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HOW TO OVERCOME STRESS AT 30

HOW TO MANAGE STRESS AT 30

There is no problem when there is a solution TD JAKES.I hope you guys are doing awesome. I know I have been kind of down in spirit, hold on, is this really negative or I was just ranting because of unfulfilled wishes. In my previous post, I shared how God granted me my wish of getting a MacBook Pro on my 30thbirthday which was just last week Friday.I can’t be ungrateful to God even though I have traveled all around the regions of Ghana supervising training on medical abortion.

Surprisingly am at the Kumasi airport watching Chelsea football while I waste time off, I decided to share why I was stressed at my 30thbirthday. I was favored with some dollars, MacBook Pro and other things.

sometimes we celebrate special days in our lives feeling all excited and disappointed at the same time because we might not really get what we really wanted at the end of the day, not necessarily gift from people but you reflect on your unfinished goals, aims, and aspiration. That was the genesis of my stress.

I wish am done with school, fully independent, I wish I can take my blog and my YouTube channel to the next level as so on.Unfetteredly there is always a “but” at the end of every wish.

Honestly speaking I was hell stress and exasperated because my whole life has taken a stern dimension from my plans but my advice to anyone who crosses path this article is that, worry less because our plans are always different from God’s plan.

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a good future.The bible says all things work together for them that love God. I might not know what you skirmishing with, but be assured that, whatever you going through is part of God’s itinerary.

Reflecting on my stress and thwarting, I concluded that, it was all because of uncompleted wishes, dreams or future plans that seem not to take its rightful path and time of completion.

How silly was I worrying myself with all that Jeribs? Sometimes our delayed prayers make us forget who we are as children of God.

HOW I OVERCOME THOSE STRESSED

Sometimes some feelings are just for the devil to sway you off God’s goodness in your life and focus on all that you think you really need.Do you know what would have happened to your life if God had actually granted you all you really want?

#Count your blessings: Reflect on God’s goodness, where you were and how far you have come.

#BE COMPETENT: Accept who you are now, what you have and be satisfied.

#KEEP YOUR FAITH HIGH: faith is simply believing in what you don’t have as though you have them.

#KNOW THAT, LIFE IS ENOUGH: why worry about what you need and want when you have a life? everything is possible with life.

Hope this article goes a long way to reach that one person that truly needs inspiration.Your comment inspires my writing, please don’t forget to like, share and comment down below.

 

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6 THINGS TO DECLUTTER IN YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU PLAN FOR 2020.

6 things to declutter in your life before you plan for 2020

If there is any last important cleaning to do before the year takes a spade, then it better be your soul, body, and mind decluttering, trust me.

Decluttering simply means removing items from an untidy or overcrowded place. Some of us are walking around with untidy hearts and minds. so before you try to plan for the next year, it will do you good than harm to get rid of all baggage overcrowding around you to allow greater things to have its rightful space.

We clean and organize our homes, it is actually sad that we ignore the most important things in our life and focus on unnecessary things which in return comes back to destroy us.

so before you plan for 2010, try this decluttering tips

 ACCESS AND ANALYSE YOUR SELF: were you able to achieve all your aims, target, and goals in 2019. Oh, how far with your 2019 resolutions? Pulse here! I don’t want to go there. oh, why? I can’t even find my memo or the journal I wrote my resolutions in. Pity you, but nevertheless there are more days to go so don’t give up babe’s search through yourself and acknowledge your weakness and strength and work at it.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS: I loved him/her but he/she disappointed me, betrayed me and broke my heart.it not normal but not deadly darling, jobless because of some mistake you seem not to forgive yourself, he/she promised to help but deleted or blocked your number, I know he or she can help but refuse, how sad? all these are awesome excuses but it time to forgive yourself for a fresh start. The bible says to air is human but to forgive is divine. Forgive yourself and others to allow greatness for 2020 to manifest itself in your life.

 LET YOUR PAST GO: The truth is unless you let your past go, you forgive yourself, you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you can’t move forward. There is a saying that, forget what hurt you but never forget what it thought you. The bible says for all things are gone and new things have come. So, if you want to fly, you better leave the earth. Our past always has a part to play in our destiny, if your past doesn’t kill you, it strengthens you, don’t soil your greatness in the shadows of your past. let it go.

IMPROVE YOUR PRAYER HABIT: prayer is simply a personal relationship with God. Sunday school teaches us that prayer is the key. I am a living testimony of prayer. This article will be long if I share my testimony with you. I was sponsored to school by a stranger through prayers, I got what I wanted on my birthday, I got a job to do without an interview. Beloved prayer works. Pray without ceasing and he will answer by faith. Stop talking too much in 2020 and talk to GOD, he is the right answer to all problems commit your ways to him and he won’t disappoint you.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: A vision without a mission is fruitless, it like a dog without bones, it roams and makes unnecessary noise just to disturb, such as a journey without a destination. Search through your inner heart and know what you want and the set realistic target to achieve your plans. life has its own way of treating individually so don’t follow the crowd {FTC}. Have Focus, be determine and work hard.

EXERCISE: My 50Ib weightless has actually thought me the essence of the exercise, my focus was just to lose weight not knowing I will benefit from sound mind and peace. add mind exercise to your routine in 2020. meditate more, walk more and learn how to pay less attention to things that are less of importance to you.

LOVE YOURSELF AND PRACTICE “I DONT GIVE A “F” HABIT: loving yourself is not selfishness’ so learn to love yourself, focus on building yourself. don’t give a fuck to that guy who careless about you babes, get to that stage that every nonsense in your life must stop. it’s time to love yourself, babes, you deserve it 2020.

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MY 10 BASIC TRAVELLING ESSENTIALS

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Guest what,its less than 24 hours to my birthday but I dont want the noise my colleague @Barbie_Derbie is giving me so I am going to destruct my self like nobody’s business, because that’s the only way she get out of my nerves in the office,guess what, she’s even counting down to her birthday which is 4 months, 29 days days away. She is just crazy.
let focus here guys!
So I have been tuning, buzing in cars and flight around Ghana.
I went to Central,Eastern,Greater Accra and will do Ashanti region next week.
i am actually inspired to do this to help men specifically because my doctor friend keeps disturbing me with basic essential whenever we travel.He should have carried on his trips but as a man as he is,he didnt see the essence of carrying those essential.
so I spent less than two to three days on every region and  I didnt need to carry much around so just a bag pack was just awesome and perfect for the trip.
it actual cute to have a spacious sexy bag pack that  you can also use as a simple ladies bag so the bag is two in one guys.
LET GET  STARTED

HAND CREAM:my number one travelling essential is hand cream,guys honestly speaking,if i dont have hand cream in my bag and i visit the washroom i wont wash my hand,that how crazy i can be.so i practically carry hand cream with me on my trips.My last trip to the west was a bit wired because i left my small hand cream home and carried the big one so i was told it more than 100grams so my backpack was checked in the cargo.

QUICK NOTE:Some hotels outside accra dont have tooth brushes,creams and combs like that of accra hotels so take note.unlike Royal senchi,Kimpiski and other 4 to 5 stars hotels have.

POWER BANK AND PHONE CHARGERS: literally think this two goes hand in hand,especially as a content creator. On my fist trip to central region i left my power bank and my charger says am done with you at the very time I need it the most on the very day i had to return.

Its very sad when you travel by car and your phone battery goes blank.OMG!on this trip,we had a flat tyre on our way so we had to delay on the road and you can imagine  if your phone is goes blank.

My  friends and family knews how terrible i am when am on a road trip so they literally communicated till i got home,that was lovely right? blusing.

MULTI SOCKET: If you care to know! the basic socket in other countries differ from one place to the other.

Mind you,technological equipment too differ so your phone charger,laptop camera chargers and many more may not work in other places.so carry your extension along.

Most hotels dont even have bed side socket to even charge your phone.I naturally hit carrying extension because of space but what can you do? I have to, because it also enable you to charge multiple gadget within a short period.That great right?

BLUETOOTH SPEAKER:Skip this essential if you are not a music fun but finger in the air if you are a music lover.sometimes television channel in some hotel are simply crazy.Dstv channels are mainly spot so if you are not a sport fun,you bed.

some do have other channels but it get boring when time passes by.let the party begin when there is speaker,you listen to your own songs,watch movies online if the internet is solid.

Its super fun when friends come around and the party  start jamming,that when you  understand the value of speaker.

GYM WEAR:On my recent trip,I nearly cried because  I didn’t go with gym wear,i have not really been to the gym the whole of  year but still lost fifty pounds- down but it super amazing when you sleeping close to a gym that just a walk away and you dont have or didn’t bring your gym wear.Most often than not,I struggle when it comes to sleeping in hotels and eating,if it a workshop you sit more  without really being active.so i struggle with the eating time interval and going to the gym helps to buckle the food down.

SWIM SUIT:I was tricked on my last two trips to central and western region,central region hotel had a big swimming pool but I was sad because didn’t go with swim suit.

Trust me it really awesome when you chilling in the pool after the long time sitting down.it part of the accommodation so  please  make good use of it.It was rather tricky that burst my bubble in  Takoradi,my hotel didnt have swiming pool the day I took some.very teary.

SUNGLASSES:it time for glam,do you know me when am on my sunglasses? no you dont Mr lol. You can never drift with sunglasses on your trip.

Its practical rock all day runs like site seeing in the afternoon,beach or pool side and even helps you to swerve some people you accidentally  meet on your trips.can you relate?

EARPIECE: Can you tell me what travelling will be like without earpiece?Whaaaaat? You dare not live without it.you know, sometimes there are some WhatsApp group that post naughty staffs that if you mistaken open in public,wahala!!

Earpiece is privacy saver.I just love being in my one corner enjoying my movies and songs…Earpiece is a banger!

SNACKS:My friend called me at 11pm and listen to what he said.

Nana am hungry ooo,I thought I was ok with my lunch so I didnt order super but……I ask but what? Am hungry ooo. I ask him, dont you have any  snack like biscuit or almonds? No! Am telling you am hungry and you here asking me of snack…what a responds.

I nearly hung up on him..if you had at least packed  some snack in your bag,you wouldn’t have even called me in the first place.Mtcheeew

Sometimes we feel satisfied when tired but after you have had enough  rest you will be hungry again at night so travel with your preferred healthy snacks when the need be.

I hope you guys find this helpful,please let me know what your favourite travelling essentials in the comment section.

NOTE:4 NEW POST EVERY WEEK FOR YOUR READING PLEASURE.

MUCH LOVE

KUKS

 

 

 

 

 

 

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HOW TO FIT IN AT YOUR NEW OFFICE

HOW TO FIT AT A NEW OFFINCE 1(1)

 

Hi everyone, welcome to kuksonline, I hope all is well?

HOW WAS YOUR FEELING AT YOUR FIRST DAY AT WORK? HOW WAS THE FEELING LIKE? WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU HAD KNOWN BEFORE GOING TO WORK FOR THE FIRST TIME?

This and many more  are few questions I also ask myself when am about to venture into  a new world,what is love without sharing?lol Yeah sharing  practical life experience you can relate through writing is my passion.

Today  am here again to  share a delicate topic that am a victim, still being a victim and it saddens my heart  that someone I love like  you might also breed pain in such uncomfortable working space.

 Let talk about how to cope with the new work environment.

You have received your appointment, oh my God!the deal is great and your head keeps swelling and hearing heartbeats in your mind, yes not your heart.

God be with you if you have not prepared your mind with the change of environment, the people and “the in house culture” of the new environment.

When I was moving to my new office, I had awesome orientation with a hearsay of the establishment but I discover some strange news on the day of my interview.

I was asked why I want to join that reputable company.

The people,I answered. She replied, what has the people done.how they love each other and live like families,I said.

She said,don’t be,deceived, she remarked.And she quote” the trees in the forest are not together but it seems together when you are far” an African adage.

After a year of my stay there, I realized indeed what he said was true.

A gentle reminder of some people you are going to meet at your new office.

1.INTIMIDATORS

2.COMPETITORS

3.The ones they think you are educationally inclined than them and you might take their position.

4.The ones that are simply jealous of your personality.

5.The ones that everything you do irritate them

6. And finally, the ones that are simply dumb

My favorite among the above mention is the ones they think you should learn, catch the fire and all that they have learnt in 2 to 4 years and still think you should pick them in seven days. I  call them “dumb” because their intellectual teaching skills and learning ability are on a low IQ ratio. There are different ways through which people learn and a good teacher is the one that teacher’s to his or her student understanding no matter the student learning impairediment.

Remember how many years you have learned what you are comfortably doing now that sometimes you still make mistakes. You might not be a teacher or the mother of the student who you are tutoring but remember, he or she is learning under you so automatically you are the teacher and he or she depends on you.

The success, happiness and the progress of your department depend on how exquisite, maturity and strategical ways you use for your advantage. Why won’t I consider you dumb if you are a leader and you lack  this basic knowledge.Trust me you are  better off useless  of a  leader.

When I first started work,I faced a lot of challenges but my utmost goal was to learn to be the best at the little I do. Mind you,sometimes its not about the much you do that qualifies you as the hard worker,it type little you do best.

For your information, I was considered the useless one among my group.

Someone madee it her job to make people know that am the worse when it comes to pronouncing words,

Ofcouse I had pronounciation challenge,I felt it better of keep quite that to talk and make mistakes but I didnt see it from that angle rather I invested my resources in books to bettering my english pronounciation skills.

Sometimes it not about your weekness,it about the persons way of feeding up his or her weakness with you. Take note here ,when people are intimidated about you, they try to point out your weakness to other people to prove you are not as good as they think you are,I have seen people point out what I don’t have on my body that they lack just to feel good that, atleast they are not that bad and I get it. I have seen and heard people say a good thing about me that others chipped in my weakness just to feed their insecurities

That was devastating but one thing I found solace in was that, my field of specialty is not of use, if am not around, and moreover no body does it like how I do it.

NOTE, make a great commitment to the slightest contribution and leave a mark  that can never be erased from peoples mind.” very important trick”

I remember my former boss called me a prompter specialist. Thanks to my immediate boss for giving me that challenge.Believe you me,I will forever be known for that.

HOW FIT INN

1:CONQUER YOUR FEARS AND INSECURITY:Everyone make mistakes,insecurities comes in a different forms and preventions,you don’t wallow and die when you make them, you pay attention, focus and better yourself. Trust me: you can never run away from making mistakes but you can mentally manufacture a way of preventing them and that should be your focus.

2. FIND HAPPINESS IN WHAT YOU DO:ind something that makes you happy at your new office, it could be someone you are crushing on, yes sister crush on someone, please it normal to crush on someone, don’t ask who? Or simply love what you do.You can never survive or stand the test of time if you don’t love what you do. lack of passion drives away people from what they do, so be passionate about what you do and do it with all dedication.

3.BE POSITIVELY MINDED: Be positively minded to the extend that people can even get annoyed of how your positive mental constructions are tune.It takes maturity for a leader to be positive when it comes to work mishaps but is easier  said than done because people find ways to justify their mistakes and rather make people’s life miserable by being negative and all boujie just because they are the leaders. Yes, we know you are the leader and you will answer to all the queries and take all the blames, it’s sometimes sad but trust me, your only cure is team work and encouragement and  not shouting and captioning blames. some leaders are ignorant so work it out yourself to avoid breaking down.

I know there is more I can talk about on this issues but I dont want this article to be long so please let me know if you want me to do a part 2 on this topic.

I hope this article goes a long way to help a gentle soul, PEACE OUT

INSPIRED BY MIMI BANKS.

 

 

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HOW TO BE SECURED,STRONG,CONFIDENT AND SINGLE AT 30

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT, SECURE AND SINGLE AT 30.

Society awaits your 30 years with a man or at least a kid or two in an African setting. Majority get privileged to fulfill those purpose demanded by society. But how do you face your thirties without a permanent job sometimes, a man to show or a kid?
Don’t panic, it normal. I have got you covered.
Really! You better get out there and get yourself a man, when at all are you introducing him to us? Who is Mr right and when is he coming?
In African society, it a crime or it’s spiritual, how sad to think of that. It is worse when you are jobless or not independent, they can literally make your life miserable to the extent of making you feel useless, insecure and lack confident being single at thirty.
But the question is? when did being single at thirty becomes a crime?
Shouldn’t one live life at her thirties when not marriage?
A woman is a diamond until the pressure of heat transforms her to something unpredictable charcoal.
Someday, I will be thirty with confident, secure and articulate, yes that what I will be in my thirties. I have seen a lot of marriages collapsing because of the pressure of numbers and what society thinks is the right thing to do “pressure” you to marry.
Trust me what my eyes see, my mouth can’t say all but I have this few tips on how to be secure, confident and competent at thirty.
So without further due, let dive inn…

SELF LOVE: According to kuks dictionary (my meaning to self-love), self-love is an intentional, self-conscious effort to constantly be in the right frame of regarding your spirit, soul, and mind of loving one’s self regardless. The word regardless can never be compromised when self-love is displayed, regardless of who you are, how rich, married or single, successful or not. All you need is self-love.
How can you demand love from other people when you don’t love yourself? Have you wondered why people get everything in life but still not happy within themselves? They have simply disregarded the essence of loving their own self without apologies. Everywoman front the part of her body she feels secured with, how can a woman hide all her curvy “ass”, breast” when she knows it her spotlight to attraction and happiness? This is same as loving yourself.
Self-love is infectious, trust me. Some men even attribute a woman who is loved by herself to be full of herself of which is not the case. They are simply insecure of themselves base on how you appreciate yourself because their job to make you feel that way. They feel more of a man when you depend on them for love. (it a secret)
What at all is love if you personally don’t love yourself?

 

SELF OR PERSONAL BRANDING: Have you wondered why every company topmost priority is branding? This is because customers mostly focus on what in the outside before considering what is inside. The same thing applies to you. How do people see you, how do you present yourself? How you present yourself alone can suggest the type of people you attract. As a single lady, your way of life or energy alone can detect how lonely and insecure you may be. The first impression matters darling, tightening the brand, your appearance, and body language is the major key.
Look your best elegantly, walk your personality and talk with confidence and maturity.

CAREER STABILITY: Career stability can also be financial freedom. Are your finances secured? Are you doing something for yourself? How creative can you be to attract monetary freedom? In most cases, more pressure is exulted on single people just get help from me, but is that the solution? My dear men now want industrious women, financial stability brings self-confident, competence and mental freedom.

EMOTIONAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL STABILITY: Malleability is the problem of a lot of single women, they are easily convinced or influenced. The slightest mockery of being single makes them feel like they are the only single person alive with unnecessary tears.
You have to be emotionally and psychologically stable in order not to allow anyone to intimidate you. You need to understand that, men are not toffees in the market or dress you can just pick up anyhow anywhere, try it on and decide whether or not to buy. So in Gods own time, he makes all things beautiful. Your time will come but until then live life.

SELF CONFIDENT: In my own experience, your self-confidence requires both knowledge and self-courage. When fear is too strong, the genius is suppressed. I strongly urge single women who are hitting their thirties to take a risk, to be bold, to make their genius convert that fear into power and brilliance. It works for some and terrifies others, I have come to realize that, for most people, when it comes to the subject of confident, and they will rather play it safe.
I have had to answer field question like how like: how do you maintain all that confidence, why should I bother developing my confidence? Why should I become confident and I answer, just to have more options? You can be smart but not confident, bold to step out but not confident to walk, you can be knowledgeable to raise your hands up but not confident to express yourself.
Mastering your self-confidence add up to your options.

 

BE SECURED IN AND OUT: I consider insecurity as to my greatest fear when I personally diagnose in others, insecurity makes people less appreciative, more complaint, overpowering, jealous and overprotective sometimes.
Everybody has a particular part of his or her body that he or she is insecure off, fear or attitude.so they try to do things or become who they are not, just to cover their insecurity. But I always ask this question: for how long can you keep up with your insecurity? People live a pretentious life.
Single women, you need a man with big hands to handle our heavy jewel so don’t drop them down to make it lighter for them to carry just because you need a man to marry you. You will end up reducing yourself, thereby losing yourself.
Most often than not, people change their attitude to give some perceptions of who they are not, and I go like, for how long can your insecurity make you keep up with pretend?
Instead of hiding your insecurities through what you are not, rather channel your energy to another part of your life that you find your most security.
This article is dedicated to all my thirties single ladies out there.
Thanks so much for reading to the button, your comment, contribution and suggestion on my blog means a lot to me.
It will be my humble and single honor to hear from you.
Thank you.

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HOW TO MAKE THE BEST OUT OF FREE FREAKY FRIDAY WHILE SINGLE.

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Hi lovely people
How was your week like? I hope it not as stressful as mine but anyway thank god it Friday hurrayyyyy.
Fridays are exciting everywhere and to everyone, unless you are not living, whether you going home or still in the office like me or planning some unsure hang out like me or not certain yet.
No matter the case may be, this girl writing this article will party to the brim tonight. End of topic.
It is quite uncomfortable when it Friday and you are alone and single. But is being alone or single has anything to do with your inability to party hard on Friday?
Of course not, previously, I use to tell my sister I will be hanging out with some friends and they mostly disappoint me but I swear and never not allow them to spoil my Friday so I gathered this strategy of parting hard myself and trust me it a whole new game altogether.
If you don’t ask, you will never know so let me tell you.

 

PLANNING: Planning is very important, especially when you are not living alone like me.so you ask permission and plan how you want to chill, you know.
The planning involves what you have at hand, where you want to hang out and what you want to eat.
Unfortunately, ladies believe, it the man’s responsibility to go out with them and buy them what they want, OH MY GOD what a mentality? What a big mistake. Yelps sister! who told you that huh?
The budget on how much you want to spend, places or the joint you want to chill and how you navigate yourself home safely.

IDENTIFY A FUN PLACE ON A BUDGET.
I am a freaky movie person. I can watch a movie every weekend, being it at home or cinemas. You might want to do other fun things like:
• Watching a football match if you love football of which I do. Yah !! I direct a football show why won’t I love football
• Eat and drinking will enjoying cool music
• Life band performance with indigenous music.
• Join friends on a night trip out of town for fun
• Have a drink at a beach while enjoying nature’s beauty.
• Have a talk on the phone with a friend at a coffee or ice cream joint.
• Movie night at home for yourself.
• Karaoke night in a pub or club.
• Have a night riding if you have a car for fun?

SAFETY SECURITY: It a bit risky when you are out alone, some bad people might want to take advantage of your idleness so be very conscious.
Don’t over drink yourself to the extent of falling in the arms of predators ready to devour.
Before you site anywhere to have fun, please alert someone to know where you are and observe your surroundings.its a way of helping the security when something bad happen to you.

After all, said and done, don’t do this girl, remember you went out to party hard so don’t:
 Over drink and drive
 Don’t site when a song is playing just get up and dance.
 Don’t go or dance with anyone you don’t want to.
 Be confident and bold enough in order not to signal loneliness.

When all the above mention is taken care off, then THANK GOD it Friday.
Party hard like nobody business with no regret. Be yourself and relax but don’t be too open nor too rigid, who knows? You might meet awesome people to even hang out with but that not your focus point.
Remember it still possible to party hard even when you are single, that the spirit people.
Step outside and make the best of the day. Remember not to do want I want to do.
HAVE A FREAKY FREE FUN FREE FRIDAY.

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HOW TO:KUKS 15 LADY BOSS HABIT

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Am not bossy but am a boss in my own shoes,do you see yourself as a boss too? Then this my 15 lady boss habit.hope this helps if you are a lady boss or about to be,either ways enjoy.

 

POSITIVE CONFESSION:This is my first lady boss habit because every good achievement start with positive confession.when i failed my life some years ago,i mourn like a baby,but that didn’t stop me from picking my self from the pit.i said to myself “kuks you might have failed as an aspirant nurse but something greatness  await you.I never stop confessing greatness into my life.

 

GET ENOUGH REST: Resting is a basic necessity in the western world, people travel around the world in the name of resting but not in African setting, rushing for money we are not getting. Rest more when you have the means, resting refreshes the body, its put the mind in the right condition to function.

 

COMMUNICATE: Don’t over communicate or under communicate because your work involves people. I practically use to talk more but for some weird reasons, I realized it more effective when you do more listening and less talking.Ask the “W” questions to understand people well than thinking for them or jumping to conclusions.

 

EXERCISE: helps you to relax and it is the ultimate way to distress. I have lost almost fifty pounds in the last 7 month with confident, exercise boost your energy level and keeps you in shape.It also defines your personality and energy level,remember that positive energy obviously attract positive energy. Stay healthy and look healthy.

LISTEN TO LISTEN NOT LISTEN TO RESPOND: Pay attention to what others say (concerns), idea that you can get an inspirations from. As a girl boss, your main priority is to be creative and innovative, inspirations are mostly drown from people and things around you, don’t be malleable easily be a good listener.

 

UNPLUG: unplug all gadgets when working or when not. I will say unplug your mind too if you can; am saying if you can because not everybody is feasible to unplugging her mind. Social media has made us lost our sense of self and inner love, once a while let go all things around you and focus on yourself. Remember there is no love when you loss your self love.

 

BE KNOWLEDGEABLY UPDATED: Be better from who you are yesterday, learning to upgrade yourself in your field of expertise. Things are changing, new technologies, new ideas and new things are daily invented, so do you always have to be updated with what going on around you. Keep up with the world around you.Be always on top of your field or game.It signifies that,you know what you are doing.

LEAVE YOUR EGO BEHIND: I work with lot of people ,in my circles, human emotions are at risk because, allowing my ego to ruin the relationship you have built for year’s can easily be destroy without mending, Put away your heart and let your mind take over, in that case you avoid your ego from wasting others emotions.

 

PRIORITIZING: figuring out what most important and crucial at a particular time frame. I need camera, studio equipment, watch and bag. Which one do I need to buy first? Now am aware that, blogging with quality videos content attract more viewers which generate more money, at the other hand, buying watches I probably have more than one is a waste of moneys why don’t I make the money first by buying what can bring me money to buy the watch? it priority.

 

BALL ON BUDGET ALWAYS: over balling always break down business. People insanely rent house and act it theirs’, don’t buy if you can’t pay now, save for Gucci bag instead on credit.Dont create a brand you cant  consistently upgrade but start gradually outside and great in your mind and walk your way through out as your income grows.”As simple as ABC ”

 

INVEST IN QUALITY TIME WITH GOOD PEOPLE. Very essential, no play makes jack a dull boy,don’t ignore people all in the name of the word (BUSY),when people get use to your busy schedule, they adjust their lives and plans without you because you have made yourself busy everyday.A time is fast approaching when you wish for people to be close but will come when they will be nowhere to be found because when they wanted you  to hang around,you were busily chasing money. Plan quality getaways,picnics,movie night and have fun.shout out to BRIANT,LORRIE,CROW,MICHELLE AND AUGUSTINE,they know am the outing planner.life is good only with fun.

 

WAKE UP EARLY.I wake up as early as 4:30 am,my mind,soul and body is use to it,even without going or doing anything.waking up early helps to plan effectively and live within schedule.I will only be late at work only when I don’t wake-up late. You might not plan a day before but waking up early could at least help fix what you couldn’t do the night before.

 

DE-CLUTTER / TIDY UP: It’s a therapy for sound mind( descriptively)I am a cluttering freak,I love seeing things new always because I easily get feed up with things easily, don’t be chocked with your own filth,tidy up what not necessary,I will sweep and clear it as soon as I see on the floor. You cant be surround ed by me if you are not clean.you can also tidy up what in your mind,sometimes we keep unnecessary things in our mind to distress ourselves,meanwhile the person you worrying about doesn’t even remember what he or she did so she sees you and start playing with you and you feel foolish.decluter your minds too.As a label boss decluttering your email is a functional key in your daily routine,its help sort who you are done doing business with and who you have to or consider working with.it stress releasing lovelies.

 

BE WISE WITH FREE TIME: I believe in privacy,Even in relationships.who says you only leave your life with or for people alone?That not true,make good use of your free time.I cant say am perfect with free time management but am not that bad,i produce for five television show and direct five show in a day,coupled with my business and website and radio.Time is something i don’t have in a day so it baffles me when i see someone being idle.My spear times are mostly for writing,I start an article during my free time,copy in my mail and continue in my next free time in a trotro when going home.every single free time is schedule for something beneficial.

 

EMBRACE FAILURE: I fail by time and bounce back with time. I don’t want to the living both not growing up and down. learn to fail fast and rise up fast.I have fail million time. In the early stage of my confused career haunting.I pursue nursing for years but all proved unfruitful but i just gave it time. Picked my self back and tried something different and that the outcome of sharing this practical life experience with you today. what will my life be if i had not kicked myself up from my failure and stayed there?will i have been here? Every failure is a step to greater height because your life will never be the same when experienced and failure teaches you a big lesson. Pick yourself up darling,it just a face that will varnish soon.

ALL THE BEST IN YOUR BOSSLADY ENDEAVOR.

 

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10 BUSINESS YOU CAN START WITH NO MONEY OR LESS MONEY IN GHANA

10 BUSINESS IDEAS

“Do something today, that your future will thank you, than doing nothing at all  to say to the future. this words are often passed on to unemployed, you might not have a job but for how long are you waiting for white color jobs.”
Sometimes I wish I was born to a rich family like a lawyer and a doctor where I could have a nanny to take care of me, a driver to  drive me to school. come back from school, eat, sleep and enjoy every good thing at my beck and call.
I guess those wishes can be manifested  into reality with hard work and determination since I was born to a local cook and a farmer in the underdeveloped village.
But the question is, does where and who you were born to affect your destiny? of course not. Literally,80% of the below mention,i have done it before and am still doing it.i can testify so let dive inn.

 

1. PURE WATER RETAILING OR WHOLE SALE
pure water business is now the ishest buzz rocking town, everyone is selling water so is everyone buying water, a bag of sachet water is 2 gh cedes 50 pesewas from wholesale and retail is 3 ghcedis 50 pesewas.so do the calculation for just 50 backs in a day not even considering the cost of full bag which is 6 gh cedis,which leaves you a profit of 3ghcedis 50 pesewas as profit,maybe you are to shy to carry on your head, no problem distribute to retailers and make make some money. trust me this requires less or no money at all to start, you can even talk to the big trucks to supply you just 10 bags and come back for their money after sales, by the time they return, you might have finished selling it and then you pay them.
remember!trustworthy,honesty and good communication skills can take You places.

 

2. SUPPLY PASTRIES TO OFFICES OR SCHOOLS

A friend of mine sold pastries in schools to take care of her two little siblings through secondary education. what is your complain here, when I completed cake school, I was making some money from my craft so she took over after I had left my hometown, learn on the skills and now she prepares pastries to shops, offices and school, I know you’re saying I can’t do it, dear you can,even if you don’t have the money to pay for the skills, look for someone in your area who does stuff like that,confront her politely  to volunteer,the truth is that, such people always need extra hands.

 

3. SELL RECHARGE CARDS OR MTN MONEY TRANSFER

I Always prefer buying and selling daily use commodities which has a high demand, my first business after senior high school was selling recharge cards, this type of business demand high starters amount of cash to start,so talk to your parent or anyone  you know he or she mostly have cash that you can pay at the end of every day, mobile money is one of the booming business now, you get paid base on the commissions, being it cash in or cash.

4. START BLOGGING

BLOG! BLOG! BLOG! BLOGGING IS THE TREND OF THE DAY, you can do video blogging on you tube or social media or online blogging, trust me it not easy but hard work they say pays, if it’s website blogging or writing, get a committed developer who can help you throughout the process. find your niche and stay focus.am a lifestyle ans entertainment blogger myself so i know what am talking about.

5. ONLINE MARKETING
“Broniwawu” commonly called in Ghana is now washed, ironed and hanged on a mannequin and posted on Facebook or Instagram for high cost, you might not even have the money but you can sell others staff and earn a profit of which I do in my line of business. what our excuse now.through this online business I discover ahenema slippers and now am a proud owner of ahenemavibzgh .

6. CLEANING SERVICES

I was a secretary and a teacher at the same time with less than 500gh per month, I work from 6 to 7 pm in the evening, that even  when the last child leaves the school.
My salary was a chicken change, one day a friend told me he needs someone to help wash his stuffs for him, I grab the opportunity and earn 50gh in less than 3 hours…..i slept because I was tired,but  afterwards, I had a revelation when I work up, so I connected some of my colleagues and started doing kukus cleaning services. sooner than later I quite my job and employed people to supervise them to do the job with no loss or not less than 150gh or more in a day.
You might leave in a sub standard community but it will surprise you when you take a step forward.

7. INDOMIE JOINTOne egg crate, one box of indomie and some vegetables on a table. if you are like me, then, you will wait to save enough before you start because I dream big and porch and that has been my delay in life. start small and win big with focus and determination.

8. WATER MELON VENDING

Water melon is a seasonal fruit and trust me people patronize it a lot, I drive through the stretch of sakumono and Nungua and it always baffles me how the woman always has an increasing number of retailers who carry on their head for sale.
You might not carry it on your head because you a graduate or too much certy like me, just arrange on a table at busy joint and bingo.you making it

9. OVER HEAD OR TABLE STORE

I use to join my next door neighbor who works close to my office, so I join him most often when your girl want to save some fuel or tired of driving sometimes. Its amazing how my neighbor consistently by from the women carrying groceries on their head.gum, mints toffees, shoe polish,handkerchief, batteries, inhaler etc.
Those items doesn’t earn much much  but it baffles me how people buy those things,I observed that,the women never go home with same items they brought in the morning, meaning they make sales and earn profit, my neighbors customer told me that, people don’t value such business but it profitable to them.if not for anything, it helps me to support my husband and my kids so I cant complain,one woman added

10.TILAPIA JOINT

The least grilled tilapia joint in town is 8gh cedis, it goes higher and much as 40gh per a plate without banku at some restaurant, my regular joint was 16gh but just yesterday I went to my usual joint and I realized they have increased the price.corn is a cheap commodity in Ghana an you can never loss on that business.people are drifting away from meat to fish and that the trend in Ghana now.You can go wrong with this business.add office delivery,oh my sister,you life can never be same in Jesus name say Amen  to that

Don’t be a liability, by giving excuses to the economic situations in your country.dream high with unshaken drive and try my 09 business ideas you can start with 500 Ghana cedes or even no money at all.All the best.

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TO 10 INTERVIEW QUESTIONS EMPLOYERS ASK JOB SEEKER.

If you are looking forward to going for an interview, then this article is a must read. Many at times, job seekers qualify for a particular job based on their certificates, but in the course of an interview session, their answers to questions disqualify them.

Employers are smart, and there are some who intentionally drill job seekers just to know their reaction and type of response they give to questions.

In this article, we have put together the top 10 interview questions, every recruiter is likely to ask a job seeker.

Without wasting time, let’s get started.

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