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WHY DO MEN THINK COOKING AND CLEANING HOME ARE QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE?

DO MEN REALLY THINK SO?

Hello friends

Should keeping your partner’s apartment be criteria or test for marriage or wife material? Today’s topic is very intriguing to me though it is common with African men. If you are a man and you have this shallow mentality, then am sorry things are falling apart for you. You dey joke! lol

Dear young men, your personal hygiene is not another man’s daughter’s responsibility. Your girlfriend is not responsible for keeping your apartment clean nor taking care of your laundry or kitchen. Stop excusing your failure at being human as a test for one girls-quality..

So a guy called A.Eric k @twickta  tweeted that: Part-time men, looking for full-time women, men are joking.

My beloved men…. please remember we are in a new era where machismo equality is striving for growth.

Addendum: I don’t believe in the viewpoint of ‘what men do women can do better’ because God is always right putting men over women.

Gone are the days, when women stay home wives, doing the domestic chores and taking care of kids and firstborn(men)Things are changing and will continue to change, whether we like it or not…stop misleading yourself. It is tremendously good for a woman to know how to cook, clean, take care of her home but trust me, there is more to this basic quality than what we see freestanding. Have you considered how people sham to be good women and outdoor their real character when they become the Mrs.?I remember a guy who wanted us to go out one day…He invited me to his house to help him clean his house. Before that request, he had made a silly aphorism about a girl his friend was dating that he yakked his friend out of the relationship because…. the lady refuse to clean and wash anytime he visited. Why must he fill his laundry and expect her to come and wash them? I catechized. Honestly speaking my top-notch quality in a man is intelligence, but I guess his dumb self-answered “why shouldn’t she do that, is it because she is a woman and you think she is obligated to do that? My beloved men, these 20thcentury women are way too intelligent to know who they want and which man really want to settle down.women of today are not that dumb as our ancient grandmothers impressed it. This is actually a wakeup call for men to sit up and change the game. Domestic chores are the basic requirement of every woman, when a woman cooks, clean and all that, but what happens when she can’t handle the pressures of hard times can’t adjust to changes as a married woman.

Can’t support the man physically and psychologically.

How resilient is she emotionally when you are feeble?

A lot of single men are still searching for women beyond their maximum reach, size, class and standard.

If you want a woman to treat you like a king, first treat her like a queen.

Men! if you want to receive the full blessing that comes with finding a wife, then always consider a woman as a disable gift that you know God has given you and as you cherish it, God will cherish your handwork for your unborn generation. Receive womanly insight is Jesus name.

Hope this article finds that one-person, who need a message.

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3 Comments

  1. Unfortunately the men think and live the way they do, because of the upbringing from childhood. Mothers expect their daughters to do all the house hold chores whilst the sons are watching TV or doing nothing. The daughter or gal child is mandated to do all the cooking and cleaning but sons excused to lazy and play game…. So in their oblongata(mind), to suit his criteria for a wife material or house mate, the gal friend has to do all that, he saw mum and sister do.

  2. Well I think that era of women doing housework alone is dead and gone .
    Lemme say that 80% of today’s men are very romantic and do not want their marriages to stink so they have adopted this method of helping their wives as well
    And by doing so they really get close to each other as well. So if u are a man and you still have this mentality you will never enjoy the best of marriage….some of the wives too are employees and wouldn’t like to be talked to anyhow at work for being habitual late comer and so she would prefer da husband to help her do whatever she has to do in the morning before they all leave for work. This can lead to solving so many issues in da marriage
    So the rest of the men pls start doing housework together with ur wives and always remember to take things easy

  3. Men will continue to be men, that is; thinking home chores are basically for the wives. But men can probably share among household chores among selves lol. It’s a good course and a befitting gentility if you practice that. Men start doing them oo’

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