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HOW TO OVERCOME STRESS AT 30

HOW TO MANAGE STRESS AT 30

There is no problem when there is a solution TD JAKES.I hope you guys are doing awesome. I know I have been kind of down in spirit, hold on, is this really negative or I was just ranting because of unfulfilled wishes. In my previous post, I shared how God granted me my wish of getting a MacBook Pro on my 30thbirthday which was just last week Friday.I can’t be ungrateful to God even though I have traveled all around the regions of Ghana supervising training on medical abortion.

Surprisingly am at the Kumasi airport watching Chelsea football while I waste time off, I decided to share why I was stressed at my 30thbirthday. I was favored with some dollars, MacBook Pro and other things.

sometimes we celebrate special days in our lives feeling all excited and disappointed at the same time because we might not really get what we really wanted at the end of the day, not necessarily gift from people but you reflect on your unfinished goals, aims, and aspiration. That was the genesis of my stress.

I wish am done with school, fully independent, I wish I can take my blog and my YouTube channel to the next level as so on.Unfetteredly there is always a “but” at the end of every wish.

Honestly speaking I was hell stress and exasperated because my whole life has taken a stern dimension from my plans but my advice to anyone who crosses path this article is that, worry less because our plans are always different from God’s plan.

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a good future.The bible says all things work together for them that love God. I might not know what you skirmishing with, but be assured that, whatever you going through is part of God’s itinerary.

Reflecting on my stress and thwarting, I concluded that, it was all because of uncompleted wishes, dreams or future plans that seem not to take its rightful path and time of completion.

How silly was I worrying myself with all that Jeribs? Sometimes our delayed prayers make us forget who we are as children of God.

HOW I OVERCOME THOSE STRESSED

Sometimes some feelings are just for the devil to sway you off God’s goodness in your life and focus on all that you think you really need.Do you know what would have happened to your life if God had actually granted you all you really want?

#Count your blessings: Reflect on God’s goodness, where you were and how far you have come.

#BE COMPETENT: Accept who you are now, what you have and be satisfied.

#KEEP YOUR FAITH HIGH: faith is simply believing in what you don’t have as though you have them.

#KNOW THAT, LIFE IS ENOUGH: why worry about what you need and want when you have a life? everything is possible with life.

Hope this article goes a long way to reach that one person that truly needs inspiration.Your comment inspires my writing, please don’t forget to like, share and comment down below.

 

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6 THINGS TO DECLUTTER IN YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU PLAN FOR 2020.

6 things to declutter in your life before you plan for 2020

If there is any last important cleaning to do before the year takes a spade, then it better be your soul, body, and mind decluttering, trust me.

Decluttering simply means removing items from an untidy or overcrowded place. Some of us are walking around with untidy hearts and minds. so before you try to plan for the next year, it will do you good than harm to get rid of all baggage overcrowding around you to allow greater things to have its rightful space.

We clean and organize our homes, it is actually sad that we ignore the most important things in our life and focus on unnecessary things which in return comes back to destroy us.

so before you plan for 2010, try this decluttering tips

 ACCESS AND ANALYSE YOUR SELF: were you able to achieve all your aims, target, and goals in 2019. Oh, how far with your 2019 resolutions? Pulse here! I don’t want to go there. oh, why? I can’t even find my memo or the journal I wrote my resolutions in. Pity you, but nevertheless there are more days to go so don’t give up babe’s search through yourself and acknowledge your weakness and strength and work at it.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS: I loved him/her but he/she disappointed me, betrayed me and broke my heart.it not normal but not deadly darling, jobless because of some mistake you seem not to forgive yourself, he/she promised to help but deleted or blocked your number, I know he or she can help but refuse, how sad? all these are awesome excuses but it time to forgive yourself for a fresh start. The bible says to air is human but to forgive is divine. Forgive yourself and others to allow greatness for 2020 to manifest itself in your life.

 LET YOUR PAST GO: The truth is unless you let your past go, you forgive yourself, you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you can’t move forward. There is a saying that, forget what hurt you but never forget what it thought you. The bible says for all things are gone and new things have come. So, if you want to fly, you better leave the earth. Our past always has a part to play in our destiny, if your past doesn’t kill you, it strengthens you, don’t soil your greatness in the shadows of your past. let it go.

IMPROVE YOUR PRAYER HABIT: prayer is simply a personal relationship with God. Sunday school teaches us that prayer is the key. I am a living testimony of prayer. This article will be long if I share my testimony with you. I was sponsored to school by a stranger through prayers, I got what I wanted on my birthday, I got a job to do without an interview. Beloved prayer works. Pray without ceasing and he will answer by faith. Stop talking too much in 2020 and talk to GOD, he is the right answer to all problems commit your ways to him and he won’t disappoint you.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: A vision without a mission is fruitless, it like a dog without bones, it roams and makes unnecessary noise just to disturb, such as a journey without a destination. Search through your inner heart and know what you want and the set realistic target to achieve your plans. life has its own way of treating individually so don’t follow the crowd {FTC}. Have Focus, be determine and work hard.

EXERCISE: My 50Ib weightless has actually thought me the essence of the exercise, my focus was just to lose weight not knowing I will benefit from sound mind and peace. add mind exercise to your routine in 2020. meditate more, walk more and learn how to pay less attention to things that are less of importance to you.

LOVE YOURSELF AND PRACTICE “I DONT GIVE A “F” HABIT: loving yourself is not selfishness’ so learn to love yourself, focus on building yourself. don’t give a fuck to that guy who careless about you babes, get to that stage that every nonsense in your life must stop. it’s time to love yourself, babes, you deserve it 2020.

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WHY DO MEN THINK COOKING AND CLEANING HOME ARE QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE?

WHY DO MEN THINK SO2

DO MEN REALLY THINK SO?

Hello friends

Should keeping your partner’s apartment be criteria or test for marriage or wife material? Today’s topic is very intriguing to me though it is common with African men. If you are a man and you have this shallow mentality, then am sorry things are falling apart for you. You dey joke! lol

Dear young men, your personal hygiene is not another man’s daughter’s responsibility. Your girlfriend is not responsible for keeping your apartment clean nor taking care of your laundry or kitchen. Stop excusing your failure at being human as a test for one girls-quality..

So a guy called A.Eric k @twickta  tweeted that: Part-time men, looking for full-time women, men are joking.

My beloved men…. please remember we are in a new era where machismo equality is striving for growth.

Addendum: I don’t believe in the viewpoint of ‘what men do women can do better’ because God is always right putting men over women.

Gone are the days, when women stay home wives, doing the domestic chores and taking care of kids and firstborn(men)Things are changing and will continue to change, whether we like it or not…stop misleading yourself. It is tremendously good for a woman to know how to cook, clean, take care of her home but trust me, there is more to this basic quality than what we see freestanding. Have you considered how people sham to be good women and outdoor their real character when they become the Mrs.?I remember a guy who wanted us to go out one day…He invited me to his house to help him clean his house. Before that request, he had made a silly aphorism about a girl his friend was dating that he yakked his friend out of the relationship because…. the lady refuse to clean and wash anytime he visited. Why must he fill his laundry and expect her to come and wash them? I catechized. Honestly speaking my top-notch quality in a man is intelligence, but I guess his dumb self-answered “why shouldn’t she do that, is it because she is a woman and you think she is obligated to do that? My beloved men, these 20thcentury women are way too intelligent to know who they want and which man really want to settle down.women of today are not that dumb as our ancient grandmothers impressed it. This is actually a wakeup call for men to sit up and change the game. Domestic chores are the basic requirement of every woman, when a woman cooks, clean and all that, but what happens when she can’t handle the pressures of hard times can’t adjust to changes as a married woman.

Can’t support the man physically and psychologically.

How resilient is she emotionally when you are feeble?

A lot of single men are still searching for women beyond their maximum reach, size, class and standard.

If you want a woman to treat you like a king, first treat her like a queen.

Men! if you want to receive the full blessing that comes with finding a wife, then always consider a woman as a disable gift that you know God has given you and as you cherish it, God will cherish your handwork for your unborn generation. Receive womanly insight is Jesus name.

Hope this article finds that one-person, who need a message.

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HOW GOD SURPRISED ME ON MY BIRTHDAY

MY BIRTHDAY GIFT”MACPRO 2019″

AND PAUL SAID.And my God will liberally supply (fill to the full) your every need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

This context was use by Paul when he recieved unimaginable gift from the corinthians.To show appreciation for all the kind gesture,he prayed for them.

Hey lovely people

With great humility and joy in my heart I want to present to you my new MacBook pro. hurray!

There were a lot of things I had wanted to write about on my birthday but trust me, I don’t really know why I was stressed and frustrated during my 30th birthday to the extent that I didn’t even want to do, say or even cut cake on my birthday.

I am one crazy girl that birthdays are my touch notch event I don’t play with it.

I can literally cut cake as early as 4am before going to work.If its weekend then hallelujah.

My birthday was last week Friday on the 22ndNovember but I was literally down that my sister was even worried.

My feelings were ridiculous, lonely,stressed and confused. I wore black on my birthday just to forego people’s attention on my birthday but unfortunately, I was on a whole television for all day.

I had wanted to be myself, have myself and do my own reflection of God’s goodness in my life.

It wasn’t as low key as I plan but God really surprised me.Take a minutes and image God using someone you just met from nowhere[stranger] to manifest a wish of almost half a decade to life through a stranger.Delay!they say is not denial.He makes all things beautiful in his time.

MY TESTIMONY

So, prior to 2 weeks to my birthday, I lost an amount of 150 dollars.it was magic because from my sisters’ room to mine was just the next door.

I remember dropping it in my bag [that if I did] but until now I don’t know where the Cheque varnished to till now.

Rewind to 3 weeks before my birthday I met someone in a flight and we indeed spent a lot of time talking.[40 minute].We exchange numbers and he even dropped me at my hotel on arrival.infact the whole conversation was faith and God’s goodness.We kinda both shared similar testimonies from how God change our lives from grass to grace.it was magical.

Someone might say: maybe he is interested in me, far from that.

Long story short, on my birthday he gifted me money to buy laptop, I had wanted to buy camera since am a content creator but I was advised by my sister to use every gift for it right purpose and am glad I did.

My whole birthday was surrounded by this wishes below :

  • Camera
  • Mac book pro
  • Wi fi router

And building my inner peace.I have not literally recieved salary since 2014 beause i have been in school and all the jobs I have been doing are voluntary services.This reminds me of how faithful the word of God is”the bible say it the blessing of GOD that maketh riches and not hardwork

To God be there glory am left with the camera to complete my heart desire but I know God has got me covered because he has done what is unimaginable.

There is one question I use to ask myself, why does God deal with me in such a weird way. I posted the missing money of my face book account and believed a miracle. Indeed faithful is he who has called us and he will surely fulfill his promise in my life.

I was gifted this Turbo Net from a friend I met just two days.I dont really remember the genesis of the conversation,but it was like someone we have known ourselves for years so when he found out of my birthday,he said I dont think anything will best perfect your birthday than this Mtn Turbo Net due to what you do as a content creator.

The excitement of this testimony was not requisite of my wishes or what I had but just to inspire someone of God’s goodness.

When I misplace the money, I was sad and as well assured because this is not the first time God has surprised me on my birthday. I hope this article goes a long way to inspire that one person who is believing God for a miracle on his or her special day.

May God surprise you as he did for me in Jesus Name.AMEN!

There is nothing we have that we did not receive from God. 

7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Mat 7:7-8 (NIV)

 

 

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MY 10 BASIC TRAVELLING ESSENTIALS

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Guest what,its less than 24 hours to my birthday but I dont want the noise my colleague @Barbie_Derbie is giving me so I am going to destruct my self like nobody’s business, because that’s the only way she get out of my nerves in the office,guess what, she’s even counting down to her birthday which is 4 months, 29 days days away. She is just crazy.
let focus here guys!
So I have been tuning, buzing in cars and flight around Ghana.
I went to Central,Eastern,Greater Accra and will do Ashanti region next week.
i am actually inspired to do this to help men specifically because my doctor friend keeps disturbing me with basic essential whenever we travel.He should have carried on his trips but as a man as he is,he didnt see the essence of carrying those essential.
so I spent less than two to three days on every region and  I didnt need to carry much around so just a bag pack was just awesome and perfect for the trip.
it actual cute to have a spacious sexy bag pack that  you can also use as a simple ladies bag so the bag is two in one guys.
LET GET  STARTED

HAND CREAM:my number one travelling essential is hand cream,guys honestly speaking,if i dont have hand cream in my bag and i visit the washroom i wont wash my hand,that how crazy i can be.so i practically carry hand cream with me on my trips.My last trip to the west was a bit wired because i left my small hand cream home and carried the big one so i was told it more than 100grams so my backpack was checked in the cargo.

QUICK NOTE:Some hotels outside accra dont have tooth brushes,creams and combs like that of accra hotels so take note.unlike Royal senchi,Kimpiski and other 4 to 5 stars hotels have.

POWER BANK AND PHONE CHARGERS: literally think this two goes hand in hand,especially as a content creator. On my fist trip to central region i left my power bank and my charger says am done with you at the very time I need it the most on the very day i had to return.

Its very sad when you travel by car and your phone battery goes blank.OMG!on this trip,we had a flat tyre on our way so we had to delay on the road and you can imagine  if your phone is goes blank.

My  friends and family knews how terrible i am when am on a road trip so they literally communicated till i got home,that was lovely right? blusing.

MULTI SOCKET: If you care to know! the basic socket in other countries differ from one place to the other.

Mind you,technological equipment too differ so your phone charger,laptop camera chargers and many more may not work in other places.so carry your extension along.

Most hotels dont even have bed side socket to even charge your phone.I naturally hit carrying extension because of space but what can you do? I have to, because it also enable you to charge multiple gadget within a short period.That great right?

BLUETOOTH SPEAKER:Skip this essential if you are not a music fun but finger in the air if you are a music lover.sometimes television channel in some hotel are simply crazy.Dstv channels are mainly spot so if you are not a sport fun,you bed.

some do have other channels but it get boring when time passes by.let the party begin when there is speaker,you listen to your own songs,watch movies online if the internet is solid.

Its super fun when friends come around and the party  start jamming,that when you  understand the value of speaker.

GYM WEAR:On my recent trip,I nearly cried because  I didn’t go with gym wear,i have not really been to the gym the whole of  year but still lost fifty pounds- down but it super amazing when you sleeping close to a gym that just a walk away and you dont have or didn’t bring your gym wear.Most often than not,I struggle when it comes to sleeping in hotels and eating,if it a workshop you sit more  without really being active.so i struggle with the eating time interval and going to the gym helps to buckle the food down.

SWIM SUIT:I was tricked on my last two trips to central and western region,central region hotel had a big swimming pool but I was sad because didn’t go with swim suit.

Trust me it really awesome when you chilling in the pool after the long time sitting down.it part of the accommodation so  please  make good use of it.It was rather tricky that burst my bubble in  Takoradi,my hotel didnt have swiming pool the day I took some.very teary.

SUNGLASSES:it time for glam,do you know me when am on my sunglasses? no you dont Mr lol. You can never drift with sunglasses on your trip.

Its practical rock all day runs like site seeing in the afternoon,beach or pool side and even helps you to swerve some people you accidentally  meet on your trips.can you relate?

EARPIECE: Can you tell me what travelling will be like without earpiece?Whaaaaat? You dare not live without it.you know, sometimes there are some WhatsApp group that post naughty staffs that if you mistaken open in public,wahala!!

Earpiece is privacy saver.I just love being in my one corner enjoying my movies and songs…Earpiece is a banger!

SNACKS:My friend called me at 11pm and listen to what he said.

Nana am hungry ooo,I thought I was ok with my lunch so I didnt order super but……I ask but what? Am hungry ooo. I ask him, dont you have any  snack like biscuit or almonds? No! Am telling you am hungry and you here asking me of snack…what a responds.

I nearly hung up on him..if you had at least packed  some snack in your bag,you wouldn’t have even called me in the first place.Mtcheeew

Sometimes we feel satisfied when tired but after you have had enough  rest you will be hungry again at night so travel with your preferred healthy snacks when the need be.

I hope you guys find this helpful,please let me know what your favourite travelling essentials in the comment section.

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MUCH LOVE

KUKS

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I AM A SOUL ARTISTS-CINA SOUL

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‘‘I AM SOUL ARTISTE’’ – CINA SOUL

 

Life they say is not about just making names, it about using the name created to impact lives.

Talented and fast rising musician and song writer, Christie Quincyna Quarcoopome also known as Cina Soul has expressed how fulfilling she is with the feedback she receives from her songs

The Ojorley hit maker reveal that, people don’t understand her Ga lyrics but still love the soul and passion she put in her song.

When ask how her she want people to recognize her as a musician, Cina Soul categorically stated that, she want to be known as soul singer because she sings to the soul ,so anything that hears her songs receives life.

She made this know at the just ended 4syte music award with IB. 

She took the best photography award to her hit song OJOLEY.

 

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I DONT REALLY WANT TO BE A POLITICIAN WITH  FAME  BECAUSE FAME IS JUST A VISITOR- SHATTA WALE

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I DON’T REALLY WANT TO BE A POLITICIAN  WITH  FAME  BECAUSE FAME IS JUST A VISITOR- SHATTA WALE

Popular song writer and dancehall artists, Shatta wale has revealed tremendous and remarkable clarifications when it comes to his dreams on becoming a politician one day.

Speaking in an interview with ShowBiz Now host IB, he categorically stated that, he doesn’t really want to be a politician just because he is popular or famous because fame is just a visitor that can leave you at any given time.

The gringo hitmaker also stated that, he believes he’s not powerful than the politician but he can as well use his music to create impart and change lives to support the government.

According to shatta wale,his profession and fame exposes him to the street enabling the youth to open up to him on daily life issues.

“I meet street hustlers,thieves and pick pocket who open up to me.

I believe they are not comfortable with their life and I believe I can help the government reduce this manace.He concluded.

 

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Relationship Chatroom

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT FROM MEN

What women really want from a men best(1)

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT FROM MEN

Here is the challenge with women when it comes to what women really want. They say they want one thing but their actions speak otherwise, needless to say, it can be confusing.

Well today, we gonna get all cleared up by showing you how to read between the lines.

You learn the method to know exactly what a girl wants in a guy.

Let just dive in, but before then I want you guys to know that, these tricks are base on my experience and that of other’s experiences that are approved.

THE LITTLE THINGS.

we know what it takes a keen ear to hear what a woman says. i wonder how hard it is for men to understand how valuable the little thing guys do mean the world to women. Listening close to what the ladies say and deciphering what she wants. It just one of the many tricks to get girls to chase you.that because all women want a man who knows how to listen,it shows how he simply cares,the power of small gestures goes a long way to a clear path to meet a woman’s heart. the power of unimaginably small staffs goes a long way to soothe a woman’s heart.be kind without asking for and win your three-points with the little things you do with the information you have learned while listening.

@JAJAH DESIGNS

CATCH THE RUNWAY

There is a saying that,the devil is always in the details,it always the reason to get in the moment ..the truth of the matter is that women engage guys who talk much but rather pay attention to the once that observe, men who catch runway(that intriguing gestures that blow the woman out of the clouds)instead of being a nice guy rather block the obstacle feeling ready to set the moment on your side. she talked about what on her birthday and, you kept quiet and got her the watch. That the moment a woman will ask you where have you been all this while? women were born to be surprised.

MEN THAT HACKUP

Being able to bench 250 pounds, build a house and fix your car doesn’t make you a man. A man’s inability to hack up simple means unsecured to women, women want to have a feel of that soft touch of a man, trust me it sexy sometimes.

Men who don’t hide their feeling, make changes, have morals and values, show his sensitive side regardless of what others think, has the passion and share his joy with others, men who are not scared of being vulnerable, intimidated or leveled down. don’t use some hearsay of women to make them feel less of themselves. A friend of mine showed me a trick that, telling a woman that “women like money” breaks their winds to even ask what they need, all in the name of being a gold digger.

If you love cat love it. if you want to cry, please do.

STAY TRUE

Stay true!great advice or the greatest? It takes years to build trust it just a second to lose trust. some men lose themselves when a girl show interest in them. This seems common now, but it will surprise you how men lose sight of who they are when it comes to staying true to themselves when a girl shows interest in them. they lack the principle to stay true to the challenge and the princilple a girl shows interest in them, including a girl who may or may not, likes them; don’t use a bunch of alpha male body language tricks unless you can make it part of your personality, dont be bony and cloud, be yourself as true as possible.

remember intelligent girls like me keeps records of what you say today and can relate to what you say in the next year, just to compare and catch the truth from what guy say because not all girls are dumb as you think , pretending to be who you are only leaving you a life long of loneliness.

MENTALLIGENT

someone will ask what is mentalligent? intelligent simply means one’s ability to learn and understand things easily according to Wikipedia so menatelligent is a man’s ability to learn and understand and that my topmost lookout when it comes to qualities in a man. I believe mentalligent is a total package of a good man because any intelligent man communicates exquisively,pay attention,learn and understand a woman.

Although some men may have good communication skills but lack intelligence.A man who is intelligent pick his next step or line of action from the mere word a woman says, he thinks deep before he replies a woman, he not bossy, he believe in the right of a woman, he knows a woman liberate her pains just through talking. As a matter of fact, I can write a book on”MAN” intelligence because that only thing that softens my heart.

DISCLAIMER: you might agree or disagree but this is what I have gathered and observed from m experience and that of others. Please feel free to drop your comment, experience, and suggestions and might drop part 2.

thank you so much for you time .PEACE OUT

KUKS

 

 

 

 

 

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HOW TO FIT IN AT YOUR NEW OFFICE

HOW TO FIT AT A NEW OFFINCE 1(1)

 

Hi everyone, welcome to kuksonline, I hope all is well?

HOW WAS YOUR FEELING AT YOUR FIRST DAY AT WORK? HOW WAS THE FEELING LIKE? WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU HAD KNOWN BEFORE GOING TO WORK FOR THE FIRST TIME?

This and many more  are few questions I also ask myself when am about to venture into  a new world,what is love without sharing?lol Yeah sharing  practical life experience you can relate through writing is my passion.

Today  am here again to  share a delicate topic that am a victim, still being a victim and it saddens my heart  that someone I love like  you might also breed pain in such uncomfortable working space.

 Let talk about how to cope with the new work environment.

You have received your appointment, oh my God!the deal is great and your head keeps swelling and hearing heartbeats in your mind, yes not your heart.

God be with you if you have not prepared your mind with the change of environment, the people and “the in house culture” of the new environment.

When I was moving to my new office, I had awesome orientation with a hearsay of the establishment but I discover some strange news on the day of my interview.

I was asked why I want to join that reputable company.

The people,I answered. She replied, what has the people done.how they love each other and live like families,I said.

She said,don’t be,deceived, she remarked.And she quote” the trees in the forest are not together but it seems together when you are far” an African adage.

After a year of my stay there, I realized indeed what he said was true.

A gentle reminder of some people you are going to meet at your new office.

1.INTIMIDATORS

2.COMPETITORS

3.The ones they think you are educationally inclined than them and you might take their position.

4.The ones that are simply jealous of your personality.

5.The ones that everything you do irritate them

6. And finally, the ones that are simply dumb

My favorite among the above mention is the ones they think you should learn, catch the fire and all that they have learnt in 2 to 4 years and still think you should pick them in seven days. I  call them “dumb” because their intellectual teaching skills and learning ability are on a low IQ ratio. There are different ways through which people learn and a good teacher is the one that teacher’s to his or her student understanding no matter the student learning impairediment.

Remember how many years you have learned what you are comfortably doing now that sometimes you still make mistakes. You might not be a teacher or the mother of the student who you are tutoring but remember, he or she is learning under you so automatically you are the teacher and he or she depends on you.

The success, happiness and the progress of your department depend on how exquisite, maturity and strategical ways you use for your advantage. Why won’t I consider you dumb if you are a leader and you lack  this basic knowledge.Trust me you are  better off useless  of a  leader.

When I first started work,I faced a lot of challenges but my utmost goal was to learn to be the best at the little I do. Mind you,sometimes its not about the much you do that qualifies you as the hard worker,it type little you do best.

For your information, I was considered the useless one among my group.

Someone madee it her job to make people know that am the worse when it comes to pronouncing words,

Ofcouse I had pronounciation challenge,I felt it better of keep quite that to talk and make mistakes but I didnt see it from that angle rather I invested my resources in books to bettering my english pronounciation skills.

Sometimes it not about your weekness,it about the persons way of feeding up his or her weakness with you. Take note here ,when people are intimidated about you, they try to point out your weakness to other people to prove you are not as good as they think you are,I have seen people point out what I don’t have on my body that they lack just to feel good that, atleast they are not that bad and I get it. I have seen and heard people say a good thing about me that others chipped in my weakness just to feed their insecurities

That was devastating but one thing I found solace in was that, my field of specialty is not of use, if am not around, and moreover no body does it like how I do it.

NOTE, make a great commitment to the slightest contribution and leave a mark  that can never be erased from peoples mind.” very important trick”

I remember my former boss called me a prompter specialist. Thanks to my immediate boss for giving me that challenge.Believe you me,I will forever be known for that.

HOW FIT INN

1:CONQUER YOUR FEARS AND INSECURITY:Everyone make mistakes,insecurities comes in a different forms and preventions,you don’t wallow and die when you make them, you pay attention, focus and better yourself. Trust me: you can never run away from making mistakes but you can mentally manufacture a way of preventing them and that should be your focus.

2. FIND HAPPINESS IN WHAT YOU DO:ind something that makes you happy at your new office, it could be someone you are crushing on, yes sister crush on someone, please it normal to crush on someone, don’t ask who? Or simply love what you do.You can never survive or stand the test of time if you don’t love what you do. lack of passion drives away people from what they do, so be passionate about what you do and do it with all dedication.

3.BE POSITIVELY MINDED: Be positively minded to the extend that people can even get annoyed of how your positive mental constructions are tune.It takes maturity for a leader to be positive when it comes to work mishaps but is easier  said than done because people find ways to justify their mistakes and rather make people’s life miserable by being negative and all boujie just because they are the leaders. Yes, we know you are the leader and you will answer to all the queries and take all the blames, it’s sometimes sad but trust me, your only cure is team work and encouragement and  not shouting and captioning blames. some leaders are ignorant so work it out yourself to avoid breaking down.

I know there is more I can talk about on this issues but I dont want this article to be long so please let me know if you want me to do a part 2 on this topic.

I hope this article goes a long way to help a gentle soul, PEACE OUT

INSPIRED BY MIMI BANKS.

 

 

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Kuks Open Book

THE CRAZY, SINGLE, SASSY GIRL SERIEs JUST THE BEGINNING!!!

SINGLE SASSY SERIES

 

First of all, let the disclaimer drum roll now. Okuuurrururr!!!!

Please am a young woman with good mannerism, amazing sense of humor, beautiful, strong and yes a little sassy and craziness.

Yes, I know what you are thinking!

Well kuks, you know in our  African setting, if you tell me, you have been single for almost 5 years, it either you are sick or you need deliverance period.

So I have been meaning to ask you these three questions

1: Have you been ignoring the men? OR 2: Have they been ignoring you?

I scratch my head a little and go like, that really a profound question, in fact, that a big question, very profound.

So inorder to avert myself from all mental misunderstandings I give practical explanation.hahaha

So sis, I love men yes I do. Take it or leave it. But to tell you what?

I love who I am now, surprising huh?

Take it from me, there are a thousand and one reasons why I stop dating.

But kuks…….no more kuks again dear. Save the questions to yourself, hopefully by the time I tell you my advert reasons you will join my team. Optional anyway.

Well! I have always loved myself growing up just because I have literally seen it all.

The truth of the matter is that no marriage or relationship excuse can best mold what life presents to you other than examples.

Am, sassy, crazy, chocolate baby beau, have curves but no big breast as I wanted.lol

My confidence was always in my secured place.

To tell you a secret, every lady show her part that she is so much confident to show,

If you dare me to ask princess shingle why she’s always flaunting her tapoli figure.

you can relate if you are a Ghanaian.

Entrepreneurship is in my vain so working to get cash was my priority but I didn’t like my mum, not to say my mum was bad but I always want to be extra. Hahaha and you can testify that extra from my body.

You don’t want to know my love story, to tell you the truth I live in the intellects of a man, but the body of a woman.

So I can do crazy and unimaginable things. In detail, I have done a lot of crazy things that you don’t want to know.

Don’t be too curious sis?

LOVING MY LIFE BABES, SEE YOU SOON LOVELIES

 

 

 

 

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