Cheating is nothing new; and as sad as it is to admit, one still has to concede that its occurrence has now become so common that it no longer shocks anyone.
Men cheat, women cheat. Boys cheat, girls cheat; married or not, old or young, the tendency is ingrained in everyone’s DNA and many seem to have chosen to explore theirs as wantonly as imaginable.
Men always say they have a lot of responsibilities when it comes to family and needs so they have to hustle hard to make the family happy, whether you like it or not women are also integral part of the hustle.😳😳 this sounds weird, right? Yes. have you thought of this saying”the bigger the berry the better the juice” I bet you have not? Ponder!!
Men are moved by what they see and whatever they see and deem beautiful are catamount to touch, until you deprive them of life as well as movement. They will be who they want to be by choice so don’t kill yourself. know this before you fight his side chick.
Our upbringing as individuals always influences our sense of judgment and how we see things to be. The society in which we were born into has categorized all men to be a cheat, of which I second that saying, well you can argue till thy kingdom come.it opinionated. some say cheating is in the DNA of men, others say its part of men, some say it who they are and most biasedly, men cheat because the women don’t take care of their needs.
I grew up in a two-story building with over thirty plus tenants, I saw the cheat, fight, quarrel, love, hatred, and many but one thing that hurt me was the ignorance of some women who fight their partner’s side chicks. one conclusion that I derived from women who rather raged at their partner’s mistress is mental messed up, this is why because they have tried to solve this the wrong way countlessly and now given up dealing with it the silence or the private way so they turn to experiment their mental steadiness.
For God so loved the world that he gave out his only son, emphasis on the word”GAVE” Loves gives, and if care is not taken you will give out your respect, dignity, integrity, self-esteem and even your identify all in the name of love.so when you have a click of solving your cheating partners problems by fighting his side chick remember this:
DONT PLAY THE “GOD FACTOR”
Women always have a lot of problems to be solved, who should solve these problems? Men, do they even allow them to do that no, what do they rather do? play men and God at the same time, why my sister😳😳? you are getting plastic surgery on your breast, buttocks, fill in with your nose and mouth, and still think you can stop him from cheating on you by fighting his side chick to stop cheating on you? tell me and what happens? Do you think he will? or that is the solution? go round and ask women who have rather lost their partners and themself to public ridicule all in the name of playing God in every step of their life struggles instead of leaving it to God.you can’t change a mind that is already made up, only God can.so before you thing of entering into the boxing with your partner’s side chick, think twice.
HE IS THE PROBLEM YOU ARE NOT
Society has always been lying to women that, it is their responsibility to make marriage work so they should die or kill themselves to make it work, today is your day of liberation, free yourself from this bondage, and hear me well that,
A man cheating on you has nothing to do with you and it time you get that in your skull that cheating is by choice, all other reasons for his cheating are excuses for his guilt survival.he or she is the problem, not you, and vice versa.
THE SIDE CHICK IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
When you find him cheating on you, confront him and not the side chick, in my own opinion, none of them should be your headache. the funny thing is, the only defense mechanism of man is their pride, they retaliate when you try to bruce their pride and you break it when you massage it. knowing perfectly that you know he is cheating and being adamant about? that makes him more scared of you.
A wise man was asked, what is anger? and he gave a beautiful answer, it is the punishment we give to ourselves for someone else’s mistakes.
she is not your problem, allow him to solve his own problem while you busy yourself by loving you.
Know this before you think of fighting his side chick.
YOU ARE THE OWNER AND NOT THE BEGGAR
There is a saying that, he that owns it takes it with his left hand.it time for married women to see and acknowledge their position as owners,the root, and the thump that without it, nothing can be solidly tied.
Remember you own the key to the door but still fighting with the dogs. find a better way to deal with cheating partners than eating dirt in the public with beggars. present yourself as the owner with full authority and respect and not like a bagger seeking to sympathize. keep this in mind before you think of fight his side chick.
LET THE SIDE CHICK SEE YOU LIKE A QUEEN
Why do wives dress like beggars or maids when confronting their partner’s side chicks whilst the side chicks slay like a queen? This pisses me off when I see wives versus side chick public shows.
This is preposterous woman, you are the queen and the wive, put on the full wife premium package, your hair laid, nails on point, dress like going for a red carpet show,let her regret meeting your man by thinking your man is just using her per your appearance. let her feel like she is being fed with the chicken change from you. Trust the vibe you give,energy doesn’t lie.Keep this in mind before you think of fight his side chick.
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