REDEFINE YOUR FRIENDSHIP BEFORE 2020 [VLOGMAS DAY 4}
You can’t talk about fake friends when you have not been betrayed fam! Just keep that lips quiet and let the bruisers talk about fake friends.lol. Do you agree with that? What happens when the one you have invested in your emotion turns to be fake? How do you strengthen that up? All of us, many times in our lives come across people who present themselves as friends. We come to trust them, spend time with them, but after a while, for whatever reason, their true nature shows itself. They may have mistreated you, ignored you when you needed help, or used you as a tool for their own gains.
I don’t know how men sustain and deal with fake friends better than women, can someone help me out plssssss?! Remember! you don’t get what you give out, keep that in mind but don’t keep blindsight when the writing on the wall is clear. Fake people can be hard to spot, it can be difficult to understand their goals and intentions. But they tend to fall into some categories.
COPY CAT: I believe in the adage that says there is nothing new under the sun” I totally agree but I can challenge you that, when two or more great minds come together, miracles happen. some people in your life will never add anything new in your life than to copy all that you have without using their hard work brains that God created for them. I am a blazer girl that my style?❤️, uniqueness they say is a variety of one’s mindset.so if you have a friend that always copy what you do, wear or even talk, be careful with such person.we ain’t taking that to 2020 period?
BOUJIE: Friends who think they are better or high in class than you. Fake friends don’t agree with anybody you are in a relationship with, criticize you for being with that friend or close to that boy, bougie! They always think your choices are less of standard but theirs is perfect. He or she sees you and pretend not to see you but smile and hug you like she’s just seeing you. Such friends always make you lose yourself confidently. Babe 2020 promises 100% self-confident so drop the boujie friend, end of the topic.?
EFFORT COMPRESSORS: I ask a friend how she sincerely thinks about my weight{106.3kg} because I was at that stage in life I knew something need to be done asap with my weight, she looked at me and told me am ok meanwhile I wasn’t. she started passing funny comment on my weightless journey that am just wasting my time.A year later she approached me and asked me to help her lose weight because she is gaining weight. what should I tell her? ?ADVICE: People only try to disagree or compress your effort because they need that change you want but certainly can’t do it(jealous) so they try hard to discourage your effort.
CLOUD CHASERS: This type of fake friend already has a master plan before getting close.They pretend to win your trust to get what they want and when they get it, they varnish-like ghosts. Rich people and public figures mostly attract such fake friends. They use your money or fame to achieve their selfish desires.
VICTIM MENTALITY: Victim mentality is a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility.While it’s important to claim the role of the victim if we have genuinely been victimized or abused, we cannot move on with our lives unless we step out of the victim role and into the survivor role.This type of fake friend reminds you of how poor they are but rich you are, how dumb but intelligent you are, how sad life is to lose a parent and how to bless you are to have everything at hour beck and call. They always create self -pity impressions, so you literally do everything for them. Beloved such friends are energy drainers. They just play victim to manipulate you to be responsible for them. These people are very dangerous because you only find out their true colors when you have invested too many emotions and energy into them?
Good friends empower each other, watch out each other’s back even in conflict, they don’t pretend or fake.
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