FIRST TIME IN A ROOM TOGETHER.
Gist o gist ,herrrrhh you people, your ears sweet you ankasa.eeeeeiiii.
The moment you heard first TIME pekam!
Did he do the do?
Was he good?
how many runs did he go?
ooh no!
Take a chill pill beloved. Am bringing the game to your house, why are you rushing?
There is a lot at stake at the beginning of a relationship, so it pays to ask yourself the question,
HOW LONG SHOULD YOU WAIT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR NEW MAN?
This dude came in like we have known each other for years, removed his shoes, and said, am getting myself comfortable, dude what the ……
Boss laid down and all he said was “am hungry” because YOUR road was bad and I should have told him to bring a bigger car.
My brother, are you trying to tell me you have more than one car? well, that free so continue bragging. You can imagine my face, I was lost, who the hell do you think you are mister, do I live in the same house with you to know how many cars you owe? braggart!
Dude respect yourself. all in my head.🤪🤪🤪 he ordered pizza and coke, ate 3 slides and he was done. At this moment I was like hello! On a more serious note, why do men brag and women get worried about it? sister! the dude said he has this and that, what your peace huh? ladies when you meet men who brag too much, there are two things, either.
Insecurity and approval. Yes!
You met this cute guy, you kinda like him but all he wants is sex but you wanted a relationship, what will you do?
HOW LONG SHOULD YOU WAIT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR NEW MAN?
He tried all he could but it didn’t happen. Women turn to be wicked when men don’t get to satisfy their inner desires, Why?
Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship, but get intimate too soon and the experience can wreak havoc on your emotions and mess up an otherwise budding relationship.
Getting this right is the key to maintaining your dignity and confidence, not falling for the wrong guy, and keeping safe.
Whether you’re coming out of a long marriage or have been on an extended dating-hiatus, this is a new time in your life. Our bodies and minds work differently than they did at 20 or 30.
And this time you want to get your needs met in a grownup, relationship-minded way.
Listen, I’m all for having fun and enjoying some amazing sex. So if you’ve got long time yerning for sex just to make yourself happy go ahead.
Funny thing i observe growing up is that, sex was fan and most young people including me didn’t think or process anything like, will this last, is he the right man for me, will he marry me or anything in our 20s.
Babes it was all fun time any day but the moment you get to some age limit, things change and sex begin to loose it value in your life to who is the right person to journey with.
Matured persons place importance to
Does he respect his mother to extend that to women?
Is he kind enough to provide?
Does his vision and mine work hand in hand to push each other?
how does he survive or manage tough times?
Can i accommodate his attitude, anger and way of thinking.
So in my opinion, mature people DO NOT place high importance on sex on the first date unlike the younger ones because they have grown from
- how good is he?
- where is the party tonight?
- which city is popping this weekend.
- can he take me to shopping?
Since i am matured and now aware of my environment and who i wanted,sex was the least of my want, needs, dreams or goals.
Ladies and gentlemen, a matured person ready yo settle considers sex to be the least or last. don’t be deceived of “am serious and ready to marry Jagon they tell you.
Refuse to be pressured to settle for less and make reasonable choices you can be proud to embrace the mistakes.
So this is all that happen in our first time in a room together, NOTHING HAPPEN!
Oh you don’t believe me? well sooth your self
QUESTION OF THE DAY!!!
HOW LONG DO YOU HAVE TO BE INTIMATE WITH YOUR NEW BOO?
Does being intimate with a guy for the first time make any different?
Let continue the discussion in the comment section guys.
Until we meet again next week. Be Awesome!!
