THE QUESTION “WHAT NEXT” AFTER SEX WHO USED WHO
Have you ever asked “WHAT NEXT after sex before? May I know why you ask such a question after the sex and not before the sex?
Lately, I have been thinking about my life, past, and even my relationship with honor to my sexual life. One of the common adages that I have been wondering about is “KNOWLEDGE IS POWER” even the illiterate know this.
Does the word knowledge apply to certain parts of our lives and not others? Just asking because it seems knowledge only has powers over how humans make money or live a good life but not what to know before or after sex.
This thought has been echoing in my head like my own teeth grinding my favorite spicy chicken made by my mum. Back to the main business, let pounder on how people use the same knowledge to make worth, become a legend, and open doors for their generation.
Could it be that we don’t? I mean the other percentage of the average men or women who don’t or even still struggling to make it in life?
Sometimes, our parent says that our mistakes help us on our future path because we learn from it.
When it comes to modern-day relationships, we quietly learn none to little, not that we intentionally don’t want to ask but emotions say so?
Oprah once said, if you are waiting for someone to help or fix your life for you, then you are totally mistaken.
Contrary to women and in order not to be biased, men have countlessly been fooled(not totally) by sex and love.
Women love, make love, and still make mistakes with the opposite sex even when they are assured of being deceived.
He\she lies, abuse, deceive, break our inner soul, then we cry, talk over it then follows the word SORRY.
The word sorry always follows a romantic touch, whispering sweet words, cuddling, and finally sex again. Oh, say this again.
Men groan, women moan and afterward, we remember all the maltreatment and still continue to pity men or women even when we know in our inner souls that the pain still overdue the pleasure of groaning and moaning.
Have we wondered why we allow ourselves to be sexually satisfied without reasons even before the act? Ladies, have you ever imagined asking why a man will want to have sex with you?
I recently did and the guy was like, that sounds like an unexpected down/low of power supply.
Guess his reaction when you ask, tell me what happens after this intercourse compared to asking what next after the intimacy. lol
Let deliberate on ‘HE USED ME’ Sometimes I feel like this statement has been a little overused. Seriously. You don’t need psychic skills to identify a man who only wants to use you. It is often clear when he gets all over you with his prick trucking from earth to hell without any communication of his intentions.
It obviously means that my dick wants you but not me, This is where we have to stand firm to define what you want comparing to what he wants, maintain a strong sense of personality.
Am yet to hear a man say I have been used, it weird or rare to hear because men enjoy the moment and forget it but my women get attached after intimacy, after they have enjoyed the intimacy without a defined course then they come to say they have been used.
Sis, we are in 2020 please no more he has used me again, use your head instead of your heart.Please pick a woman or a man you want to have intimacy with, do the do and hold no grudge with anyone.
To my honorable fallas, I know it hard sometimes to know what you people want, that ghosty feeling you haunting for but please don’t get intimate with her if there has not been a thorough communication to mutually agree to be intimate to save the daylight. PERIOD!!!
