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Ignorance deprives people of freedom because they do not know what alternatives there are. It is impossible to choose to do what one has never heard of. Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance. Ignorance is always afraid of change. Have you observed anything you doing or enjoying at this lockdown that might affect you mentally or physically after COVID 19 lockdown?

Can I ask you how your ears somethings feel as a mother, father or compulsory COVID 19 nanny? what about your attention and focus on the television,iPods, phone, etc. oh I nearly forgot about how you are occupying the kids with cartoons just to have some peace. mummy can I eat that, daddy have you seen so so and so pour water on me?

Oh, Jesus, I am not a mother but I can feel it as a compulsory COVID 19 locked down nanny, trust me. Give me six hours to cut a tree and I will use the first four hours to sharpen the ax, there is a saying that, by failing to prepare is preparing to fail.

There is a negative and positive side to everything, bearing that in mind to be cautious to plan your daily life is an expensive success, but failure to prepare ahead is an extravagant mistake.

So in today’s article, I am going to share with you 3 things you might be enjoying without considering its effect or few things you might consider or repair mentally or physically after COVID 19.

FOOD-WEIGHT GAIN

Weight gain has become a common silent pandemic both men and woman are struggling with,As little as two hours of TV, a day can increase the risk of weight gain, diabetes, and heart disease in adults. There are likely several factors to blame, including a sedentary lifestyle, less sleep, and generally bad eating habits when engrossed into a screen. but if you are just excited about having hubby and the kids home, cooking all good and junk food, sitting down all day, enjoying NetFlix and chill and inactive then get ready for weight loss Bootcamp after this pandemic.”As inactive people gain weight, they become more inactive, and as a consequence gain more weight. Research shows that, as people’s weight increases, their physical activity decreases, and in extreme cases, the bar to being active is so high that most morbidly obese individuals can only sit and sleep. This accumulated weight gains must surely be repaired Physically and mentally after COVID 19 if care is not taken.

MUSIC -EAR ISSUES

COVID 19 locked down has actually made people spend a lot of time home watching movies and listening to songs. Due to privacy policies, ear bugs, earpiece, headset are becoming a common phenomenon to maintain one’s comfort forgetting its effect. According to the center for disease control and prevention research, loud noise can damage cells and membranes in the cochlea. Listening to loud noise for a long time can overwork hair cells in the ear, which can cause these cells to die. The hearing loss progresses as long as the exposure continues. Harmful effects might continue even after noise exposure has stopped.

TV / SCREENS-EYE EFFECT

Have you wondered why to much screen time or watching television can cause your eyes and expand to your brain? someone may ask what should we then do in this boring lockdown? we are not saying don’t watch but manage the rate at which you spend time focusing on the screen else you might need some repairs on your eyes after the lockdown. Looking at a screen for extended periods of time can cause “computer vision syndrome, symptoms like strained, dry eyes, blurred vision, and headache. Poor posture when using screens combined with can cause chronic neck, shoulder, and back pain.

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Someone may ask,what does celibacy get to do with finance? I can confidently say that 70% of women in relationships, including the toxic relationships, are based on a void within them. some could be loneliness, some the need to be loved and cared for and highly due to financial support. Our part of the world has “I LOVE YOU-YES IF YOU HAVE MONEY-THEN WE ARE IN RELATIONSHIP Pattern. Do you agree or not?

I have worked with young girls, been on the street with girls and heard a lot of young girl’s stories. Don’t judge them, but rather help them.

I ran away from home to the city as a virgin at age 22, mingling with men was hard work for me, talkless taking money from men which sounded like prostitution to me {ignorantly]. Until the real struggles of life hit ride on my face when I was thrown out of the house by my auntie. please don’t judge any girl until you have listened to their stories.

Fast forward to 2014, I experience some challenges in my life and career that lead me to depression and devastation.
I lost a job I presume God gave me,  five years today, God made me realized that his plans are not mine and they are always for the good. So I told God that I need a stable life without any sexual relationship, I didn’t practically have this mentality of having sex or going into a relationship because of money, I was rich{Rethink if you think only money makes rich} and confident without a man, So to say. I am not in any way saying that men are trash or love is not beautiful, trust me, I am a cheerleader for intelligent, responsible and  God-fearing men. I love… love and I love men.
In my love life, I have to experience love in tremendous ways, until I made this one crazy sacrifice, yes I did sacrifice my true love with useless traditions(pardon my language), I guess that will be a story for another time. let me know if you want me to share it in the comment section.
Fast forward, God answered my prayers and gave me a testimony without sweat and every Christian will say it was the doing of the lord and it was marvelous in my sight.
From that day, all my needs were miraculously met, it was from that day I promise God to stay off all immorality, not judging tho.
I have been getting these frequent questions from my own friends and people around me,  asking how I been surviving this celibacy journey financially, sexually and personally. So in today’s article, I am going to share with you the three ways I have been surviving celibacy over 5 yrs without a man.

   HARD WORK

Every man knows women like money, but what most man doesn’t know is that their success is somehow intertwined with a woman. if you know me well, you will probably know that am a jake of all trade. In 2014 when I started my celibacy life, God gave me an idea of establishing a cleaning company where I render cleaning services for busy working mothers in the school I was teaching.this creative idea seized my time for men and roaming around unnecessarily. This cleaning job was 3times profitable compared to my teaching job. Fast forward, I have been running online businesses, blogging @ kuksonline.com, buying and selling @ahenemavibz, etc. I have also been helping my sister on her consultancy job which has been a blessing over the past few months. Now tell me if I had any financial reasons to chase men? I am not saying I don’t need money but am competent with where I am. This helped me to hold on to the promise of celibacy over the years.

FAVOR

Where can I start from when it comes to God’s favor and kindness upon my life? Tremendously favored, I hard a free tertiary scholarship education and a free total self-care benefit which inturn confirmed why I should be a celibate.  I never lack anything to seek from men by God’s grace.

I had a free apartment to stay in, was favored last year to travel all over Ghana to work of which I made quite a lot of money, met a lot of people who have been a blessing to my life, who gifted me almost ten thousand Ghana cedis (10,000) to purchase whatever I needed within the time frame. shocked right?

God actually honored his promises and kept mind, deal sealed. Lovelies, I have never regretted this journey with its related issues if you know what I mean.
I experience the love that was hard to get from mere men from the family God gave me.
I have uncounted a lot of amazing gentlemen that my decision has drifted their purpose, possibly not of God, but I am still pushing forward.

I want to inspire you today if you have a strong feeling to put a stop to something you keep regretting after doing, then commit it to God, keep your promise and he will keep his.

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I don’t know what people are going to say about this title but, hey it the truth.18 out of 20 persons are homesick and bored already.but before we continue, let see the meaning of #BOREDOM. According to google, boredom is a state of being bored.

There have been uncountable audios and videos circulating about how this situation is getting serious day in and out, and the other mass too, expressing how beneficial is it for them. but this is strictly due to individual preferences, so I understand how yours is different, maybe you have an affected family member as a victim. May God see you through. Amen

But if you are like the rest of us, eating, watching television or Netflix and chill, and nagging of boredom then it ok, it time to take some beneficial daily routine or actions that won’t just control your memories as pandemic and boring only, but also have a happy ending by the end of this uncertainty.

So today am going to share with you,5 ways to stay out of boredom because am tired hearing it.

PLAN YOUR DAY BEFORE THE NEXT DAY

Believe it or not, rich people are mostly bored but only when they are idle. You will definitely get bored when you don’t plan to do anything the next day. I am honestly feeling sleepy right now as I am writing this article but I am held self-accountable to publish it before 8 pm today, so I have to do publish it. I can stop and go to bed but I am liable to achieve whatever I plan to do. Prep your itinerary, set a goal and ensure all your to-do lists are sorted before your day ends, that way you will have some sense of accomplishment and not boredom. when you feel bored, listen to your favorite song, dance and continue.

KEEP YOUR REGULAR WORKING ROUTINE

Omg, I can’t stretch this any longer than I wish to.so at the beginning of this self-quarantine, I was waking up on my usual working time at 4:30 am, have my bath and prepare for work like any other day and trust me I was very productive until I realized am on self-quarantine so I can sleep more than usual so while sleeping more, I became less active and less productive, bored and nearly depress. So maintain your morning or working schedule to stay out of boredom.

COOK CONSISTENTLY

You mostly give excuses on why you are always eating fast food, now is your time. cook home meal food for your family if you have, better still cook for yourself if alone, at least 3 to 5 times a week won’t kill.it quite boring if you are not used to it, so prep your meal on a meal board or in your mind before you get to the kitchen, no need for shopping because you already have kinds of stuff at home since you are on self-quarantine .listen to music or funny comic skit to release stress or boredom when cooking. thank me later.lol

EXERCISE

Don’t even ask how to exercise while self-quarantine but if you are still asking then my dear, there are a billion ways to exercise at home. I had an idea of 10 *3 reps squat this week while fidgeting my phone and responding to blog comment, by the time I finished, I was done exercising and sweating like a catfish. I love social media, you might love listening to music so try watching Zumba dance and tack along, skip rope, do pranks, etc preferably join a sister or brother to exercise together, self-quarantine boredom away.

START A BACKYARD GARDEN

I was talking to a friend of mine on Facebook just a while ago and he said he’s bored so he’s going to his backyard garden to check the place up. quickly it clicks as one of the unusual ways to stay out of boredom, sooner than you think, this pandemic has stopped, he would be saving a lot on food because of his garden. You might not have a garden but you might as well water the flower in your house every day or cut the lawn or the bushes around your house to stay out of boredom.

DO SOMETHING NEW

At this very moment, God doesn’t have to do anything new in your life to stay out of boredom than you creating something new.read something about what bothers you about love, success, savings, investment, self-development, etc. You can also learn something new like piano, guitar or French, by the way, am learning friench{dont tell anyone ok} lol.

Don’t allow Covid19 to hold back your passion and good memories and learn something new to stay out of boredom.

This brings us to the end of the week, stay safe, wash your hands under running water, use hand sanitizers and maintain social distance, better still stay home.

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Someone posted in my WhatsApp group yesterday and this is what the post asked.

WHERE ARE THOSE  GUYS WHO USE TO SAY” EARN 1000$ DOLLARS  WEEKLY FROM HOME. WE REALLY NEED TO TALK. SORRY FOR IGNORING YOU IN THE PAST.
Trust me…I laugh my heart out.

I quit my job early this year to work from home and you can too: if only you are ready to put in the work.
It takes time to make the dollars but it  5 times when change, so not a bad deal at all. I saw someone’s google Adsense paycheck last week of 706$ which is equivalent to 4,000 plus. Don’t be eye red because he worked for it.
We all know  Covid 19 brouhaha and the economy has taken an unplanned dive, all shops are closed…offices are close and many more.
You might have not planned for this pandemic financially but you can still do something to earn money at home.
So I have putten together these 6 home jobs that you can do yourself or apply in this social distance era.

BECOME A BLOGGER IF YOU LOVE to WRITE.

In fact, blogging is now one of the cheapest and common job in the world…you do in the comfort of your home, write what you passionate about and publish online…thanks to google Adsense ..you can be paid doing what you love without moving around to spread or catch Covid 19.

BECOME A WEBSITE AFFILIATE MARKETER.

Are you interested in blogging…yes, fine, I will recommend you to a good responsible web designer. In few days, your website is ready. You love it, my job is done because am being paid for recommending you. This is actually my best job so far….you can do the same too just by looking for businesses who don’t have a website or needs someone to manage their site for them. I hook them up to a web designer and wala. You are socially distancing yourself but you are still making some money.
Press the WhatsApp button down below and let continue there.lol.

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

If you are a graphic designer…Bongo but Someone will be asking…how do I design if I don’t have any skill? Good question babe…see we are in a global village where everything is rightly under our fingers and feet…all you need is the internet and Mr. Google and uncle YouTube will do everything by just following their commands.
There are a lot of apps(Unsplash, canvas, etc) you can use to design certain things for free without paying.
You charge, design it on the app for free and walaa…COVid 19 making money get lite
The fun part is you don’t need to see the person physically but email.

WRITE FOR A WEBSITE

Currently high demanded job online…there is a lot to write, share, high demand for Covid  19 . I am very surprised why Covid 19 has spoken all this while.lol.I am sure he will come out sooner than expected because the way google search engine is combobulated with Covid 19 issues and saga.
Social distancing is making almost everyone all over the world search for an update…so the blogging industry doesn’t have hands and as such needs more workers.
You finish your project and forward it to the chief editor and wala…bucks in your pocket.

SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGER

If you are a social media gem, then your chance is here, now and forever.don’t stay home and ask me how to get the job, submit a succulent Cv and a proposal to companies and one might need your service.
What was this social media manager thing a few months ago? Absolutely not valued but now, a lot of companies are shut down and can only operate via social media. Apple is still launching new technologies in Covid 19, what are you saying.
I received a prompt from Zenith bank today about Covid 19 and I was like…shut up! Do not send me messages on Covid 19 again…I need a job that can give me money. lol

Companies today are all on social media feeding Covid 19 info to their clientele just to make them feel they care and for that reason…they should still do business with them when coronavirus pandemic ends.
One trick about managing a page is to earn more readers, viewers and likes that can be turned into a business after coronavirus saga.

BECOME A CONTENT CREATOR(YOUTUBER)

Trust me, even if you don’t get paid to share your self-quarantine experience videos, you sure have some memories to look up to in the near future.
Are you bored at home? take ur phone record something and share. I shared how I stay out of boredom in this pandemic on my WhatsApp status yesterday about me checking my emails, replying to blog comments and many more on my phone while squatting and I got over 130people watching within an hour.
Share your journey on youtube, you might even become a star or popular before you know it, you are signing big ambassadorial deals.
Don’t waste all the time sleeping and eating.use these few tips to make some money and stay safe.

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Popular Ghanaian broadcaster, television personality, women activist Oheneyere Gifty Anti writes on her quarantine experience upon reaching Ghana

LIFE IN COMPULSORY QUARANTINE

HRH: mummy is coming

Meanwhile, mummy and all the others on the last BA flight from London last night were taken straight into compulsory quarantine!!!

Well, it was quite a sight last night. No one. Absolutely no one was allowed to go home or see relatives who had come to meet them.

The Minister for National Security and his deputy, BNI director and other security operatives, the police, military and health professionals were all at the airport to ensure that no one escapes.

You arrive, they screen you, you go and pick up your luggage and wait for your turn to be bused to the hotel.

This morning, I opened my door and the military guy on the floor said, ‘Madam please go back inside”. Well, I was just looking!!! 🙄😀

Anyway, so, they leave the food at your door, knock and leave. No human contact.

The only human contacts are the fully PPE clothed health officials who come to take our samples for testing. Quite an uncomfortable process, though very necessary.

Ghana is taking this seriously and we the citizens must take it seriously too.

It’s not fun to be under compulsory quarantine but it is very necessary!!!

Take care of yourself and let’s be kind to each other.

Life goes on. Don’t put your life on hold. Live it but remember these are dangerous times, so be careful.

Follow all the protocols. Wash your hands, sanitize etc.

Stay safe and help save other people’s lives.

It’s a tough time for our front line health professionals. Let’s make it a bit easy for them by doing the right thing.

And oh remember, anyone and I mean anyone can get the virus. So please don’t stigmatize those who have it.

And don’t be afraid to report if you show symptoms of coronavirus. Early detection will help save your life and that of your loved ones.

I am Oheneyere Gifty Anti, and I am in compulsory quarantine!!!

Ghana means business. Let’s Support the fight.

Let’s Pray for Ghana.

Remember, I am a woman with a super crazy Faith in God. God has given us wisdom. Let’s apply it.

she concluded.

In her update on self-quarantine by OGA, as she funnily calls it, this is what she said with her fan’s comment on her update on coronavirus compulsory self-quarantine.

kuksonline will share with you on her subsequent update to see how she’s doing and how the Government of Ghana handling Coronavirus self-quarantine.

Everyone has in one way or the other been accused of something untrue, is that correct? It either you are accused of theft, lied against, character defamation and many more.

Being falsely accused can take a deterrent turn mentally, professionally, emotionally and legally.

The word accusation is a charge or claim that someone has done something wrong or illegal. How then do you take action to repair your reputation and inner wellbeing?

As you manage to fall out of false accusations, you have to learn to manage your emotions.

Most often than not, we allow our emotions to overpower our level of ability to stand strong to defend yourself.

Before I continue with my false accusation stories, I will like to know what you have been accused of that wasn’t true? How did you defend yourself? How did you respond when you were falsely accused?

How do you manage accusations in the workplace? Did it emotionally affect your personality or profession? Can you charge someone for making false accusations about you?

It rather unfortunate that most of my accusations are work-related, I don’t know why but I am now convinced that it just because of my strong personality that scares or intimidates even my superiors. I just hope am right.

My first accusation was selling a common gift bucket and squandering the money just because I was broke but now, I am wearing a new shoe. That well plan silly accusation, right?

The second accusation was my sister’s husband accusing and reporting me to his own wife that, he was having an affair with me just to throw me out of the house because my presence doesn’t make him have his ways of abusing and manipulating my sister.

Thirdly, I was accused of being a prostitute, just because I was seen standing by a car in the evening waiting for a friend.

Now the question is, how did I defend all these cases or deal with this accusation.

ACKNOWLEDGE AND MANAGE YOUR FEELING

False accusations are mostly draining than you think because you keep asking questions like, what did I do wrong, did he or she hurt me that much to accuse me falsely, I thought he was my friend? These questions mostly don’t get answers and due to that reason, you need your inner strength and that only comes from the strength of your emotions.your victory depends on how you deal with your emotions. How do you verbally defend yourself strongly than breaking down?

STRATEGIZE A DEFENSIVE MECHANISM

Your ability to defend yourself from false accusations is key, some people confront the accuser verbally, some fight the accuser, some keep silent, some take legal actions and some use their accuser’s own words against them, especially when you know you are ignorant. Commit your accuser to the lord as the spiritual Christians will or say.in fact, when I was and falsely accused of being a prostitute, I knew my time in that church and school was over, so I didn’t bother to defend or argue about the case because a bigger door somewhere was about to open and that was my faith, indeed it was bigger than I even imagine. Months later, we were called back to resume work but I refused because I had a better job with awesome benefits. In as much as you know God is able, still, defend your image and integrity to clear assumptions. know what defensive mechanism works for you.

HOLD THE TRUTH AND MOVE ON

It’s disheartening how people allow their strength, integrity, and self-confidence to

go down the drain when falsely accused, beloved, you are far greater than your current or past issues.

The truth always gives freedom, it liberates you from arrows of your attackers.hold on to the truth and moves on, honestly, I have learned that, in as much as people think you are ignorant, they partially and not fully trust your ignorance.sometimes the people you draw inspiration from because they support and believe you can let you down. So being falsely accused is a solemnly individual journey.

Thanks so much for passing by, will love to know how you handle false accusations if you have been a victim in the comment section.

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CAN YOU BLAME GOD FOR LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY? CAN GOD ACTUALLY MAKE YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY?

Hey everyone and welcome back to my blog hope you guys are doing pretty kool.sorry, I have been off for a while now.I went home for a short visit to see the old woman.

Its been quite a while visiting home and trust me I have actually changed a lot over the years and I just found out that I have tremendously changed, but is it good or bad? can you runaway from calling.That is the topic for today.

I use to be that girl who never wears makeup, trousers and has not experienced a lot of ‘worldly things” because am born and breath from a typical African and pentecostal home.

Do you think the pentecostal believe has changed now? comment down below if you grew up in a pentecostal home or spiritual home.

A little background on pentecostal deep-rooted family, I actually grew up going to catholic once in a year.Growing up as a child I didn’t see catholic as a church for me because it was a bit chill and relaxed for me depending on how I see myself to be.

Due to that I normally go to church ones every year or sometimes twice just to show off my beautiful Christmas dress.

My auntie actually took my mum to catholic but my mum didn’t really make fax to even inspire us to go to church regularly.

Mind you, my uncle from my mums’ side was am elder, my auntie married a pentecostal pastor, my uncle from my father’s side is a pastor and I have a lot of cousins who are also pastors.

I can’t actually describe the process in which I became a full-time pentecostal as a child. But I remember my cousins sharing a lot of God’s word(memory verse) from the bible of the head and that was very fascinating tO me and always wished I could also say such verses.I remember telling my mum that I want to go to my uncle’s church.

Somewhere in early 2000, my mum fell sick and we ended up in a preyer camp for several years.After my mum had recovered and got back home, I made it known that am going to church with my cousins and that was how it all begun.

Rewinding back to the prayer camp days, we use to pray frequently and as young as I was, I started seeing things in my dreams that just manifest itself in reality like a prophetess without understanding.

In as much as it was very scary, there was this peace in my heart, because I could see what can happen in the days ahead of me and that actually saved my life countlessly from food poisoning, accident, stroke and many more. I remember waking up with a deadly disease called “ananse”

Whiles kids are enjoying their holidays, I was seriously fasting and praying to safe a life I know nothing about but kinda jobed to intercede without pay lol

I started sharing my dreams with my mum thinking  things can change.,I mean to stop seeing dreams.

Sometime around 2010 things in my dream worsen drastically without any help, things got out of hand to the extent that, things I see in my dreams just full of like watching Indian movies.

As childish as I was, I thought running g away from home will stop me from dreaming dreams so I run away from home. Did it stop there? No?

So my next move was to break my virginity at age 22 thinking I will be less holy for God to leave me alone. how childish and silly was I? forgetting that what God said in the book of Act 2:17

‘In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams. Act chapter 2:17

With this revelation, I realize I have been a fool all this while trying to change that part of my destiny

Exalted, then, to the right hand of God, He has received from the Father the promised Holy Spirit and has poured out what you now see and hear.Act 2: 33.

At this very juncture, I have first of all run away from home but not away from God and his dream giftings.i have foolishly broken my virginity but still seeing dreams.

Two days ago, a former colleague at work asked me if I know” I have a calling? I knew perfectly that I do, but I said he should tell me, then he started sharing some revelations with me. I started seeing the end-time age 9, fighting fetish priest who my mum has been summoned to kill in the sky, I received the holy ghost baptism early morning on my way to school without a touch.

Now the reason why I am sharing this is not to put my personal or spiritual life out there and who even cares if I do but this article is purposed to bring to book that girl or boy who is running away from his calling. Is it scary, challenging and sad/happy sometimes? I want to assure you that, your life can never be as you wanted if you don’t surrender yourself to the source. trust me it comes with a lot of rewards and excitement.its as simple as a doctor who heals.

I one time needed a job and a place to stay, so I went to the beach with a cousin and something in me didn’t want to go, so I ask her to leave, in less than 2 hours, two guys approached me and said”you have a problem so tell us and we will help you.they took me to their house and gave me a place to stay, feed me till I got a job through my dreams.

I remember praying for a 2years old girl whom her parent took me in when I lost my job, provided until I needed no more, paid my entire tertiary education fees without my parent’s knowledge.

so am asking, if I can blame God for losing my virginity.

5 THINGS I WILL DO IF I WAS A BOY.

IF I WAS A BOY, I’D BE THE BEST SORT AFTER WOMANIZER WITH GRACE? lol, what will you do if you were are girl or boy?

If I was a boy, I will roll out of the bed in the morning and throw on what I wanted and go, drink beer with the guys and chase after girls. I’d kick with who I wanted n I’d never get confronted for it because they stick out for me.

If I were a boy, I think I could understand how it feels to love a girl, swear I’d be a better man.

I’d listen to her because I know how it hurt when you lose the one you wanted Cause he’s taking you for granted And everything you had got destroyed.

If I was a boy I would turn off my phone and tell everyone it broken so they ‘d think that I was sleeping, just to be with her.

This is what Auntie Beyonce will do If he was a boy but now I think it my turns to live like a boy for a day so let do this.

If I was a boy, I will definitely be the best and awesome womanizer  Guinness book of records ever record as” that womanizer ladies still want to be with because of these 5 qualities. Although I don’t want to be a womanizer or have a lot of women floating on me, my awesomeness will call for it

First thing first I will

LISTEN

if I was a boy, I will listen to my lady like Mtn call center respondent, be polite, romantic with a respectful voice and attentive ears even though they won’t solve all your problems, have you wondered why most rich men’s wives cheat? It simple, their hubbies are often not attentive to listen to their rubbish so they just get carried away with some broke naga who is smart, list to all their problems without solving them and still, she gives him more money to solve his problems rather than hers. Do you know the secret to a successful marriage as a man? Allow your wife to release 2 million words when she is angry and listen than shouting her up.#youaredoom?.Don’t call it madness it normal with women as same as cheating is normal with men.? 

 UNDERSTAND  AND BELIEVE THEM

If I was a boy, I will understand my woman because they don’t sometimes know how valuable they are until they are reminded by men. A whole stadia of women can praise a woman, but she will only understand and believe herself when it comes from a guy. Women do unimaginably great when they have great partners for support. Shut up it a curse by God?

AVAILABILITY

Be emotionally available as a lesbian(Emphasis ‘as’). I am not in any way patronizing lesbianism but lesbians are two women with equal goals and mindset of love. they understand how important it is to be emotionally dependent on each other?.so if I was a boy I will always be available even if it just a second because I know how women value their partner’s presence when needed✌️

TIME

Do you have a partner? If yes then what is your partner’s love language? Do you see yourself? Lack of observation so you don’t know. Love languages are an act of service, gift, physical touch, quality not quantity time and words of affirmation. With these tricks and implementation, your love life will be like a scent of the fragrance in every lady’s nose. the truth of the matter is, women don’t actually need all the time in the world and am number one.yels?.Women actually want just a little but quality time with their partners’ little WhatsApp saying good morning sunshine is all they need.so I will give my woman little but quality time if I was a boy

MONEY

I hurt to say money but every woman gad deem likes money. Money answers all problems but doesn’t solve all problems, don’t get it twisted. Now the truth to your curiosity of that rich girl in your community following that dirty but cutie and broke guys is not because of money but because the guy is available emotionally, understands and believe in her, he listen and knows her love languages so stop envying and follow my leads, sit back and relax while the girls keep floating on me.?so I will give my girlfriend money without her asking if I was a boy

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Is it normal to have doubts after break up? Should you avoid your ex after break up? How do you know is it really over? What should I do immediately after a break-up?

I know there are billion and one questions that need answers right now, to sympathize with you I have been there, I broke up with my first love after a whopping four years of finding his way into my life. sometimes people say men who persist in loving someone may not be genuine, but trust me mine was awesome.i was physically, emotionally and psychologically secured but we broke up because our younger siblings(my sister and his brother ) feel in love and we had to sacrifice our love to make them happy just because of some tradition, yours might be disappointment, betrayal, cheating and many more, still I can feel your pain. In all, kick that wall, bruise that finger, cry your heart out but don’t do these 6 things after a breakup.

don’t  ignore or force the pain to go

I call it “defensive mechanism”, this attitude is mostly common with so-called strong women or men of which I am a victim, we turn to ignore the pain by consoling ourselves with all the bad things he \she did to us and ignore the good part of the person. William Shakespeare said life is a stage, we create our own characters and roles. when your characters don’t live to expectation, we create new roles to fix or change them by analyzing the situation, finding a solution and moving on to the next chapter of your life.alot of people are carrying luggage from one breakup to other just because they didn’t allow the pain to go gradually heal.so for healthy mental state after breakup, deal with pain, don’t force or ignore it.

don’t be idle, socialize

If you want to overcome breakup easily don’t be idle but rather socialize, idle minds are the devil’s playground or workshop. Idleness is the only refuge of the weak mind, make yourself and your mind busy, listen to motivational messages, join friends on a picnic, outing or movies.do not kill yourself because life is too long and lonely to be idle, have some fun for yourself and not for anybody because every chapter in your life either add up to future blessings or take something bad away.

don’t waste time on revenge, invest your energy to better yourself.

Turn what the devil meant to be bad for your good if he or she left you for a graduate, take a step further from where he or she left you. Period! I have seen people lost everything after a breakup and ten times multiple gains what they lost. some breakups sometimes are meant to make you stronger, prosperous and healthy. don’t give them the pleasure to see you losing weight all in the name of always thinking of your next move to destroy him or her, channel that revenge into positivity.

don’t listen to love songs

Anyone who listens to love songs after breakup automatically wounds his or herself trust me.music is life, it brings back memories of the life you have lost, therefore causing you more pain and heartache. ? love is a beautiful thing, don’t get it twisted, but instead of listening to love song, listen to inspirational messages.

don’t block them

Opinionatedly, everyone has a way of handling pains so feel free if blocking your ex helps soothe your pain.but what is the use of blocking my ex while my close friends still keep them, thereby seeing my ex on my friends feed? think about it. in the game of love, anyone who block the other is bitter and looser. who even knows what the future hold? there might be a second chance?.unblocking also helps you to appreciate the lesson learned from who you were and how you have matured to be…honestly, some people will curse the day they actually met their ex after 5 years of a breakup when they are on a different level in their lives. don’t block them, let them see who you have grown to become today.

never say never, give love a chance

have you listened to never say never by Justin Bieber? go check it out, never say never, fight till forever, whenever love knocks you down don’t stay there, fight back. A lot of people are still crawling and hiding their loved ones just because of what they said when someone broke their heart, the table always turns, being it good or bad, watch what comes out of your lips when hard times knock at your door.give love the chance when you find one after a breakup. funnily, people who enjoy best love life comes after terrible heartbreaks and breakups.love is a beautiful thing so enjoy it.

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