Step into space where you can endeavor to become the best form of yourself, while instantaneously accepting yourself exactly as you are. It a place for the optimists, the go-getters, the imperfectly for you, that human being blossoming to progress.

I saw this quote and I have been thinking a lot about it, starting from the space to become the best form of myself.

“It is the way we react to circumstances that determine our feelings.” ~Dale Carnegie

Kuks feels like drowning in mud.

She feels stuck, worthless, and confused.

Your sister wants to move.  She should. She has to. But she can’t.

And then it evolves into anxiety, fear, and overwhelm.

But what if—just what if—being Such  isn’t the problem, but how we perceive it?


Sometimes I feel like it so hard when you know you need a change in life especially when adulting begins to kick your ass. You need the space to progress but how do you progress when you are clueless?

I am in that face of adulting where I feel so stuck and don’t know

  1. Could it be a space am currently in or need a change of environment?
  2. Over exaggerating the problems?
  3. Is it your state of mind?
  4. Do you think getting financial help could help?
  5. if I need some career guidance or direction.

Am I overthinking the situation or I need to be patient?  well, I think.


I have been investing more time in learning financial freedom from Rich dad poor dad by Robert Kiyosaki and there are points or some chapters that ask “HOW DO I MAKE THIS” instead of I CAN DO IT.

According to the chapter, a poor dad says am broke because of my children and a rich dad says, I should be rich because of my children. Two different brains, one working so hard to make things happen and the other lazing his brains.

Observe your next-door neighbor for a week, analyze, and observe something. when you finish your observation, tell her your problem and hear for yourself.

Life is not what you see people live lavishly out there but rather their knowledge and patience.

I guess this is why I have been thinking deeply lately, surely my brains are not lazy now but rather working.

But the more I ask how do I make or do something, the more I feel stuck, alone, and confused to the extent that tears me up sometimes.

There is time for everything. while waiting for manner to fall, research on what to do to better your life. Don’t ponder on the problems too much.


 Kuks relax, get some water to drink, and take a day at a time, will surely do that.

Experience has taught me that anytime I feel stuck in life, I should drink water and relax for at least 3 days and eat whatever I so want. The aftermath feeling will tell you that you are not stuck but overwhelmed at your current stage in life.

Mind you there is nothing wrong with how you feeling because one out of 10 in every adult stage felt stuck at a point. Waw that such a relief.


Now I don’t have any strategy for starting any business apart from writing my feelings, recording YouTube videos, and editing them.

So am going to focus more on that, read more, and invest in some wisdom, it might help in the future.

Yes girl that the starting point to delivering yourself. Oh, take a long walk, run, volunteer, assist with your expertise without requesting money. simply do something because feeling stuck is no movement or action. Putting in the action is one step in healing your feelings of being stuck in life.


Did you just rant your feelings to us? Yes, I did.

In 2021 I will face ADULTING 101 with all consciousness and truth because I know am a strong woman and that perfectly true but sometimes there are feeling that can and will haunt you for the rest of your life if you don’t handle it now.

My sister has always been my counselling point when it get soo though in life. Get someone who can help you be yourself talking to and as well willing to help emotionally, physically and financial, not anyone to listen without any input.


My ultimate reason for writing is to share. nothing more or less. This is my adulting experience and will share my problems with you, so will I share my progress too because it is what fulfills me.

Do you know that sharing is talking or writing and in either way healing or fulfillment momently comes from how people relate to what you are going through, get motivated to be better persons hence you also healed because you have healed someone.

This simple principle always inspires me to aggressively share my life experience with you guys no matter the shame or regret because I get healed and so do my reader.

I hope this inspires you not to feel like you are alone or stuck in the adult journey.

Feel free to open up your struggles in the comment section and will surely reply.

If you have enjoyed my rant which in one way or the other has been beneficial to you this far, thanks so much for your time, and remember, you are imperfectly perfect, a human being in progress.


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