF THE WORLD AND THERE IS ONLY A FEW US WHO HAS BEEN TOUCHED  BY WHAT WE ARE AND WHO WE ARE, AFRICAN DEFINE OUR SOUL AND PEOPLE CAN FEEL IT. PEOPLE JUST KNOW.

I am a Ghana girl and everything made in Ghana is my pride and heritage, visiting places like food festivals, castles, and other interesting places really excite me.

There are a lot of made in Ghana items that symbolizes who we are as Africans and how fascinated we are with our food, clothing, and our culture.

So today am going to share with you my 7 amazing items that identify us as Ghanaians and why you dare not resist them when you visit the local shops or made on Ghana festivals OR on vacation to Ghana.

FOOD AND DRINK

 

In every organized made in Ghana events, the first eyesight that catches your attention or the center of attraction is the colourful display of African food and drinks made with the soul of our culture and heritage.

ANKARA DRESSES

Africans have change their perceptions from foreign ready made to locally sown fabric from GTP,WOODIN,ANKARA and many more locally made fabrics into amazing designs for daily consumption.formally,Ghanaians wear made in Ghana dresses only to church but now,it been move from even the Friday wear to daily ware sown to suite all occasions.why then resist them when ou can get church wear,beach wear, dinner wear, party wear and even club wear.

 

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ANKARA PURSE AND DRESSES

Can you tell me or show me how many women who doesn’t like purses and bags made with quality fabrics from Ghana and most importantly to present as gift for your love ones

 

This practically my favorite because the purses are very cute and easily carriable .ladies hand bag are cherish able when dash as gift to them because we adore it.trust me this is from a ladies perspective

HAND WEAVEN HUT

This are very typical  hand made hut commonly use by our forefathers in the northern part of Ghana,funny enough,i use to think hut or caps are only use as shades.believe it or not.lol but to day it one of the greatest fashion piece patronized worldwide and they never go wrong with antic and Ankara print.irresistable

 

BEADWORKS

 

Growing up the word beads only sound waist to as a true citizen of the land, it was believe that, a real woman is a woman with beads on her waist. Beads are not really touched or felt but rather seen his is because our forefathers believe it shape the waist of a girl child, it was even use to determine

how well,tall,lim or fat you are ,over the years beads have been developed into numerous ways like anklet,earrings,bags,key holder and many more irriestables.so don’t pass by when you come across then and regret later.

SHEA BUTTER

Over the years,Shea butter has been well patronize and export to many countries due to it extensive skin care treatment,it has been proven as the number one skin care nourisher with unexageratable testimonies world wide. I remember when I was a kid,my mother use it on our body after a kool bath when our  temperature rises.

 

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EUGENE NKANSAH LIKES BIG BOOBS AND ASS BUT VICTORIA LEBENE DOESNT– COUNSELOR LUTTERODT

A few days ago, just for PRO reasons, there was a revelation that, Kofi Adjorlolo and Victoria Lebene publicity and dating fist was all stunt purpose, Abeiku Santana reveals that it was hard for the photo model to break through in the movie industry so she had to roll some stunt just to create some attention, all news died down, well we hope it did but it seems there is a new development with new strategies to elevate her more with her new husband. Once again, Marriage counselor, George Lutterodt has passed comment on Blogger Eugene Osarfo Nkansah and actress Victoria Lebene’s marriage.


The controversial Counselor in an interview with show biz now co-host IB, He stated that, per his relationship with Eugene and what he normally talks about, He doesn’t think Victoria is the perfect match for the renowned blogger.
Lutterodt further mentioned that his very good friend, Eugene likes women with enough body, big ass, and boobs so he was shocked to hear that the two were marrying.
He concluded that,unless Eugene lied to him or else, Victoria lebene has to grow more ass and boobs to fit Eugene’s preference.

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COMEDIAN WARIS AND KHEMICAL PROVED GH WRONG WITH THEIR EXPERIENCE AT FUNNYBONE UNTAME IN NIGERIA

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The future of Ghanaian comedy has always been cranky since the time of Agya koo,Santo,bobo kala and many more comedians in Ghana locally, Over the years the comedy papa himself kweku Sintim Misa and his groom of young talented men like dkb, comedian Waris,comedian khemical, etc seems to be changing the norm or the saying as usual Ghanaians comedians are not funny” don’t accept their own but this two great comedians are on heaven wings soaring higher and higher every day.
Just last weekend the two comedians prove Ghanaians wrong with their spectacular rib cracking performance which took place at funny bone untamed 4 inside Ekoh hotel, Lagos, Nigeria.
The two did not disappoint when they took to split the lungs of the audience with laughter.
Unlike previously when Ghanaian comedy seems to be taken over by the Nigerians of which our own Ghanaians should be blamed for it because we did not support our own.
Ghanaian comedians, Waris and Khemikal were invited to perform in Nigeria, yes hold on, did you say Nigerian? Yes, relax.

Amidst great comedians like Igosave, Senator, Buchi, Dan D Humorous, Klint d Drunk, Kennyblaq, Odogwu, Omini, Mr Paul and Larry J performed at the program.
Comedian Waris and khemikal have both made Ghana proud for penetrating in the Nigerian market.
Their humorous performance “came to pass” to be raising the flags on how good the comedy industry in Ghana is soaring.
Comedian Waris and Khemical proved Ghanaians wrong at the funny born untamed event by sharing their experience with the showbiz now host KMJ on Joy Prime
Waris disclosed that not alone are Nigerians faded with corruption but rather bribery because they were asked to pay for every single thing in Nigeria.
I didn’t expect to be in Nigeria but this opportunity is an eye-opener for me and my colleague.
When ask how they got that gig,khemical reveal that,Nabil Alhasan mention his name in Nigeria and Senator confirm them to be part of the upcoming event in Nigeria and that brought about them hooking that opportunity Khemical chips
Evey one get nervous at mostly their first time event and so do comedian Waris and Khmical. The disclosed their nervousness right from the onset of hearing they will be performing in Nigeria.
Both khemical and Waris admitted “the say done” and beyond treatment given to them by Senator.
They also reveal their next coming event coming on next year in Lagos and London in September.
Nigerians are very sincere because they laugh when the joke is funny and not whether Ghanaian or Nigeria and that boost their artiste to work hard, both admitted.
“You guys are really good and nobody has swept the feet of Nigerians and believe your next coming will be spectacular “Senator applauded.
It’s time we work on our self and stop mediocrity,
Jacinta,Waris Ob, James Brown, Lezy and others have been nominated for Savana comic choice award in SA.

Ghana is proud of you.keep the fire buning.

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WETIN WE GAIN’ IS A SONG FOR ALL AGE GROUP – VICTOR AD

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Nigerian singer victor AD says his ‘wetin we gain’ song blew up in most African countries, especially Ghana because everybody could relate to the content in the song.


Victor who performed at Ghana meets Naija over the weekend further explained that he doesn’t involve any strategic skill in writing his songs, all he does is to produce good music and wait for the results from his fans.
I don’t have a strategic way of creating content in my songs aside creating good and quality content everyone can relate. he concluded

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THE UNITY BETWEEN SHATTA WALE AND STONEBWOY WON’T STOP ARTISTES FROM CARRYING GUNS AROUND – EDEM

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Ghanaian rapper Edem has stated that the only way to control the rate at which musicians carry guns around for protection is when they love each other.
Speaking in an interview with IB , Edem explained that when there is enough love in the industry where no artiste feels threatened, it will help reduce the act of artistes carrying weapons around for protection.


Edem also opened up about releasing his first ever reggae album in September this year which features top Jamaican artistes like Gyptain and Konshens.
According to Edem, it took him about 2 years to get the whole album ready because he wanted to come out with the best for his fans.

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THE CONFRONTATION,THE EXCITEMENT AND THE COMING BACK ON SET MAGIC HAPPENING AT SHIRLEY FRIMPONG MANSO’S PRODUCTION

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Can someone tell me if there is any magic happening at the sparrow production? Probably yes because it seems the magic seems unhidden.

MTech communications in conjuction with Sparrow Productions spearheaded by Shirley Frimpong Manso has produced a premium and exclusive movie titled A HUSBAND FOR DADDY, starring Jackie Appiah, Yvonne Okoro amongst others which will be premiered on Ghana’s first online Premiere platform.
It is estimated that this movie will be watched by millions of fans all over the country and beyond as it is an online premiere.questioning the movie producer-director for not casting him at her new movie premiered just this weekend at the labadi beach resort.

Sparrow production is one of Ghana’s most productive production company spearheaded by Shirley Frimpong Manso,of course she a woman, gender equality please.she seems to be doing great with amazing content because it seems artistes like Kofi ADJORLOLO yes you head me right even went to the extent THAT

 

Actor Kofi ADJORLOLO has revealed questioning movie producer and director Shirley Frimpong Manso for not casting him in her movies.
He made this revelation during the press launch of a new movie from the staples of Sparrow Productions called ‘A HUSBAND FOR DADDY’ at the Labadi Beach Hotel.
He narrated that the incident happened in London when the two of them met.

surprisingly, while others are complaining, celebrated female artiste, Jackie Appiah has also expressed how excited she was when Shirley cast her on the A HUSBAND FOR DADDY MOVIE together with Yvonne Okoro which she happens to be on set for a very long time.

 

Even our own Dada Boat confessed how he wanted to do movies with only Shirley. I believe by now you understand where the magic is from

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