Hello kukies
It’s a new day full of GOODNESS and Gods blessing. The weather is a bit cold here this morning in Ghana and am here enjoying tasteless apple Cider vinegar for God knows why, lol.
You are most welcome to my webpage,#relationshipchatroom, On this page we get acquainted with issues and concerns with love and share ideas base on our practical life experiences to encourage and inspire. Remember! We are totally individual from different CULTURAL BACKGROUND, BELIEVES, and understanding.
“One trick to easy life I have to learn is to keep my heart safe and keep to myself what I believe in and add up what necessarily beneficial for me”
I will proudly say with conviction that I miss boys in my life growing up because we are three girls and being the elders of them all, I had to live leadership by example.
Growing up, I was attracted to matured people than young men actually and that thought me a lot about men, I mostly feel like I didn’t mature gradually because I mostly rout with men.
Over a decade of my life MEN complain why they start a beautiful relationship with ladies and in less than a week they lose interest.OSANA! I might be one of those girls who easily gilt off guys at the slightest “ish” attitude and deem it a blessing to share because sharing actually is caring, my seven-year niece learned from kindergarten, lol
So this my personal tricks for healing yourself from breakups.
CRY! SHOUT AND EAT: I positively might not know why God added tears to human life but I think it was for the better, a lot of people argue with me when I ask victims of breakup to cry.trust me, crying heals.In my few years of existing I have cried so so many times, oh no not always shedding tears for breakups but just to heal the pain and get tired of crying.so heal with tears and don’t mind those who say” it fine, it is not fine because am hurt” believe it or not, we turn to cry even more when we are told to stop crying.
SET BOUNDARIES: It’s obvious that some of us, inclusively, we break up and still want to talk ourselves to death, no! no!dont stalk them.in as much as we stalk them, we also refuse to set those boundaries mentally, God In his own infinite mercies created memories to be part of humanity for several reasons, so do how we can manage what we want to remember and what we want to put behind us.
In most cases, so of our exes try to check up on us whilst we are sobbing our agonies or troubles,m dear!if he didn’t choose you to be with you, don’t choose to accept his or her sympathy.set that boundary.
HAVE A SOBER REFLECTION ON YOUR LIFE: OPTIONALLY SEEk for counseling if possible but I personally think you can do this because we are smart and brave.most often than not,75%of breakup has something to do with ourselves but we chose to ignore it.
I know someone who got married to a man who raped her, yes you heard me right, was she a fool?no, she was at her life stage she felt, she needed a man in her life.but the question is, was that man the right man at the point in her life? what reflection do you have in your life right now?is it the education that you need now, or a career or self-love?
Use this breakup for our good. start doing what you love or passionate about, reflect on your part of the relationship you think you were offline, analyze your mistakes and work at it.
CUT, BLOCK AND DELETE: I am one person I don’t take chances with people when am not comfortable because human beings can be poisonous, they will suck the hell out of your heaven, block, cut and delete them.self-healing is vital in breakups. its permanent and not temporary.this is the time of our life you need time for yourself to live and not time to watch your exes status or Instagram stories to spy on what and who they are with.erase them if you don’t stand to lose anything.
CHOSE SELF LOVE AND LIVE LIFE: I can recount my life and say that, I have not to experience breakup before but I have loved people who inturn never loved me back and that’s the beauty of life and love.
In the year 2014, I decided to choose self-love, celibate and enjoy my life with all that I can offer myself and not what others can offer me. besides, what can a man do for you.i won’t say loving someone is not good but loving yourself, without doubt, is the key or room for allowing someone better to love you.
I have not regretted loving myself without a relationship for over five years now.
In this years, I have found my real self and passion, my confidence level is higher, my competent level is massively elevating daily and the urge and the love for myself keeps upgrading.
So after that unbearable breakup, love yourself and chose to live!!
