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December 2019

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLAUDETTE AHLIBA DIOGO

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Who is Nana Ekua? My daughter keeps mentioning her name every time,every day even in her dreams.
Hi! am Nana Ekua,nice meeting you.Contact were exchanged. That was how this beautiful relationship started.
Oh date n time check now is Monday 3:21 am.lol
Once upon a I was just a little strong but naive girl.
I was your part time home cleaner n caregiver to your beautiful family.

Losing my teaching job was like destined for me to be fully part of your family.
The transitioning from a stranger to partime caregiver to a full time care giver to sister to mother n now family. Crazy transition right.
I know some times we confuse people from being your caregiver,to adopted daughter to sister.lol

CLAUDETTE AHLIBA DIOGO
Not forgetting the pains,the struggles and the special memories we had.
It was strange how you saw the beauty n the future of who we are today from 5 years ago.
You strangely stood by me even when…….
Ok Nana ekua put yourself together,stop crying n pour your heart.
When the people you love most tried to get rid of me.

Am sure they foresaw this beautiful day.?
Blood they say is thicker than water but your love for me indeed signifies the essence of water in the lightening blood when thickness is of no need.?
Sometimes your love and sacrifice for us overwhelmed us to do crazy and silly things but one thing I pray for is not to take your love and kindness for granted.
You keep telling me I can never fail in live because I have seen it all from your experience and I thank God for how far he has brought you from grace to grace. Indeed the lines have fallen for in pleasant places.

The woman you were and the woman you have become always gives me hope of a fulfilled and great promising future that just excite me when I cast my mind back to “DAYS OF SOBIBO” LOL.
CLAUDETTE AHLIBA DIOGO,You are a good woman,selfless and kind ,dont let any unfortunate being talk you out of this grace upon your life.
You are that woman the world is waiting for,your love has no boundaries,your love has no “if” or “but”.
There is a prophesy on your life to use your heart and your past to change souls with the past you see no essence of it benefiting orders but not to worry time will tell.
Words cant describe the beauty of your heart..
I want you to know that we ( Naa,Nii and Nana) love you so much.
I know you cant take it if am to continue so to be continued….
Happy birthday sis.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLAUDETTE AHLIBA DIOGO

Screenshot_20191226-082608_WhatsApp

Who is Nana Ekua?My daughter keeps mentioning his name every time,every day even in her dreams.
Hi,am Nana Ekua,nice meeting you.Contact were exchanged and that was how this beautiful relationship started.
Oh date and time check now is Monday 3:21 am.lol
Once upon a I was just a little strong but naive girl.
I was your part time home cleaner n caregiver to your beautiful family,losing my teaching job was like destined for me to be fully part of your family.
The transitioning from a stranger to partime caregiver to a full time care giver to sister to mother and now family.Crazy transition right.
I know some times we confuse people from being your caregiver,to adopted daughter to sister.lol
Not forgetting the pains,the struggles and the special memories we had.
It was strange how you saw the beauty and the future of who we are today from 5 years ago.
You strangely stood by me even when…….
Ok Nana ekua put yourself together,stop crying and pour your heart.
When the people you love most tried to get rid of me,am sure they foresaw this beautiful day?
Blood they say is thicker than water but your love for me indeed signifies the essence of water in the lightening blood when thickness is of no need.
Sometimes your love and sacrifice for us overwhelmed us to do crazy and silly things but one thing I pray for is not take your love and kindness for granted.
You keep telling me I can not fail in live because I have seen it all from your experience and I thank God for how far he has brought you from grace to grace.
The woman you were and the woman you have become always gives me hope of a fulfilled and great promising future that just excite me when I cast my mind back to “DAYS OF SOBIBO” LOL.
CLAUDETTE AHLIBA DIOGO,You are a good woman,dont let any unfortunate being talk you out of that grace upon your life.
You are that woman the world is waiting for,your love has no boundaries.your love has no “if” or “but”.
There is a prophesy on your life to use your heart and your past to change souls with the past you see no essence of it benefiting orders but not to worry,time will tell.
Words cant describe the beauty of your heart..
I want you to know that we ( Naa,Nii and Nana) love you so much.?
I know you cant take it if am to continue so to be continued….
Happy birthday sis.

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5 TYPES OF FAKE FRIENDS TO AVOID BEFORE 2020

FIVE FAKE FRIENS TO AVOID BEFORE 2020

REDEFINE YOUR FRIENDSHIP BEFORE 2020 [VLOGMAS DAY 4}

You can’t talk about fake friends when you have not been betrayed fam! Just keep that lips quiet and let the bruisers talk about fake friends.lol. Do you agree with that? What happens when the one you have invested in your emotion turns to be fake? How do you strengthen that up? All of us, many times in our lives come across people who present themselves as friends. We come to trust them, spend time with them, but after a while, for whatever reason, their true nature shows itself. They may have mistreated you, ignored you when you needed help, or used you as a tool for their own gains.

I don’t know how men sustain and deal with fake friends better than women, can someone help me out plssssss?! Remember! you don’t get what you give out, keep that in mind but don’t keep blindsight when the writing on the wall is clear. Fake people can be hard to spot, it can be difficult to understand their goals and intentions. But they tend to fall into some categories.

COPY CAT: I believe in the adage that says there is nothing new under the sun” I totally agree but I can challenge you that, when two or more great minds come together, miracles happen. some people in your life will never add anything new in your life than to copy all that you have without using their hard work brains that God created for them. I am a blazer girl that my style?❤️, uniqueness they say is a variety of one’s mindset.so if you have a friend that always copy what you do, wear or even talk, be careful with such person.we ain’t taking that to 2020 period?

BOUJIE: Friends who think they are better or high in class than you. Fake friends don’t agree with anybody you are in a relationship with, criticize you for being with that friend or close to that boy, bougie! They always think your choices are less of standard but theirs is perfect. He or she sees you and pretend not to see you but smile and hug you like she’s just seeing you. Such friends always make you lose yourself confidently. Babe 2020 promises 100% self-confident so drop the boujie friend, end of the topic.?

EFFORT COMPRESSORS: I ask a friend how she sincerely thinks about my weight{106.3kg} because I was at that stage in life I knew something need to be done asap with my weight, she looked at me and told me am ok meanwhile I wasn’t. she started passing funny comment on my weightless journey that am just wasting my time.A year later she approached me and asked me to help her lose weight because she is gaining weight. what should I tell her? ?ADVICE: People only try to disagree or compress your effort because they need that change you want but certainly can’t do it(jealous) so they try hard to discourage your effort.

CLOUD CHASERS: This type of fake friend already has a master plan before getting close.They pretend to win your trust to get what they want and when they get it, they varnish-like ghosts. Rich people and public figures mostly attract such fake friends. They use your money or fame to achieve their selfish desires.

VICTIM MENTALITY: Victim mentality is a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility.While it’s important to claim the role of the victim if we have genuinely been victimized or abused, we cannot move on with our lives unless we step out of the victim role and into the survivor role.This type of fake friend reminds you of how poor they are but rich you are, how dumb but intelligent you are, how sad life is to lose a parent and how to bless you are to have everything at hour beck and call. They always create self -pity impressions, so you literally do everything for them. Beloved such friends are energy drainers. They just play victim to manipulate you to be responsible for them. These people are very dangerous because you only find out their true colors when you have invested too many emotions and energy into them?

Good friends empower each other, watch out each other’s back even in conflict, they don’t pretend or fake.

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TEARS OF KUKS EPISODE 1 {I MISSED MY FLIGHT!}

I MISSED MY FLIGHT{MY STORY}

VLOGMASS DAY 1
If you are early, you are on time. If you are on time, you are late.”
― Lik Hock Yap Ivan
What will you do if you miss your flight on Saturday? What will be your first feeling? Let be honest babes.
Stressed? Frustrated? Shocked or teary? Choose one.
Hello, kuks fam!
How yall doing? It’s a festive season but things are happening so careful in all your doings. I have had my fair share of flight brouhaha and as yall know this blog is all about sharing practical life experiences to inspire, entertain and inform.
I spent 4 hours in less than 2 hours journey from Sunyani to Kumasi airport on the 12TH December 2019. which was Saturday. Your sis missed her flight.
Advice for first-time visitors in Kumasi: The traffic is a real deal so plan 2 hours ahead of time.
I was shaking and confused, I literally got out of the cab without checking my bag, LOL, the bolt driver had to make a second U-turn to bring back my bag.
The passengers were boarding, so why can’t they let me in?
Oh my God, please do something! This was my rant honestly.
Backstory from Koforidua: I actually woke up around 5:am as I usually do. But the mistake I made was to check my flight time.
I suck at checking flight time and all that, so I mostly have to revisit my mail to confirm by departure time, of which I did around 8:am in the morning.
I beg the last passenger of the bus from Sunyani and was even willing to pay 20gh as compensation but he refused.
It was my first time going to Sunyani with a commercial car so I didn’t anticipate all that traffic because I normally go in a private car.
The traffic started in less than 30min to Kumasi which I anticipated reaching the airport by 12noon.
As smart as I was, I decided to get down and pick a taxi to the airport because of the slow passenger drop off.
Big up to the cab driver, we got there in less than 10 minutes to 1 pm but I was already late.
The boarding flight call was 40 minutes to the departure time.
So my initial flight was 1:10 -1:40 to Accra but I ended up getting the 4:50 pm flight which landed in Accra at 5:30.


To add salt to injury, I decided to find solace in meat pie which I bought in the name of sitting close to the check-in area {your girl was actually scared to even sit in the waiting area. Lol)
For someone who has not eaten meat pie for almost a year, I didn’t even realize I was eating that pie because I was stressed.
By the time I said jack! Half was almost gone. LOL
Honestly, I regretted taking that meat pie but that is how frustration can change your level. I think it advisable to book a flight via agent so you don’t go through all the hustle in solving some awkward situations like mine. I actually got a bit earlier flight because my agent communicated with the airline but when I personally went to their counter, I was told the second flight was full.
Advice for first-time visitors in Kumasi: the traffic is a real deal so plan 2 hours ahead of time

THINGS TO KNOW WHEN YOU MISS YOUR FIGHT
 You possibly get a late flight.
 You are charged an unpardonable fare difference.
 You pay for a crazy lateness fee (that was useless in my opinion}

HOW TO MANAGE STRESS WHEN YOU MISS YOUR FLIGHT

  • Take a deep breath.
  • Don’t try to control what is uncontrollable by blaming yourself or anybody.
  • Sit quietly for 60 seconds before your talk or ask any questions.
  • Speak only to those who can help you and not passengers.
  • Act kool and smile more.
  • cry silently if you want to.

I hope this article informs, inspire and entertains that reader who really needs it.
peace out!

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HOW TO OVERCOME STRESS AT 30

HOW TO MANAGE STRESS AT 30

There is no problem when there is a solution TD JAKES.I hope you guys are doing awesome. I know I have been kind of down in spirit, hold on, is this really negative or I was just ranting because of unfulfilled wishes. In my previous post, I shared how God granted me my wish of getting a MacBook Pro on my 30thbirthday which was just last week Friday.I can’t be ungrateful to God even though I have traveled all around the regions of Ghana supervising training on medical abortion.

Surprisingly am at the Kumasi airport watching Chelsea football while I waste time off, I decided to share why I was stressed at my 30thbirthday. I was favored with some dollars, MacBook Pro and other things.

sometimes we celebrate special days in our lives feeling all excited and disappointed at the same time because we might not really get what we really wanted at the end of the day, not necessarily gift from people but you reflect on your unfinished goals, aims, and aspiration. That was the genesis of my stress.

I wish am done with school, fully independent, I wish I can take my blog and my YouTube channel to the next level as so on.Unfetteredly there is always a “but” at the end of every wish.

Honestly speaking I was hell stress and exasperated because my whole life has taken a stern dimension from my plans but my advice to anyone who crosses path this article is that, worry less because our plans are always different from God’s plan.

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a good future.The bible says all things work together for them that love God. I might not know what you skirmishing with, but be assured that, whatever you going through is part of God’s itinerary.

Reflecting on my stress and thwarting, I concluded that, it was all because of uncompleted wishes, dreams or future plans that seem not to take its rightful path and time of completion.

How silly was I worrying myself with all that Jeribs? Sometimes our delayed prayers make us forget who we are as children of God.

HOW I OVERCOME THOSE STRESSED

Sometimes some feelings are just for the devil to sway you off God’s goodness in your life and focus on all that you think you really need.Do you know what would have happened to your life if God had actually granted you all you really want?

#Count your blessings: Reflect on God’s goodness, where you were and how far you have come.

#BE COMPETENT: Accept who you are now, what you have and be satisfied.

#KEEP YOUR FAITH HIGH: faith is simply believing in what you don’t have as though you have them.

#KNOW THAT, LIFE IS ENOUGH: why worry about what you need and want when you have a life? everything is possible with life.

Hope this article goes a long way to reach that one person that truly needs inspiration.Your comment inspires my writing, please don’t forget to like, share and comment down below.

 

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6 THINGS TO DECLUTTER IN YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU PLAN FOR 2020.

6 things to declutter in your life before you plan for 2020

If there is any last important cleaning to do before the year takes a spade, then it better be your soul, body, and mind decluttering, trust me.

Decluttering simply means removing items from an untidy or overcrowded place. Some of us are walking around with untidy hearts and minds. so before you try to plan for the next year, it will do you good than harm to get rid of all baggage overcrowding around you to allow greater things to have its rightful space.

We clean and organize our homes, it is actually sad that we ignore the most important things in our life and focus on unnecessary things which in return comes back to destroy us.

so before you plan for 2010, try this decluttering tips

 ACCESS AND ANALYSE YOUR SELF: were you able to achieve all your aims, target, and goals in 2019. Oh, how far with your 2019 resolutions? Pulse here! I don’t want to go there. oh, why? I can’t even find my memo or the journal I wrote my resolutions in. Pity you, but nevertheless there are more days to go so don’t give up babe’s search through yourself and acknowledge your weakness and strength and work at it.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS: I loved him/her but he/she disappointed me, betrayed me and broke my heart.it not normal but not deadly darling, jobless because of some mistake you seem not to forgive yourself, he/she promised to help but deleted or blocked your number, I know he or she can help but refuse, how sad? all these are awesome excuses but it time to forgive yourself for a fresh start. The bible says to air is human but to forgive is divine. Forgive yourself and others to allow greatness for 2020 to manifest itself in your life.

 LET YOUR PAST GO: The truth is unless you let your past go, you forgive yourself, you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you can’t move forward. There is a saying that, forget what hurt you but never forget what it thought you. The bible says for all things are gone and new things have come. So, if you want to fly, you better leave the earth. Our past always has a part to play in our destiny, if your past doesn’t kill you, it strengthens you, don’t soil your greatness in the shadows of your past. let it go.

IMPROVE YOUR PRAYER HABIT: prayer is simply a personal relationship with God. Sunday school teaches us that prayer is the key. I am a living testimony of prayer. This article will be long if I share my testimony with you. I was sponsored to school by a stranger through prayers, I got what I wanted on my birthday, I got a job to do without an interview. Beloved prayer works. Pray without ceasing and he will answer by faith. Stop talking too much in 2020 and talk to GOD, he is the right answer to all problems commit your ways to him and he won’t disappoint you.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: A vision without a mission is fruitless, it like a dog without bones, it roams and makes unnecessary noise just to disturb, such as a journey without a destination. Search through your inner heart and know what you want and the set realistic target to achieve your plans. life has its own way of treating individually so don’t follow the crowd {FTC}. Have Focus, be determine and work hard.

EXERCISE: My 50Ib weightless has actually thought me the essence of the exercise, my focus was just to lose weight not knowing I will benefit from sound mind and peace. add mind exercise to your routine in 2020. meditate more, walk more and learn how to pay less attention to things that are less of importance to you.

LOVE YOURSELF AND PRACTICE “I DONT GIVE A “F” HABIT: loving yourself is not selfishness’ so learn to love yourself, focus on building yourself. don’t give a fuck to that guy who careless about you babes, get to that stage that every nonsense in your life must stop. it’s time to love yourself, babes, you deserve it 2020.

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WHY DO MEN THINK COOKING AND CLEANING HOME ARE QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE?

WHY DO MEN THINK SO2

DO MEN REALLY THINK SO?

Hello friends

Should keeping your partner’s apartment be criteria or test for marriage or wife material? Today’s topic is very intriguing to me though it is common with African men. If you are a man and you have this shallow mentality, then am sorry things are falling apart for you. You dey joke! lol

Dear young men, your personal hygiene is not another man’s daughter’s responsibility. Your girlfriend is not responsible for keeping your apartment clean nor taking care of your laundry or kitchen. Stop excusing your failure at being human as a test for one girls-quality..

So a guy called A.Eric k @twickta  tweeted that: Part-time men, looking for full-time women, men are joking.

My beloved men…. please remember we are in a new era where machismo equality is striving for growth.

Addendum: I don’t believe in the viewpoint of ‘what men do women can do better’ because God is always right putting men over women.

Gone are the days, when women stay home wives, doing the domestic chores and taking care of kids and firstborn(men)Things are changing and will continue to change, whether we like it or not…stop misleading yourself. It is tremendously good for a woman to know how to cook, clean, take care of her home but trust me, there is more to this basic quality than what we see freestanding. Have you considered how people sham to be good women and outdoor their real character when they become the Mrs.?I remember a guy who wanted us to go out one day…He invited me to his house to help him clean his house. Before that request, he had made a silly aphorism about a girl his friend was dating that he yakked his friend out of the relationship because…. the lady refuse to clean and wash anytime he visited. Why must he fill his laundry and expect her to come and wash them? I catechized. Honestly speaking my top-notch quality in a man is intelligence, but I guess his dumb self-answered “why shouldn’t she do that, is it because she is a woman and you think she is obligated to do that? My beloved men, these 20thcentury women are way too intelligent to know who they want and which man really want to settle down.women of today are not that dumb as our ancient grandmothers impressed it. This is actually a wakeup call for men to sit up and change the game. Domestic chores are the basic requirement of every woman, when a woman cooks, clean and all that, but what happens when she can’t handle the pressures of hard times can’t adjust to changes as a married woman.

Can’t support the man physically and psychologically.

How resilient is she emotionally when you are feeble?

A lot of single men are still searching for women beyond their maximum reach, size, class and standard.

If you want a woman to treat you like a king, first treat her like a queen.

Men! if you want to receive the full blessing that comes with finding a wife, then always consider a woman as a disable gift that you know God has given you and as you cherish it, God will cherish your handwork for your unborn generation. Receive womanly insight is Jesus name.

Hope this article finds that one-person, who need a message.

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