THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE, LITERALLY HIDE NOTHING. But is it true there is always nothing to hide? Obviously not. Kids even have secrets.
So will you share your laptop, phone, social media password, or email password with your partner or will you change your password when your partner sees it?
I was expecting a serious call for a job interview, my phone rang whilst in the shower, so I couldn’t pick it fast, so I ask my husband to get the call for me, the call ended before he got to the bathroom so I had to mention my password for him to return the call for me, the next day, he picked my phone and realized I have changed my password and he became very upset.
How do you handle the misunderstanding that comes with changing the password when your partner sees your password and you change it afterward?
What is a password anyway?
A SECRET WORD OR PHRASE THAT MUST BE USED TO GAIN ADMISSION TO SOMETHING. THE MEANING TO THE WORD PASSWORD HAS OBVIOUSLY EXPLAINED IT SECRECY TO ACCESSIBILITY.
“IF YOU DON’T KNOW THE PASSWORD YOU CAN’T COME IN”
CERTAINLY YES, WOMAN, OR LET SAY MAN! DONT COME IN.
Sharing password with your partner has its own merit and demerit, but remember the genesis of all healthy relationship is trust, most often than not, the idea of password and its shareability comes up if the trust is not the foundation.
• You are merited to be on check, who comes and go off your phone OR social media. Since you are consciously monitored by your partner, possibly to keep you in check from cheating maybe.
• Your ability to share your password also shows how transparent you are in the relationship.
• Sharing password also helps in terms of emergency when you forget your laptop or phone in the house and you in need of important message from your phone.
But the question is? Is sharing password really the newest trend for successful relationship or marriage?
I don’t mean to misuse the word of God in vain but let take a critical look here, Jesus said I and my father are one without knowing when God will order the angels to sound the trumpet other than interceding for us human, the main focus here is secrecy, password, code.
Believe me or not, “a child will die even when he’s in the pope’s pocket”, same to a man or a woman who by all reason want to cheat on a partner.
• One of the major DEMERIT with sharing a password with your partner mostly is a misunderstanding of what she or he sees provoking or misinterpreting, the pressure goes high, tantrums rip up unnecessarily,
Be a disciple of God and keep whatever you doing with your password to yourself.
Nobody intends to cheat, there is always a reason for everything. But honestly, I don’t agree with sharing a password with my partner because we all human have a deep secret.
No matter how sincere or honest you can be in your relationship, there is some secret best known to you and you alone.
Beloved password is secret and so shall it be.
Be like Jesus and stop fishing for what is not or might not be healthy for your heart.
Due to password sharing, someone’s marriage is on the divorce scale, because the man keeps accessing the wife’s phone constantly, counting the number of times his wife’s boss calls her phone, due to this same phone assessment, he wanted his wife to stop the job that even survives the family, the man has now realized how “foolish” he has been, because he can’t even pay his own kids school fees for over seven school terms of separation.
In my opinion, don’t attempt sharing a password with your partner whether you trust the person or not, that just privacy, for a safe, free, fair and healthy relationship or heartbeat.
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