Every parent loves their child regardless of their actions, sometimes we overlook certain behaviors, ignore to put them right, or personally correct them instead of letting them correct themselves.
This habit in turn plants a certain mindset in the child. Love is a basic necessity every mother gives, but while showing love to your kids also try to avoid this habit with your children.
1- Avoid Giving your child everything he asks for. He will grow up believing that he has the right to get everything he wants.
2-Avoid laughing when your child speaks insulting words. He will grow up thinking that disrespect is entertainment.
3-Avoid remaining insensitive to bad behavior that he can display without scolding him for his bad behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society.
4- Avoid picking up anything that your child messes up. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his responsibilities.
5- Avoid letting him watch any program on TV. He will grow up thinking that there is no difference between being a child and being an adult.
6- Avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He will grow up thinking that getting money is easy and will not hesitate to steal for it.
7- Always avoid putting yourself on his side when he is wrong against the neighbors, his teachers, the police. He will grow up thinking that everything he does is right, it is the others who are wrong.
8- Avoid leaving him alone at home when you go to the place of worship, otherwise he will grow up thinking that God is an option.
9- Avoid defending your children in public without letting them take responsibility and apologize. He will grow up thinking that he should always be protected in public.
10- Avoid allowing your children to emotionally manipulate you to get what they want, they will grow to think that they can get everything they want if they manipulate anybody.
11- Avoid being on their side when their mom or dad scold, else they will grow to think he is loved by one and hurt by the others.
12- Avoid using the cartoon or your phone to stop them from disturbing you, they will grow up thinking they need to be compensated for the action you don’t like.
13- Avoid using silly names for real things and let them know the truth and real names to things, otherwise, they will grow up feeling like fools or lied to.
14- Avoid considering your children as kids and teach them the right ways of life or hard truth of life than allowing them to discover it by themselves, they will grow up thinking you did them harm than good.
15- Avoid focusing only on how good your child is in school and also focus on home sense, else he will grow up being useless to home sense.
