Hello, lovelies,
It another lifestyle corner with yours crazily kuks, today we are tackling a sensitive issue or topic I think it’s worth briefing with you guys, get closer darling it might help you or your friends at work, wink!
Fortunately or unfortunately people go off, moody, frustrated and stress most often at work and you go like waaw, today is not really fun at work, why? Because of those, we laugh and play with are possibly in the spirit, lol obviously not but just inspiring negativity kills positive vibes.
Could it always be home or family issues?
unaccomplished or unfulfilled dreams or past?
Betrayals and disappointment?
Let me refer you to the worlds number one and first billionaire OPRAH WINFREY.
SHE WAS SACKED FROM HER JOB FOR CRYING ON AIR. STRESSED AND FRUSTRATED FROM RACISM COMMENT IN THE NEWSROOM, FIELD REPORT, SHEARED PAINFUL EMOTIONAL TEARS ON TOUCHY STORIES, BUT ALL SHE SAID” THE GREATEST OUTRAGEOUS ACT THAT WE MUST ALL DO IS TO HAVE THE COURAGE TO STEP OUT OF OUR PAST AND HISTORY SO WE CAN LIVE OUR DREAMS
OPRAY’SS JOURNEY IS PROOF THAT THE PATH TO SUCCESS IS RARELY EVER SIMPLE.
Even if it is, we still lose our balance to differentiate our feelings from home with how we feel at work. Mixtape I guess? My short period at work makes me rather pity some people especially when they worry and stress themselves to death without profit.
According to my observation, before I forget, our elders have a saying that, you can’t kill two birds with one stone, so separate work from home issues but hey it, not porridge to be stirring, you need Buckingham palace roles and order to pull through.
Now on the real business on what you actually eager to know.
Aside from family, relationship, children, etc, Some colleagues or friends get madly moody or frown when at work. Sweetie pie don’t be or better still get some hot pepper with boil egg of which I know you love it and free yourself with this bondage.
6 REASONS WHY PEOPLE UNNECESSARY GET STRESSED AND FRUSTRATED AT WORK
AM THE ONLY ONE DOING ALL: the champion Attah, Mayweather, all knower, this are the name they call such people. Darling, you are stress, moody and frustrated because you have proven so, with rejecting people’s idea or hard work. Obviously, you are a victim of proving negative relevance, your team members are tired of you that why you are stressed and frown doing all the job and dying.
What should I do then? Million dollar question, dear, human relationship is very vital in the cooperate world and the earlier you learn to improve your communication, teaching, appreciating others skills the better.
INTIMIDATION: This is my most difficult stressful factor I have seen people go through in cooperate places like mine for instance, the chances of a film student getting job and rising to higher level is impeccably massive than someone who studied agriculture, but darling on a more serious note you are at the wrong environment, the earlier you jeopardize your carrier or your hobby by learning from people, the better than feeling intimated, stress and moody.
Watch out for the continuation of the next story.
NEGATIVE LIFE OF RELEVANCE: This stress generated attitude is more energy killing than any other. In my field of expertise, some people unreasonably do everything just to be seen or to be recognized than equipping people to help them out. You are strong with high energy level today so you are directing, switching, producing and want to prompt? Darling is good to be multitasking but hey! all days are not equal you might need that help, your negative deceit of wanting to be relevant by one person could possibly blow out in a mass number of people or better still the whole world when you believe, inspire and equip people around you to work together to save the stress alone.
SELF CONFIDENCE: I have got myself kit Kat bar so before I continue with this particular point, let me breathe, take a bit and a sip some water first because it was one of my self-struggle as a plus size girl in the cooperate world where different sizes rob your faces every day. lol, let safe it for another blog yeah? God! Now self-confident, lack of it for that matter is common victimizing stress in my office. trust me some people even lose the little they have just because they are affected by this insufficient self-confident people because they inspired negatively, hindering people’s talent and capabilities due to their insufficiencies. You are a victim, right? No big deal next time help build someone’s confident, possibly you will be inspired to gather self-confident momentum.
“WORDS: can be like x-rays if you use them properly — they’ll go through anything. You read and you’re pierced.” ― Aldous Huxley, brave new world
This obviously is one of my favorite quotes. The bible says good and bad are in our tongue, how well you plant it, generate more harvest. But some people around makes as mad, stress us, moody, you name the rest….just because they are our supervisors, leader, bosses. If you had to change your words towards your subordinate, you would have helped someone to increase productivity.
LACK OF APPRECIATION: I am not actually moved when you appreciate me or not, you know why, am not perfect, I try my best in the little I do, let me know where am wrong and I will correct it myself and appreciate myself. I have come to a point in my life where people practically lack appreciation for what they do, so why will they say well done when they are practically doing more than you without being appreciated, but is that how the world should be? My dear don’t kill yourself, live life to the max if you are not appreciated.
I can go on and on this case, but I will advise you stop frustrating yourself on expecting much from people, there is all new level when you are appreciated, motivated and encouraged.so see through the pivot of where you fall short on the above discussed and heal yourself. I hope this little piece can go a long way to distress and free your frustration in any way possible? Please don’t hesitate to share your experience with us in the comment section because I love to hear from you.
Have a bless Friday!!!
Kuks
