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MY FIRST AIRBNB EXPERIENCE

MY FIRST AIRBNB EXPERIENCE

Hello everyone and welcome back to my life, how are you doing, how was your day and hope all went well?

First of all, can you take a minute to share your Airbnb apartment experience with me? How was it from scale from 0-10?

Let actually forget about your scaling for a second because am sure you are writing booklet because of your terrible Airbnb experience. You know those moment that you have a terrible experience and when your friend asks on WhatsApp, OH how did it go, see sister, you can type A4 sheet and delete and rather send a voice note because that is what you can express yourself better.

Hmmm! YOU KNOW WHAT? Abbeeeiii sis just tell us, we are all ears. ok give me a second to sip my well brew Sobolo specially prepared by my super host. lol

I am over the moon right now because…. Ok let me give you a second to have a wild guest at my first Airbnb experience in Cape Coast, central region to be precise. Ohhhh Ok, so the house is beautiful, the interior is heavenly and the white cooler painting romancing the interior pieces lavishly luxurious, yes.

DINNING

 

So I landed, hold on, is it landed or arrived? anyways landed makes me feel like I just came back from Mauritius in this apartment on the hill, grey and white exterior painting with spacious car park.

CAR PARK

 

The hall, breath taking, the staircase red carpeting, the white painting mixed with colourful lighting was speechless.

I was ushered into my room by the help of Emmanuel respectfully, can we rewind back to my grand entrance welcome voice from the heaven by the host Dr Bashiru. Mmmm very welcoming.

 

HALL

Have you had that experience whereby something looks nice outside and terrible inside? Trust me, in  this case I was mesmerised.

The brown and black smooth door, the heavenly white colour painting and omg, the television space design coupled with the decorative piece was like crushing on a guy from afar, not knowing the love was mutual JESSSUs.

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DECORATIVE WALL PIECES

Let talk about the queen size bed, see am everything white lover, white bed, white bedding, white bed side table and all the beauty you can imagine and more.

Before I forget about the ward robe, the spacious washroom with awesome cabinet for all your bathing storage needs.my oh my.

The icon wall fan and airconditioned for your temperature preference use, the colourful stared frame which accentuate the wall patterns, amazing.

 

Great room and bathroom actually deserve a great bath, honestly eh, I don’t like bathing at night, lol I know what you thinking but just shout up ok. it my body, eat your house problem. T for thanks.

BED

TO BE CONTINUES.

 

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DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN LIFE? 3 PROVEN REASONS WHY.

DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN LIFE? 3 PROVEN REASONS WHY

A  wise woman once said, When we are stuck in rut, we are invited to grow and expand when I saw this very quote I suddenly became sober because of how my life has been. we normally ask questions like why me God, why are my friends living their best life but things don’t seem to push forward with me?

You might have a fuzzy idea of the person you want to be or the kind of life you want but you don’t really know how to make that happen, this is where the feeling of dissatisfaction roll in.

But the good news is that you can, in fact, get out of the rut you are stuck in-even if you feel the complete opposite.if you feel like you can’t move forward in life, chances are, it has something to do with the following reasons.

YOU DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE

DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN LIFE? 3 PROVEN REASONS WHY
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Your perception of yourself is your power, a key to yourself esteem breakthrough. As young as I was my passion, interest, and hobbies where my identities when growing up, certain things changed along the growth process that is actually when I started asking myself who really am i in life, the moment answers to such questions refuse to manifest themselves for a long time, that is when one feels he or she is stuck in life. I had known myself to be that girl who loves to sacrifice me to make others happy, I didn’t like seeing people leave my life the same way they came in so per others observations nursing was a perfect job career for me but life really became miserable when I applied nursing school for the 11 times in my life without getting admission. the feeling of uncertainty now set in to find who really am I .sometimes the search for your identity as an individual can make you lose the keys and powers to your self-esteem because without a concrete actualization of who you really are hold back your sense of living rendering you stuck in life.

YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN LIFE? 3 PROVEN REASONS WHY
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A lot of people don’t realize that they could be so much closer to their ideal future if only they spent real time thinking about what that future actually means. They only have a vague, lack define ideas of the things that they want. Without a clear idea of what to aspire for, those plans and goals will be just as half-baked.there is mostly confusion when it comes to what people really want to what they need, your needs survive you while your want sustain you. And so, one’s inability to have a well-defined idea of what your “Point B” is – a.k.a. Where you want to be..then work your way back to “Point A”, which is where you are now.That means you have to have a well-defined “Point B” before you can start plotting your course towards that destination of knowing what you want. I have been fighting myself for almost a decade and still searching for what I really want in life. it sometimes tricky because I put in my all to enjoy every bit of anything I have hands-on from editing videos, producing television shows, learning cake and sugarcraft, and still confused about what I want in life rendering me stuck on my life journey. you might have also done everything you want but I want to assure you not to give up.

YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO GET IT

DO YOU FEEL STUCK IN LIFE? 3 PROVEN REASONS WHY
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A lot of people tend to just accept their situation and get used to feeling stuck. This is often because they have been so beaten down that they felt like there’s nothing to do but give up.

They become desperate and think that there’s really nothing else for them to do. It’s like they are in an endless tunnel with no light to look forward to but what they don’t realize is that they lack a solid plan to get out of the rut they’re in. That’s why they never achieve the escape velocity to overcome the gravity of their situation. Worse, they’re afraid to come up with a plan in the first place. Treading water and staying afloat is a lot less scary than trying to move forward and fail. The struggles to finding ways to get what we actually want to become tied back. I didn’t have any role model growing up, no financial back support, talkless who to or where to go for what I really need in life and in most cases, one’s inability to how to get what he or she wants to, neglect the power to fight the stuck rut in life. But in the long run, “protecting” yourself from failure has far worse consequences than making a plan to get un-stuck.

 

I hope you enjoy today’s article which am sure has given you insight on why you feel stuck in life and believe with this observation, you will take time to find solutions to your stagnation in life and wish you all the best as you start your journey, be assured that kuksonline well bring few tips on how to get yourself rolling out of the stuck, in order not to lose our next article please allow the notification to be notified with our next post.

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THE WORLD YESTERDAY,TODAY AND TOMORROW BY KWEKU ASHIE

THE WORLD YESTERDAY,TODAY AND TOMORROW BY KWEKU ASHIE

The World Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow
In the beginning, the world we know was in a void, shapeless and dark; devoured of all possible life-sustaining conditions. The Almighty God in His wisdom and power commanded light, form, and order into this world. He again breathes his Holy Spirit to hover the earth, possessing and bringing it to life. In the beginning, animals and plants were the first custodians of this earth, our air space, and water bodies.

Out of love and for the purpose of order and dominion God created you and I (Man).
Man is God’s creation as well any other things breathing on earth but Man was created differently and for a higher purpose. A man was made in the image, likeness, and power of God with a touch of love, therefore, Man became ruler over the earth and it’s inhabitants and this is God’s plan from the beginning.

HE WORLD YESTERDAY,TODAY AND TOMORROW BY KWEKU ASHIE

Today the world has revolved and evolved in many ways. Times have passed, seasons changed and Man grew more hungry for the quest of seeking knowledge from both Creator and creation. Throwback to the beginning when Man was created by God; The Master Architect of the Universe yet He gave man also the spirit of Free Will to live life best to our discretion but with the guidance of God the Father. Fast forward, Today Man’s quest for knowledge and power has opened doors, if not Secrets of the world.

In present times our free will as Human Beings has made us intelligent and supreme which makes us almost forget the source of our life whereas Man now sees themselves as “God” and that The Creator is no more relevant in matters of His creation.
The world we know today has been thrown into shambles; Nations rise against each other, Some are killing others just to gain power over many, Diseases and plaques breaking out wiping out God’s most cherished creation; Man. In all these dark moments God hasn’t abandoned us to suffer and perish in the world he created for us.

HE WORLD YESTERDAY,TODAY AND TOMORROW BY KWEKU ASHIE

 

Nonetheless, He has given us free will and expects us to discharge it to the best interest of the world entirely.
In the year AD 2020, Man has fallen again, Man couldn’t possess the earth to make it prosperous as the Creator would have it. In the stubbornness of Man’s heart, we neglect our Creator in all these tragedies in the world.
He’s the Alpha and Omega and he alone has the healing power upon his creations yet we still insist on doing it on our own.
In the world today we are battled by many forces and they come every day in different forms and energy. This time we’re crippled by the Coronavirus which is wiping out Men from the face of the earth. Remember God loves us unconditionally for us to think He has neglected us to suffer and die; lest we forget he created Man granting us Freewill and Wisdom and that what the world face today is the fault of man, not God, however, He’s there to redeem us when we call on Him. Amidst the horror of these Pandemic people of different Nationalities, Race, Class, and ideologies have been sobered and overwhelmed. Each day passing by most of us alive today have been reconnected to a higher power for help and refuge. The whole world has not been in a normal state in these few months. The fear of a short but painful death has brought Man to the realization that we can’t do this on our own, especially at the point where Medical experts prescribe rather prayers to the infected persons because at this moment there is no cure for CoVid-19 except by the grace of God.
Human activity all over the world is almost coming to a shutdown, it is as though we are being wiped out to be replaced by another batch of humans. Today in many parts of the world, governments have ordered for lock-down of cities, businesses and social gatherings which brings human activities to a halt and in confinement rather animals on the land, in the sea, and of the air are reoccupying the space just like it was in the beginning; This brings to mind that maybe Mother Earth is healing herself from all the atrocities we have caused her. For the first time in a long while the world has become a quiet place as it was in the beginning. This is the time we need to slow down, reflect and appreciate Life as we are still clinging to it, bearing in mind that death is inevitable therefore it is pointless to wallow in fear and anxiety.

The earth is cleaning up and unfortunately, some of us will be brought down in the raze while some live to tell the story, either way, we both agree we are not in normal times and we can not live normally as we used to so long as Coronavirus remains incurable. Why worry about what you have no absolute control of. As earlier recorded in the creation story; God created us in His knowledge and with Wisdom which is needed today as a guide in living our lives in these uncertain times by observing all preventive protocols spelled to us by our health experts who are working tirelessly around the clock to make vaccines for the cure.

This question keeps coming to mind, “How careful can you be”! .This pandemic has hurt our hearts but it should instead open our eyes to see and appreciate the love of God rather than trying hard to hold unto life; The life which has been rented to us and can be taken away any day without our consent.

HE WORLD YESTERDAY,TODAY AND TOMORROW BY KWEKU ASHIE

Tomorrow, when the sun smile on us once again, Man would have gone through some positive transformation. People will now appreciate the little things in life, treat one another with respect and love. We will now know our survival as humans can never be sustained by power, influence, wealth, political stands nor social class. Inequality will be wiped out hopefully and every Nation in the world will be one another’s Keeper because we now understand how neglecting the basic needs of others can turn around to affect everyone. We will begin to see the world as the global village it is with open arms to accept one another with love, respect, and appreciation. In the light of tomorrow, after most of us are gone and resting, our children will take up our mantles and lead the new generation into a world free of hate, atrocities, plaque, suffering, except the fear of God.

We have lived and survived eventualities others couldn’t and we stood to tell their stories, tomorrow we may not have the chance to tell our own experiences of today. The best we can do is to let each day of our remaining life count, show mercy as the Father has for you, express Love without holding back and give generously expecting nothing in return. By this, we make our lives peaceful and the world a better place.

In conclusion, this is another phase of life that shall also pass. Just as Jesus Christ had his sorrowful moments in the Garden of Gethsemane before His crucifixion; We also have our Gethsemane moments in various ways. As Jesus did, this is the time to cry and call on God to help and strengthen us to carry our crosses. God never abandons His children in times of grave or danger, although Christ suffered till His glorious death God was always with him all the way till His resurrection as He is with us this day and forever.

For our fallen brothers and sisters we pray for God’s merciful judgment and peaceful repose of their souls.

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3 LOCKDOWN THINGS YOU ARE ENJOYING WITHOUT CONSIDERING IT SIDE EFFECT AFTER COVID 19

3 LOCKDOWN THINGS YOU ARE ENJOYING WITHOUT CONSIDERING IT SIDE EFFECT

Ignorance deprives people of freedom because they do not know what alternatives there are. It is impossible to choose to do what one has never heard of. Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance. Ignorance is always afraid of change. Have you observed anything you doing or enjoying at this lockdown that might affect you mentally or physically after COVID 19 lockdown?

Can I ask you how your ears somethings feel as a mother, father or compulsory COVID 19 nanny? what about your attention and focus on the television,iPods, phone, etc. oh I nearly forgot about how you are occupying the kids with cartoons just to have some peace. mummy can I eat that, daddy have you seen so so and so pour water on me?

Oh, Jesus, I am not a mother but I can feel it as a compulsory COVID 19 locked down nanny, trust me. Give me six hours to cut a tree and I will use the first four hours to sharpen the ax, there is a saying that, by failing to prepare is preparing to fail.

There is a negative and positive side to everything, bearing that in mind to be cautious to plan your daily life is an expensive success, but failure to prepare ahead is an extravagant mistake.

So in today’s article, I am going to share with you 3 things you might be enjoying without considering its effect or few things you might consider or repair mentally or physically after COVID 19.

FOOD-WEIGHT GAIN

 

in this article am sharining with you how being inactive can cause over weight problems after Covid 19 lockdown
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Weight gain has become a common silent pandemic both men and woman are struggling with,As little as two hours of TV, a day can increase the risk of weight gain, diabetes, and heart disease in adults. There are likely several factors to blame, including a sedentary lifestyle, less sleep, and generally bad eating habits when engrossed into a screen. but if you are just excited about having hubby and the kids home, cooking all good and junk food, sitting down all day, enjoying NetFlix and chill and inactive then get ready for weight loss Bootcamp after this pandemic.”As inactive people gain weight, they become more inactive, and as a consequence gain more weight. Research shows that, as people’s weight increases, their physical activity decreases, and in extreme cases, the bar to being active is so high that most morbidly obese individuals can only sit and sleep. This accumulated weight gains must surely be repaired Physically and mentally after COVID 19 if care is not taken.

MUSIC -EAR ISSUES

In this picture i shared with you how excessive noise can affect your ears after covid 19 lock down
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COVID 19 locked down has actually made people spend a lot of time home watching movies and listening to songs. Due to privacy policies, ear bugs, earpiece, headset are becoming a common phenomenon to maintain one’s comfort forgetting its effect. According to the center for disease control and prevention research, loud noise can damage cells and membranes in the cochlea. Listening to loud noise for a long time can overwork hair cells in the ear, which can cause these cells to die. The hearing loss progresses as long as the exposure continues. Harmful effects might continue even after noise exposure has stopped.

TV / SCREENS-EYE EFFECT

In this picture i shared with you how excessive noise can affect your ears after covid 19 lock down
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Have you wondered why to much screen time or watching television can cause your eyes and expand to your brain? someone may ask what should we then do in this boring lockdown? we are not saying don’t watch but manage the rate at which you spend time focusing on the screen else you might need some repairs on your eyes after the lockdown. Looking at a screen for extended periods of time can cause “computer vision syndrome, symptoms like strained, dry eyes, blurred vision, and headache. Poor posture when using screens combined with can cause chronic neck, shoulder, and back pain.

 

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6 WAYS TO STAY OUT OF SELF QUARANTINE BOREDOM

6 WAYS TO STAY OUT OF SELF QUARANTINE BOREDOM

I don’t know what people are going to say about this title but, hey it the truth.18 out of 20 persons are homesick and bored already.but before we continue, let see the meaning of #BOREDOM. According to google, boredom is a state of being bored.

There have been uncountable audios and videos circulating about how this situation is getting serious day in and out, and the other mass too, expressing how beneficial is it for them. but this is strictly due to individual preferences, so I understand how yours is different, maybe you have an affected family member as a victim. May God see you through. Amen

But if you are like the rest of us, eating, watching television or Netflix and chill, and nagging of boredom then it ok, it time to take some beneficial daily routine or actions that won’t just control your memories as pandemic and boring only, but also have a happy ending by the end of this uncertainty.

So today am going to share with you,5 ways to stay out of boredom because am tired hearing it.

PLAN YOUR DAY BEFORE THE NEXT DAY

Believe it or not, rich people are mostly bored but only when they are idle. You will definitely get bored when you don’t plan to do anything the next day. I am honestly feeling sleepy right now as I am writing this article but I am held self-accountable to publish it before 8 pm today, so I have to do publish it. I can stop and go to bed but I am liable to achieve whatever I plan to do. Prep your itinerary, set a goal and ensure all your to-do lists are sorted before your day ends, that way you will have some sense of accomplishment and not boredom. when you feel bored, listen to your favorite song, dance and continue.

 

KEEP YOUR REGULAR WORKING ROUTINE

Omg, I can’t stretch this any longer than I wish to.so at the beginning of this self-quarantine, I was waking up on my usual working time at 4:30 am, have my bath and prepare for work like any other day and trust me I was very productive until I realized am on self-quarantine so I can sleep more than usual so while sleeping more, I became less active and less productive, bored and nearly depress. So maintain your morning or working schedule to stay out of boredom.

 

COOK CONSISTENTLY

You mostly give excuses on why you are always eating fast food, now is your time. cook home meal food for your family if you have, better still cook for yourself if alone, at least 3 to 5 times a week won’t kill.it quite boring if you are not used to it, so prep your meal on a meal board or in your mind before you get to the kitchen, no need for shopping because you already have kinds of stuff at home since you are on self-quarantine .listen to music or funny comic skit to release stress or boredom when cooking. thank me later.lol

 

EXERCISE

Don’t even ask how to exercise while self-quarantine but if you are still asking then my dear, there are a billion ways to exercise at home. I had an idea of 10 *3 reps squat this week while fidgeting my phone and responding to blog comment, by the time I finished, I was done exercising and sweating like a catfish. I love social media, you might love listening to music so try watching Zumba dance and tack along, skip rope, do pranks, etc preferably join a sister or brother to exercise together, self-quarantine boredom away.

 

START A BACKYARD GARDEN

I was talking to a friend of mine on Facebook just a while ago and he said he’s bored so he’s going to his backyard garden to check the place up. quickly it clicks as one of the unusual ways to stay out of boredom, sooner than you think, this pandemic has stopped, he would be saving a lot on food because of his garden. You might not have a garden but you might as well water the flower in your house every day or cut the lawn or the bushes around your house to stay out of boredom.

 

DO SOMETHING NEW

At this very moment, God doesn’t have to do anything new in your life to stay out of boredom than you creating something new.read something about what bothers you about love, success, savings, investment, self-development, etc. You can also learn something new like piano, guitar or French, by the way, am learning friench{dont tell anyone ok} lol.

Don’t allow Covid19 to hold back your passion and good memories and learn something new to stay out of boredom.

This brings us to the end of the week, stay safe, wash your hands under running water, use hand sanitizers and maintain social distance, better still stay home.

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6 SELF QUARANTINE JOB IDEAS TO EARN MONEY

6 SELF QUARANTINE JOB IDEAS TO EARN MONEY.

Someone posted in my WhatsApp group yesterday and this is what the post asked.

WHERE ARE THOSE  GUYS WHO USE TO SAY” EARN 1000$ DOLLARS  WEEKLY FROM HOME. WE REALLY NEED TO TALK. SORRY FOR IGNORING YOU IN THE PAST.
Trust me…I laugh my heart out.

I quit my job early this year to work from home and you can too: if only you are ready to put in the work.
It takes time to make the dollars but it  5 times when change, so not a bad deal at all. I saw someone’s google Adsense paycheck last week of 706$ which is equivalent to 4,000 plus. Don’t be eye red because he worked for it.
We all know  Covid 19 brouhaha and the economy has taken an unplanned dive, all shops are closed…offices are close and many more.
You might have not planned for this pandemic financially but you can still do something to earn money at home.
So I have putten together these 6 home jobs that you can do yourself or apply in this social distance era.

BECOME A BLOGGER IF YOU LOVE to WRITE.

In fact, blogging is now one of the cheapest and common job in the world…you do in the comfort of your home, write what you passionate about and publish online…thanks to google Adsense ..you can be paid doing what you love without moving around to spread or catch Covid 19.

BECOME A WEBSITE AFFILIATE MARKETER.

 

Are you interested in blogging…yes, fine, I will recommend you to a good responsible web designer. In few days, your website is ready. You love it, my job is done because am being paid for recommending you. This is actually my best job so far….you can do the same too just by looking for businesses who don’t have a website or needs someone to manage their site for them. I hook them up to a web designer and wala. You are socially distancing yourself but you are still making some money.
Press the WhatsApp button down below and let continue there.lol.

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

If you are a graphic designer…Bongo but Someone will be asking…how do I design if I don’t have any skill? Good question babe…see we are in a global village where everything is rightly under our fingers and feet…all you need is the internet and Mr. Google and uncle YouTube will do everything by just following their commands.
There are a lot of apps(Unsplash, canvas, etc) you can use to design certain things for free without paying.
You charge, design it on the app for free and walaa…COVid 19 making money get lite
The fun part is you don’t need to see the person physically but email.

WRITE FOR A WEBSITE

Currently high demanded job online…there is a lot to write, share, high demand for Covid  19 . I am very surprised why Covid 19 has spoken all this while.lol.I am sure he will come out sooner than expected because the way google search engine is combobulated with Covid 19 issues and saga.
Social distancing is making almost everyone all over the world search for an update…so the blogging industry doesn’t have hands and as such needs more workers.
You finish your project and forward it to the chief editor and wala…bucks in your pocket.

SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGER

If you are a social media gem, then your chance is here, now and forever.don’t stay home and ask me how to get the job, submit a succulent Cv and a proposal to companies and one might need your service.
What was this social media manager thing a few months ago? Absolutely not valued but now, a lot of companies are shut down and can only operate via social media. Apple is still launching new technologies in Covid 19, what are you saying.
I received a prompt from Zenith bank today about Covid 19 and I was like…shut up! Do not send me messages on Covid 19 again…I need a job that can give me money. lol

Companies today are all on social media feeding Covid 19 info to their clientele just to make them feel they care and for that reason…they should still do business with them when coronavirus pandemic ends.
One trick about managing a page is to earn more readers, viewers and likes that can be turned into a business after coronavirus saga.

BECOME A CONTENT CREATOR(YOUTUBER)

Trust me, even if you don’t get paid to share your self-quarantine experience videos, you sure have some memories to look up to in the near future.
Are you bored at home? take ur phone record something and share. I shared how I stay out of boredom in this pandemic on my WhatsApp status yesterday about me checking my emails, replying to blog comments and many more on my phone while squatting and I got over 130people watching within an hour.
Share your journey on youtube, you might even become a star or popular before you know it, you are signing big ambassadorial deals.
Don’t waste all the time sleeping and eating.use these few tips to make some money and stay safe.

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3 WAYS TO HANDLE FALSE ACCUSATION

3 ways to handle false accusation

Everyone has in one way or the other been accused of something untrue, is that correct? It either you are accused of theft, lied against, character defamation and many more.

Being falsely accused can take a deterrent turn mentally, professionally, emotionally and legally.

The word accusation is a charge or claim that someone has done something wrong or illegal. How then do you take action to repair your reputation and inner wellbeing?

As you manage to fall out of false accusations, you have to learn to manage your emotions.

Most often than not, we allow our emotions to overpower our level of ability to stand strong to defend yourself.

Before I continue with my false accusation stories, I will like to know what you have been accused of that wasn’t true? How did you defend yourself? How did you respond when you were falsely accused?

How do you manage accusations in the workplace? Did it emotionally affect your personality or profession? Can you charge someone for making false accusations about you?

It rather unfortunate that most of my accusations are work-related, I don’t know why but I am now convinced that it just because of my strong personality that scares or intimidates even my superiors. I just hope am right.

My first accusation was selling a common gift bucket and squandering the money just because I was broke but now, I am wearing a new shoe. That well plan silly accusation, right?

The second accusation was my sister’s husband accusing and reporting me to his own wife that, he was having an affair with me just to throw me out of the house because my presence doesn’t make him have his ways of abusing and manipulating my sister.

Thirdly, I was accused of being a prostitute, just because I was seen standing by a car in the evening waiting for a friend.

Now the question is, how did I defend all these cases or deal with this accusation.

ACKNOWLEDGE AND MANAGE YOUR FEELING

False accusations are mostly draining than you think because you keep asking questions like, what did I do wrong, did he or she hurt me that much to accuse me falsely, I thought he was my friend? These questions mostly don’t get answers and due to that reason, you need your inner strength and that only comes from the strength of your emotions.your victory depends on how you deal with your emotions. How do you verbally defend yourself strongly than breaking down?

 

STRATEGIZE A DEFENSIVE MECHANISM

Your ability to defend yourself from false accusations is key, some people confront the accuser verbally, some fight the accuser, some keep silent, some take legal actions and some use their accuser’s own words against them, especially when you know you are ignorant. Commit your accuser to the lord as the spiritual Christians will or say.in fact, when I was and falsely accused of being a prostitute, I knew my time in that church and school was over, so I didn’t bother to defend or argue about the case because a bigger door somewhere was about to open and that was my faith, indeed it was bigger than I even imagine. Months later, we were called back to resume work but I refused because I had a better job with awesome benefits. In as much as you know God is able, still, defend your image and integrity to clear assumptions. know what defensive mechanism works for you.

HOLD THE TRUTH AND MOVE ON

It’s disheartening how people allow their strength, integrity, and self-confidence to

go down the drain when falsely accused, beloved, you are far greater than your current or past issues.

The truth always gives freedom, it liberates you from arrows of your attackers.hold on to the truth and moves on, honestly, I have learned that, in as much as people think you are ignorant, they partially and not fully trust your ignorance.sometimes the people you draw inspiration from because they support and believe you can let you down. So being falsely accused is a solemnly individual journey.

Thanks so much for passing by, will love to know how you handle false accusations if you have been a victim in the comment section.

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HOW CAN YOU BLAME GOD FOR LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY?

HOW CAN YOU BLAME GOD FOR LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY

CAN YOU BLAME GOD FOR LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY? CAN GOD ACTUALLY MAKE YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY?

Hey everyone and welcome back to my blog hope you guys are doing pretty kool.sorry, I have been off for a while now.I went home for a short visit to see the old woman.

Its been quite a while visiting home and trust me I have actually changed a lot over the years and I just found out that I have tremendously changed, but is it good or bad? can you runaway from calling.That is the topic for today.

I use to be that girl who never wears makeup, trousers and has not experienced a lot of ‘worldly things” because am born and breath from a typical African and pentecostal home.

Do you think the pentecostal believe has changed now? comment down below if you grew up in a pentecostal home or spiritual home.

A little background on pentecostal deep-rooted family, I actually grew up going to catholic once in a year.Growing up as a child I didn’t see catholic as a church for me because it was a bit chill and relaxed for me depending on how I see myself to be.

Due to that I normally go to church ones every year or sometimes twice just to show off my beautiful Christmas dress.

My auntie actually took my mum to catholic but my mum didn’t really make fax to even inspire us to go to church regularly.

Mind you, my uncle from my mums’ side was am elder, my auntie married a pentecostal pastor, my uncle from my father’s side is a pastor and I have a lot of cousins who are also pastors.

I can’t actually describe the process in which I became a full-time pentecostal as a child. But I remember my cousins sharing a lot of God’s word(memory verse) from the bible of the head and that was very fascinating tO me and always wished I could also say such verses.I remember telling my mum that I want to go to my uncle’s church.

Somewhere in early 2000, my mum fell sick and we ended up in a preyer camp for several years.After my mum had recovered and got back home, I made it known that am going to church with my cousins and that was how it all begun.

Rewinding back to the prayer camp days, we use to pray frequently and as young as I was, I started seeing things in my dreams that just manifest itself in reality like a prophetess without understanding.

In as much as it was very scary, there was this peace in my heart, because I could see what can happen in the days ahead of me and that actually saved my life countlessly from food poisoning, accident, stroke and many more. I remember waking up with a deadly disease called “ananse”

Whiles kids are enjoying their holidays, I was seriously fasting and praying to safe a life I know nothing about but kinda jobed to intercede without pay lol

I started sharing my dreams with my mum thinking  things can change.,I mean to stop seeing dreams.

Sometime around 2010 things in my dream worsen drastically without any help, things got out of hand to the extent that, things I see in my dreams just full of like watching Indian movies.

As childish as I was, I thought running g away from home will stop me from dreaming dreams so I run away from home. Did it stop there? No?

So my next move was to break my virginity at age 22 thinking I will be less holy for God to leave me alone. how childish and silly was I? forgetting that what God said in the book of Act 2:17

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‘In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams. Act chapter 2:17

With this revelation, I realize I have been a fool all this while trying to change that part of my destiny

Exalted, then, to the right hand of God, He has received from the Father the promised Holy Spirit and has poured out what you now see and hear.Act 2: 33.

At this very juncture, I have first of all run away from home but not away from God and his dream giftings.i have foolishly broken my virginity but still seeing dreams.

Two days ago, a former colleague at work asked me if I know” I have a calling? I knew perfectly that I do, but I said he should tell me, then he started sharing some revelations with me. I started seeing the end-time age 9, fighting fetish priest who my mum has been summoned to kill in the sky, I received the holy ghost baptism early morning on my way to school without a touch.

Now the reason why I am sharing this is not to put my personal or spiritual life out there and who even cares if I do but this article is purposed to bring to book that girl or boy who is running away from his calling. Is it scary, challenging and sad/happy sometimes? I want to assure you that, your life can never be as you wanted if you don’t surrender yourself to the source. trust me it comes with a lot of rewards and excitement.its as simple as a doctor who heals.

I one time needed a job and a place to stay, so I went to the beach with a cousin and something in me didn’t want to go, so I ask her to leave, in less than 2 hours, two guys approached me and said”you have a problem so tell us and we will help you.they took me to their house and gave me a place to stay, feed me till I got a job through my dreams.

I remember praying for a 2years old girl whom her parent took me in when I lost my job, provided until I needed no more, paid my entire tertiary education fees without my parent’s knowledge.

so am asking, if I can blame God for losing my virginity.

 

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5 THINGS I WILL DO IF I WAS A BOY.

5 THINGS KI WILL DO IF I WAS A BOY

5 THINGS I WILL DO IF I WAS A BOY.

IF I WAS A BOY, I’D BE THE BEST SORT AFTER WOMANIZER WITH GRACE? lol, what will you do if you were are girl or boy?

If I was a boy, I will roll out of the bed in the morning and throw on what I wanted and go, drink beer with the guys and chase after girls. I’d kick with who I wanted n I’d never get confronted for it because they stick out for me.

If I were a boy, I think I could understand how it feels to love a girl, swear I’d be a better man.

I’d listen to her because I know how it hurt when you lose the one you wanted Cause he’s taking you for granted And everything you had got destroyed.

If I was a boy I would turn off my phone and tell everyone it broken so they ‘d think that I was sleeping, just to be with her.

This is what Auntie Beyonce will do If he was a boy but now I think it my turns to live like a boy for a day so let do this.

If I was a boy, I will definitely be the best and awesome womanizer  Guinness book of records ever record as” that womanizer ladies still want to be with because of these 5 qualities. Although I don’t want to be a womanizer or have a lot of women floating on me, my awesomeness will call for it

First thing first I will

5 things i will do if i was a man
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LISTEN

if I was a boy, I will listen to my lady like Mtn call center respondent, be polite, romantic with a respectful voice and attentive ears even though they won’t solve all your problems, have you wondered why most rich men’s wives cheat? It simple, their hubbies are often not attentive to listen to their rubbish so they just get carried away with some broke naga who is smart, list to all their problems without solving them and still, she gives him more money to solve his problems rather than hers. Do you know the secret to a successful marriage as a man? Allow your wife to release 2 million words when she is angry and listen than shouting her up.#youaredoom?.Don’t call it madness it normal with women as same as cheating is normal with men.? 

 UNDERSTAND  AND BELIEVE THEM

If I was a boy, I will understand my woman because they don’t sometimes know how valuable they are until they are reminded by men. A whole stadia of women can praise a woman, but she will only understand and believe herself when it comes from a guy. Women do unimaginably great when they have great partners for support. Shut up it a curse by God?

 

AVAILABILITY

Be emotionally available as a lesbian(Emphasis ‘as’). I am not in any way patronizing lesbianism but lesbians are two women with equal goals and mindset of love. they understand how important it is to be emotionally dependent on each other?.so if I was a boy I will always be available even if it just a second because I know how women value their partner’s presence when needed✌️

TIME

Do you have a partner? If yes then what is your partner’s love language? Do you see yourself? Lack of observation so you don’t know. Love languages are an act of service, gift, physical touch, quality not quantity time and words of affirmation. With these tricks and implementation, your love life will be like a scent of the fragrance in every lady’s nose. the truth of the matter is, women don’t actually need all the time in the world and am number one.yels?.Women actually want just a little but quality time with their partners’ little WhatsApp saying good morning sunshine is all they need.so I will give my woman little but quality time if I was a boy

MONEY

I hurt to say money but every woman gad deem likes money. Money answers all problems but doesn’t solve all problems, don’t get it twisted. Now the truth to your curiosity of that rich girl in your community following that dirty but cutie and broke guys is not because of money but because the guy is available emotionally, understands and believe in her, he listen and knows her love languages so stop envying and follow my leads, sit back and relax while the girls keep floating on me.?so I will give my girlfriend money without her asking if I was a boy

Hey, y’all! This has been my enjoyable article for 2020 and thanks to T.I.A page for this awesome “what will you do if  you were a boy.hope you love it, please don’t forget to like share and subscribe to my blog because I post on MONDAY, WEDNESDAY AND ON FRIDAY. let me know what you will do if you were a girl or a boy in the comment section. If you don’t see my post on these days then I am enjoying love and life

please like, share and subscribe to my blog. See you on Wednesday and remember you are blessed with all heavenly blessings. PEACE OUT!❤️?

 

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DONT DO THIS 6 THINGS AFTER A BREAKUP

6 THINGS TOU SHOULDNT DO AFTER A BREAK UP

Is it normal to have doubts after break up? Should you avoid your ex after break up? How do you know is it really over? What should I do immediately after a break-up?

I know there are billion and one questions that need answers right now, to sympathize with you I have been there, I broke up with my first love after a whopping four years of finding his way into my life. sometimes people say men who persist in loving someone may not be genuine, but trust me mine was awesome.i was physically, emotionally and psychologically secured but we broke up because our younger siblings(my sister and his brother ) feel in love and we had to sacrifice our love to make them happy just because of some tradition, yours might be disappointment, betrayal, cheating and many more, still I can feel your pain. In all, kick that wall, bruise that finger, cry your heart out but don’t do these 6 things after a breakup.

don’t  ignore or force the pain to go

I call it “defensive mechanism”, this attitude is mostly common with so-called strong women or men of which I am a victim, we turn to ignore the pain by consoling ourselves with all the bad things he \she did to us and ignore the good part of the person. William Shakespeare said life is a stage, we create our own characters and roles. when your characters don’t live to expectation, we create new roles to fix or change them by analyzing the situation, finding a solution and moving on to the next chapter of your life.alot of people are carrying luggage from one breakup to other just because they didn’t allow the pain to go gradually heal.so for healthy mental state after breakup, deal with pain, don’t force or ignore it.

don’t be idle, socialize

If you want to overcome breakup easily don’t be idle but rather socialize, idle minds are the devil’s playground or workshop. Idleness is the only refuge of the weak mind, make yourself and your mind busy, listen to motivational messages, join friends on a picnic, outing or movies.do not kill yourself because life is too long and lonely to be idle, have some fun for yourself and not for anybody because every chapter in your life either add up to future blessings or take something bad away.

don’t waste time on revenge, invest your energy to better yourself.

Turn what the devil meant to be bad for your good if he or she left you for a graduate, take a step further from where he or she left you. Period! I have seen people lost everything after a breakup and ten times multiple gains what they lost. some breakups sometimes are meant to make you stronger, prosperous and healthy. don’t give them the pleasure to see you losing weight all in the name of always thinking of your next move to destroy him or her, channel that revenge into positivity.

don’t listen to love songs

Anyone who listens to love songs after breakup automatically wounds his or herself trust me.music is life, it brings back memories of the life you have lost, therefore causing you more pain and heartache. ? love is a beautiful thing, don’t get it twisted, but instead of listening to love song, listen to inspirational messages.

don’t block them

Opinionatedly, everyone has a way of handling pains so feel free if blocking your ex helps soothe your pain.but what is the use of blocking my ex while my close friends still keep them, thereby seeing my ex on my friends feed? think about it. in the game of love, anyone who block the other is bitter and looser. who even knows what the future hold? there might be a second chance?.unblocking also helps you to appreciate the lesson learned from who you were and how you have matured to be…honestly, some people will curse the day they actually met their ex after 5 years of a breakup when they are on a different level in their lives. don’t block them, let them see who you have grown to become today.

never say never, give love a chance

have you listened to never say never by Justin Bieber? go check it out, never say never, fight till forever, whenever love knocks you down don’t stay there, fight back. A lot of people are still crawling and hiding their loved ones just because of what they said when someone broke their heart, the table always turns, being it good or bad, watch what comes out of your lips when hard times knock at your door.give love the chance when you find one after a breakup. funnily, people who enjoy best love life comes after terrible heartbreaks and breakups.love is a beautiful thing so enjoy it.

I have really enjoyed myself sharing this article with you and I believe you will in one way or the other help you see the other side of love and enjoy it. please don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE and SUBSCRIBE to this website if you like to see more articles like this.

 

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