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WHATS THE RUSH?EMBRACE THE SLOWNESS.

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WHATS THE RUSH?WHERE ARE  YOU COMING FROM AND WHERE ARE YOU GOING?

My life seems slow?awwww am very sorry for you.honestly,before i sympathize with you,let me ask you this question.please with all due respect is there any thing you have learnt so far from this slowness in all aspect of your life?

You cant say no?especially when you have principles or morals.

Morally in my local dialect,there is a saying that “when god takes his stone,he doesn’t throw it fast”

So tell me in the comment section if you have not learnt any thing at all from this slowness?

Let me tell you mine:

My mom will say,you are growing so what your plans about marriage and i go like don’t worry in his own time.then she will start comparing Auntie Mary’s daughter who is married and I remind her of Auntie Afia’s daughter who rush into marriage and went mad after a year of emotional,verbal and domestic abuse.

I can go on and on.

My dreams of becoming a  nurse was shattered after long years of applying.

Everything of my dreams practically collapse right before my eyes and many more .

But through  it all,i have learnt to trust the process and embrace it.

 

BECAUSE:
“FOR EVERYTHING THERE IS A SEASON,A TIME FOR EVERY MATTER UNDER THE HEAVENS.
A TIME TO BE BORN AND A TIME TO DYE.
A TIME TO PLANT AND A TIME TO PLUG OFF WHAT YOU HAVE PLANT.
A TIME TO KILL AND A TIME TO HEAL.
A TIME TO BREAKDOWN AND A TIME TO BUILD UP.
A TIME TO WEEP AND A TIME TO LAUGH.
A TIME TO MOURN AND A TIME TO LAUGH.
A TIME TO THROW AWAY STONE AND A TIME TO GATHER STONES TOGETHER.
A TIME TO EMBRACE AND A TIME TO REFRAIN FROM EMBRACING.

SO WHAT THE BIG QUESTION HERE?
WHATS THE RUSH?
EMBRACE SLOWNESS.


I wish I can say this or write this article again when I have achieve my ambition as a blogger,TV Producer/Director but I have not gotten even close to what my mortal intelligence want my handwork to achieve.
Can I say,am having a slow life like what you saying or going through?
Most often than not,we go like,
God what is happening to me,my friends are getting married,all my classmate have accomplish our childhood dreams of becoming a nurse and married.I have tried nursing application for fifteen times in six years.

The people I sat in the same class are driving big cars and am always getting cold from smelling ampit of Trotro mate,honestly some  Trotro mate e realy have to do something about their smell, anyway .
I can use my life as an example,we are three girls,my younger once have two kids each when I was still a virgin.
I was a nanny taking care of others kids at the stage in my life when I was suppose to start taking my life to the next level.
Do you still thing your life is slower than someones?pulse and listen,go round observe and ask.You wil be marveled.
What is the rush darling?
Simply embrace the process.

A twenty four years old friend shared his emotional experience with me days back and that actually inspires me to write this article.I was very thankful to God for two reasons when he told his story,he said KUKS,I have made a very big mistake in my life and I don’t regret it.First positive effect of mistakes,I wanted a car and my brother advised me not to buy because he will buy me a car in good time,but being an entrepreneur and having money coming into my account,I ask myself what the heck?why should I wait for my family to buy me a car in their own God knows when.

So fast forward,he deposited money for a car and in few weeks,the car thought him a great lesson.Did he even learn enough lesson?he allowed himself again to be duped again in a car that barely cost 40% less than the  amount of the car.

The car never moved in a day without a fault, not forgetting that,his money got locked  in the first deal and again the second deal. kuks i have literally loan a lot of money to my friends that they have not even paid and now am stranded.

One lesson he told me he has learnt is that,he nearly had an accident with the second car and had to trek to his destination to borrow money from a good friend of his and all his friend could do for him is to buy him club and meat.He said MAN i don’t need this,all i need is some money to tow my car from the roadside to the owners. but guess what his friend said,I DON’T HAVE MONEY NOW.

So i ask him,why were you rushing to have all that?he said I THOUGHT I NEEDED A CAR.

One good reason to me base on this story  that made me happy is that he is just young and in such cases,it better you face such things at a young age to learn before it too late for you.so I advised him to thank God and not to be sad.

Another observation he made himself was that, you see your love ones when you are broke and depressed.this is a guy who actually like high  grade girls but when he encounter this,no high grader was available to help than his poor junior high school ex girl friend.

SO AM ASKING AGAIN,WHATS THE RUSH?

I have practically been delayed in literally everything in my life,but honestly that what my physical skull thinks but i promise you,you have no idea of how i have matured in all aspect,if not for anything,my five years celibate life has thought me what book or no man can ever make me understand and believe in.

I might not know which part of your life you are  facing slowness or stagnation,but there is one thing i know for sure.”ITS ALL PART OF GODS PLAN’

How will i inspire you today with this article if i had not gone through and embrace all the slowness,stagnation,disappointment and betrayal.

STEADFAST IN WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE IN AND TRUST THE JOURNEY. PEACE OUT.

 

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DON’T BE DECEIVED CELIBACY IS NOT KIDS PLAY, MY STORY.

celibate since 2014

Hey lovelies,
Trust me the chino smells awesome to know where to start from, am sipping “cappuccino” lol am all hot up but we will caption this anyways.

Today am sharing something delicate with you guys, however, I want to know what you think of celibacy?
Well, in my opinion, Most of celibacy encountering’s are for spiritual or religious obedience and health purposes.
To some religious rules, way of adding value to their personality, Building self-esteem but I kind of currently realized that it was just for self-competent and self-love.
In my previous article about losing my virginity, oh it rather about coming. I will explain how it took me a long time before losing my virginity. I was rich in my own way.
Growing up as the first child of the house I had to set examples for my younger once to follow but I guess they actually had their own agenda to break it before me.
In 2014, I experience some challenges in my life and career that lead me to depress and devastated.
I lost a job I presume God gave me, but fast forward five years today, God made me realized that, his plans are not mine and they are always for the good. So I told God that I need a stable life without any sexual relationship, I didn’t practically have this mentality of having sex or going into a relationship because of money and trust me, I was richer and confident without a man. So to say.
In my love life, I have never experience the love that I wanted apart from the one I crazily sacrifice, yes I did sacrifice my true love with useless traditions(pardon my language), I guess that will be a story for another time. let me know if you want me to share it in the comment section.
Fast forward, God answered my prayers and gave me a testimony without sweat and every Christian will say it was the doing of the lord and marvelous in my sight.
From that day, all my needs were miraculously met, it was from that day I promise God to stay off all immorality.
Lovelies, I have never regretted this journey with it related issues if you know what I mean people. Do you feel me?
I experience the love that was hard to get from mere men from the family God gave me.
I have uncounted a lot of amazing gentlemen that my decision has drifted their purpose, possibly not of God.
I can be here blabbing and say that God has been there throughout every step of the way in my 5 years celibate journey. IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON BECOMING CELIBATE, THIS IS MY ADVICE.

DON’T WATCH OR BE ADDICTED TO PORNOGRAPHY:I know what pornography is, way back from secondary school because am a biology student but watching it wasn’t my thing until my curiosity for finding my real orgasm sport(don’t ask me where?), some people don’t have orgasm no matter how or ways they have sex and self-masturbation can help diagnose it, but don’t trade it for sex. Addiction, as I understand, is a situation where you do one particular thing continuously for satisfaction but regret afterward. Yes, regret(personal definition). The chain for addiction is satisfaction-regret and loneliness.
It’s a big struggle and challenging when you get addicted to something so seek counseling if you struggling with pornography or email us hello@kuksonline.com to speak with our expert.

DON’T TRADE SEX FOR MASTURBATION. God in his own infinite intelligence knows that companionship is the necessity for human life that is why he added sex to human life, not when you are not married people, that is fornication. So kuks, Are you saying you have not fornicated before and you are holy? Am sorry am not holy, I use to be sex champion but mighty hands just rescue me. I have come across men who enjoy their women masturbate in front of them and some those who frown against it. What am I saying here? Simply don’t batter trade sex with masturbation when you claim celibate.

 

AVOID TEMPTATION BY NOT VISITING MEN: It was through few hours visit to a trusted friend that jeopardized my twenty-two years old self groomed virgin self. I don’t believe it when they say women are weak and vulnerable, they are not but some of us just surrender when it comes to sex depending on the situation and emotions.so if you are that emotional as some ladies give in to men lies when they claim they can’t control themselves because they love you and will have blue balls and pitifully give in to their desires. I practically understand that stage and you have to mature out of it.
If you know you are like that, then advise yourself from the kingdom of God is few meters away. lol, Stop visiting men or boys.

 

SPEAK OUT YOUR JOURNEY TO ANYONE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
The world navigates in the rule of “give and take”, yes give and take, even God gives us life and inhabit our praises, so how much more a mere man.
Men smile, waste time, waste money and gift out for a trade of sex. Sometimes they don’t even communicate their intentions verbally but still, get women to open up sex to them.
The earlier the better, speak out your journey to anyone you intend falling in love with, yes you can practically make up your mind to love someone because it all starts from the mind.
Be vigilant to those who claim to understand who you are and what you stand for as a celibate but still push you to do what you don’t want to do all in the name of love, some love IS foolishness.

 

MAINTAIN A STRONG MINDSET WITH THE WORD OF GOD.
This should have been the first thing to consider just at the mention of celibacy.
The struggle is real and you need a metallic mindset to stand. Sometimes you fall in love with someone who doesn’t believe in what you believe in and that is one of the greatest challenges when you chose to be celibate.
I have been there severally and I as ask God why? I have dated someone who later got married to someone else just because you have decided to get married before sex.
There is a wise saying that, “woman! Don’t remove our load of jewel just for a man to contain but you rather need a man with a heavy hand to be able to contain who you are.

On second thought, I realize, I value more than just sex and marriage.
The hand that will value and adore the inner woman in you and the lustful physiques that will pass with time.
THE WORD OF God is the strong weapon (Hebrew 4:12)
Fear not, for I am with you.
Don’t be afraid, for I am your God.
I will make you strong and help you.
I will support you with my right hand that brings victory. Isaiah 41:10.

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LIFE UPDATE|CAREERER|INTERNSHIP|NEW BUSINESS.

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